You can't help but notice the gradual acceptance of homosexuality in our churches, theology, & literature. I suspect that it is only a matter of time before someone slips in the line, "I wish I knew how to quit you!" into the David/Jonathan dialogue. Can the Great Tribulation come soon enough?
If this happens in your church, I strongly suggest that you "come out of her," as is commanded in Revelation 18:4. I believe that time is running out for the Christian Church here on earth. There was no such acceptance of homosexuality in OT worship circles, only stoning.
Any intimation of David's character, if one feels the need, should be done in light of his entire life as recorded in Scripture. When David is described in the Bible as a man after God's own heart, does that indicate to you that God the Father was gay too? Wake up!!!
I pray that the Holy Spirit quickens the elect, lest they perish.