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Dealing With Life after seperation from spouse

life after seperation

  • what is the next step

  • how to control sex urge

  • what happens when someone else comes int your life

  • how do you know if restoration is GODs will


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tapero

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Hi there, I think restoration is always God's will, in matters like these. Counseling for yourself and for your spouse if she would. Going to your pastor and asking for help and guidance and prayer. I think prayer helps you get through everything. Forgiveness is important too. I think that takes time because often both are so hurt. I pray for you and pray God's blessing on you.:hug:
 
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Hi there, I think restoration is always God's will, in matters like these. Counseling for yourself and for your spouse if she would. Going to your pastor and asking for help and guidance and prayer. I think prayer helps you get through everything. Forgiveness is important too. I think that takes time because often both are so hurt. I pray for you and pray God's blessing on you.:hug:
thank you my friend
 
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The calendar cures alot. If you had fallen and broken you leg, you would favor it, nurture it and gone to a physician for help.

Take the time to heal from an emotional wound as well. Do not rush things. Keep busy doing things that are not emotionally draining for awhile and "this too shall pass".

Restoration is not only God's desire, it is His speciality.
 
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I agree with what the others have told you, next stepI think you need to forgive yourself & your spouse God will forgive you also .find you a good Church & stay in there ,pray without ceasing God will help you get thru it all ,let Him lead you I will pray for you may God bless you
 
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