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davedjy

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Already posted it on here. Go back and try again. It's the part in bright red, remember?

Not that it matters, you only hear what you want to and no one can change that.
No, I want the counter of that verse in Leviticus 18:22.

I want the one that says "thou shall not lie with WOMANKIND as with MANKIND".

No such verse exists in either chapter (18 or 20)

I can easily argue you are straight, and you only want to hear what you want to hear, as well.
That isn't a credible debate point.
 
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The basic point was made in a culture that didn't need to hear a further elaboration, in regards to Leviticus 18:22. Just like idolatry only needed to be mentioned regarding Molech (though there are many various idols), the point was made clearly in that simple verse: "Do not reverse the order of creation."
 
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I'm sorry but what you're saying here doesn't make any sense.

I am sure it made perfect sense to others, including those having given rep points for the post.

If it is not making sense, then may I suggest you review the line of argumentation you have engaged in and read my statement within its proper context.

If you need me to break it down for you, I would be happy to do so.

You labeled an argument by another poster as a logical fallacy.

I said doing so does not make it a logical fallacy. Wrongly labeling an argument as a logical fallacy does not make it a logical fallacy.

I was saying, by implicaiton, the argument you labeled as a logical fallacy was not a logical fallacy . . I was simply trying to save some room and chose to state it more simply than this.

Not really, all I was saying is that the poster was trying to negate my argument by basically saying that the statement was not true. Since I did not make the statement myself I was relying on a source.

Of course, but if you are going to use it, and your source is called into question, then either be preared to defend it or yield and admit it is not defendable.

Simply dismissing the argument against it the way you did is a cop out.

So, it is basically their word against the word of my source: Same Sex Relationships in the Bible. Ontario Consultants on Religious Tolerance. http://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_bmar.htm#dav. 28 February 2007.

And what makes this a valid source? What justifies this source as having any real validity?

The source I used is a true scholar and much respected for his expertise in the ancient langauges.


Who is to say which is correct?

If you can't defend your source, then you have used your source invalidly, and your supposed "evidence" is invalid and you have proven nothing. If you yourself can't know if your source is right, then we throw out your source as a valid source of factual information.

In a court of law, such a response would immediately invalidate your witness . . . a witness is brought to bear to determine the truth of a matter. If you can't prove that the testimony of your witness is credible, then its testimony is thrown out, dismissed .. .

This is just what you said about your own source with your words above. Thank you for confirming what we have been saying about your source .. it is invalid and not credible om this matter.

Actually, if you re-read the discussion you will see why it fits in the argument, let me explain:

The poster stated that the claimed that David and Jonathan did not have a homosexual relationship because someone would have found out about it and would have disqualified David from being king.

I stated that it is quite possible that David and Jonathan had a closeted relationship. Not to mention that the above claim is illogical, just because something probably wouldn't happen doesn't mean that it didn't.

When do you think these things were written? How would the author have gotten ahold of the information regarding Jonathan and David? When would that informaiton have been known? Obviously it was common enough knowledge for it to have made its way into the scriptures, so if these things meant something other than deep friendship, then it was commonly enough known and yes David would have been disqualified as King, and stoned and Jonathan too.

So, your argument falls flat just by the application of simple reason and logic.

Now, something that has not happened in this thread yet is the dismantling of the initial arguments using scriptures from 1 and 2 Samuel . . . this is because up till now, many have not been aware of tools available on the net. Blueletterbible.com has just put in the Greek Septuagint translation of the Old Testament, made hundreds of years before Christ . . .this translation is extremely important for it shows us better how to understand some difficult passages (or such passage as some try to make difficult as we see here).

So, in looking at the Hebrew and Greek Septuagint side by side we see something very, VERY interestin.

Remember our discussion of AGAPE LOVe? That pure, non-sexual love?

Well . . there is something very interesting here . .

Let's look at this verse:
2Sa 1:26 I am distressed for thee, my brother Jonathan: very pleasant hast thou been unto me: thy love to me was wonderful, passing the love of women.​

The Hebrew word is 'ahabah.

So what Greek word was used to translated 'ahabah?

AGAPE!

If this verse was speaking of any type of sexual love, then the correct Greek word to use would have been EROS.

But this is NOT the Greek word used.

AGAPE! is the Greek word used.

CASE CLOSED.

