I'm 56, my first and last job as an employee I left at 26. I've been a self employed "S" Corp contractor ever since, I've been signing both sides of my paycheck since. My interest and curiosity and bursts of optimism in the face of utter tribal insanity have taken me all over the world.
My advice is to be neither an employee, nor an employer.
You don't have to agree with any of that cheap, free advice, it's ok. But my naive beliefs took me to Princeton, where I escaped unscathed, magna cum laude, and to MIT, totally for free, on a RA, for my masters. But, I didn't stay for my got-to-have-it-or-all-is-lost doctorate, either. I didn't leave to continue to build my resume, I left to build my life, and did, enjoying immensely the freedom to do so.
You don't have to do anything like what I did. Maybe there's lots of paths that work. But, I'm not going to debate the efficacy of at least one path that I know actually worked for this privileged spawn of white ... trash coal miners and penniless ex-Italian convicts fleeing to America. God Bless America.
You don't have to be optimistic about what I already did, but I don't have to pessimistic about what I didn't do. It's ok that we don't see eye-to-eye, we can both live with that.
I wasn't trying to encourage me, and I wasn't losing anything by trying to encourage you. It's dangerous to say this, but I'm not one of the One Pie World people. It's not a One Pie World. That's an excuse we make. We don't bake 'the' pie, we bake pies.
Go bake your pie. Can't compete with the phone companies, make something new--like Vonage. We all win when you make the effort.