Now let's look at another verse used, but in a different way:
1 Samuel 20:41 And as soon as the lad was gone, David arose out of a place toward the south, and fell on his face to the ground, and bowed himself three times: and they kissed one another, and wept one with another, until David exceeded.​


Now, let's look at all instances in the scripture where we find "and they kissed" . . it is quite interesting, for most include "weeping" and or obeisance (bowing) . . . .
Gen 33:4 And Esau ran to meet him, and embraced him, and fell on his neck, and kissed him: and they wept.

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Exd 18:7 And Moses went out to meet his father in law, and did obeisance, and kissed him; and they asked each other of [their] welfare; and they came into the tent.

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Rth 1:9 The LORD grant you that ye may find rest, each [of you] in the house of her husband. Then she kissed them; and they lifted up their voice, and wept.

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Rth 1:14 And they lifted up their voice, and wept again: and Orpah kissed her mother in law; but Ruth clave unto her.

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Act 20:37 And they all wept sore, and fell on Paul's neck, and kissed him,​

Now, following the logic that has been presented regarding the original verse in the OP, all of these would be speaking of homosexual relationships as well. . . .

That is patenty absurd. This shows the absurdity of insiting this verse regarding Jonathan and David means anything of the sort either . . .




Argumentum ad odium

That is indeed a good self description of your own posts.


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The basic point was made in a culture that didn't need to hear a further elaboration, in regards to Leviticus 18:22. Just like idolatry only needed to be mentioned regarding Molech (though there are many various idols), the point was made clearly in that simple verse: "Do not reverse the order of creation."
How is this "reversing the order"...I would need to see scriptural proof of that one, please.
 
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No, I want the counter of that verse in Leviticus 18:22.

I want the one that says "thou shall not lie with WOMANKIND as with MANKIND".

You've made it clear what you want, unfortunately what you want doesn't matter and doesn't change anything. "do not lie with a man as you would a woman." It doesn't say a particular man or a particular woman so it's pretty much ANY man and ANY woman here. No amount of wordsmithing will get around that...except for completely omitting the book of Leviticus which means you might as well start your own religion!

I can easily argue you are straight, and you only want to hear what you want to hear, as well.
That isn't a credible debate point.

...except for the fact that you already admitted that you purposely ignore parts of scripture simply because you don't feel they apply to you.

There's plenty of wrong a heterosexual can get in by the Bible's standards, but I don't ignore those scriptures because I really want to be able to hook up with whoever I want.

I could have a deep, loving relationship with my cousin and us getting together would still be wrong...and gross. :sick:

So are there any verses that specifically say "homosexuality is okay as long as it's done between two people that love each other?" Until you can provide something like that the burden of proof is once again on you.
 
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BigMike835 said:
...except for the fact that you already admitted that you purposely ignore parts of scripture simply because you don't feel they apply to you.

I admitted I ignore parts of scripture? now you are twisting my words! I said no such thing, I have interpretations for what I'm talking about. Please do not twist what I'm saying.
 
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I am sure it made perfect sense to others, including those having given rep points for the post.

If it is not making sense, then may I suggest you review the line of argumentation you have engaged in and read my statement within its proper context.

If you need me to break it down for you, I would be happy to do so.

You labeled an argument by another poster as a logical fallacy.

I said doing so does not make it a logical fallacy. Wrongly labeling an argument as a logical fallacy does not make it a logical fallacy.

I was saying, by implicaiton, the argument you labeled as a logical fallacy was not a logical fallacy . . I was simply trying to save some room and chose to state it more simply than this.



Of course, but if you are going to use it, and your source is called into question, then either be preared to defend it or yield and admit it is not defendable.

Simply dismissing the argument against it the way you did is a cop out.



And what makes this a valid source? What justifies this source as having any real validity?

The source I used is a true scholar and much respected for his expertise in the ancient langauges.



If you can't defend your source, then you have used your source invalidly, and your supposed "evidence" is invalid and you have proven nothing. If you yourself can't know if your source is right, then we throw out your source as a valid source of factual information.

In a court of law, such a response would immediately invalidate your witness . . . a witness is brought to bear to determine the truth of a matter. If you can't prove that the testimony of your witness is credible, then its testimony is thrown out, dismissed .. .

This is just what you said about your own source with your words above. Thank you for confirming what we have been saying about your source .. it is invalid and not credible om this matter.



When do you think these things were written? How would the author have gotten ahold of the information regarding Jonathan and David? When would that informaiton have been known? Obviously it was common enough knowledge for it to have made its way into the scriptures, so if these things meant something other than deep friendship, then it was commonly enough known and yes David would have been disqualified as King, and stoned and Jonathan too.

So, your argument falls flat just by the application of simple reason and logic.

Now, something that has not happened in this thread yet is the dismantling of the initial arguments using scriptures from 1 and 2 Samuel . . . this is because up till now, many have not been aware of tools available on the net. Blueletterbible.com has just put in the Greek Septuagint translation of the Old Testament, made hundreds of years before Christ . . .this translation is extremely important for it shows us better how to understand some difficult passages (or such passage as some try to make difficult as we see here).

So, in looking at the Hebrew and Greek Septuagint side by side we see something very, VERY interestin.

Remember our discussion of AGAPE LOVe? That pure, non-sexual love?

Well . . there is something very interesting here . .

Let's look at this verse:
2Sa 1:26 I am distressed for thee, my brother Jonathan: very pleasant hast thou been unto me: thy love to me was wonderful, passing the love of women.​

The Hebrew word is 'ahabah.

So what Greek word was used to translated 'ahabah?

AGAPE!

If this verse was speaking of any type of sexual love, then the correct Greek word to use would have been EROS.

But this is NOT the Greek word used.

AGAPE! is the Greek word used.

CASE CLOSED.

Now let's look at another verse used, but in a different way:
1 Samuel 20:41 And as soon as the lad was gone, David arose out of a place toward the south, and fell on his face to the ground, and bowed himself three times: and they kissed one another, and wept one with another, until David exceeded.​


Now, let's look at all instances in the scripture where we find "and they kissed" . . it is quite interesting, for most include "weeping" and or obeisance (bowing) . . . .
Gen 33:4 And Esau ran to meet him, and embraced him, and fell on his neck, and kissed him: and they wept.

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Exd 18:7 And Moses went out to meet his father in law, and did obeisance, and kissed him; and they asked each other of [their] welfare; and they came into the tent.

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Rth 1:9 The LORD grant you that ye may find rest, each [of you] in the house of her husband. Then she kissed them; and they lifted up their voice, and wept.

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Rth 1:14 And they lifted up their voice, and wept again: and Orpah kissed her mother in law; but Ruth clave unto her.

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Act 20:37 And they all wept sore, and fell on Paul's neck, and kissed him,​

Now, following the logic that has been presented regarding the original verse in the OP, all of these would be speaking of homosexual relationships as well. . . .

That is patenty absurd. This shows the absurdity of insiting this verse regarding Jonathan and David means anything of the sort either . . .





That is indeed a good self description of your own posts.


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I see that those who support an interpretation of David and Johathan's relationship as being homosexual have totally ignored this post above which demonilishes their reliance on scriptures to somehow support their position.

This is very telling . ..

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I see that those who support an interpretation of David and Johathan's relationship as being homosexual have totally ignored this post above which demonilishes their reliance on scriptures to somehow support their position.

This is very telling . ..

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weird that you and I might agree on something, no, TLF?
 
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people have given clear, concise biblical passages to support their positions.

the only things that seem to support yours, is Isogesis.

You are calling something a "false doctrine" based on your preferences.
Oh ok, so my interpretations are isogesis, but yours are factual interpretations? How many denominations are there that believe differently?

You are equally not respecting my beliefs, yet I am gay, and have a relationship with Jesus Christ, and I have reconciled with both. I don't need some false doctrine to tell me that I am wrong, when I know I'm OK and right with God....
 
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You are equally not respecting my beliefs, yet I am gay, and have a relationship with Jesus Christ, and I have reconciled with both. I don't need some false doctrine to tell me that I am wrong, when I know I'm OK and right with God....

The strongest lie is the one you tell yourself.
 
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Oh ok, so my interpretations are isogesis, but yours are factual interpretations? How many denominations are there that believe differently?

You are equally not respecting my beliefs, yet I am gay, and have a relationship with Jesus Christ, and I have reconciled with both. I don't need some false doctrine to tell me that I am wrong, when I know I'm OK and right with God....
I only mean that Isogesis is adding meaning to a text.

Such as suggesting that what Romans is saying has anything to do with temple prostitutes, It simply isn't there.

nor is their any meaning, implied or otherwise, that the relationship between David and Jonathan was homosexual.

Mine is not a denomonational view point. I hold to no denomination.


Your relationship with God is between you and He, and not my concern. However, I will argue meaning in scripture that is quite evidently ABSENT.
 
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