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Dating thoughts

Feelings about not going out on dates?

  • Upset a lot

  • UPset somewhat

  • not upset


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Luther073082

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It would be nice to be out with someone every weekend but since I'm the guy that can be rather rough on the pocketbook.

I personally would really rather focus my attentions on a smaller group of candidates or something.

It is nice because I do have something to do almost every Friday (If not then Saturday) with the dancing thing. Most often its on Friday and on Saturday I don't mind taking the whole day and relexing. Sometimes it gets lonely but I really value time to myself.
 
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Im_A

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I've never really dating - not traditionally anyway.

So how do you all feel about dating?

Are you upset that you are home on "date" nights?

I never was upset because I had never been on dates.

no because i know i'm not over my ex yet so i don't see any logical reason to waste my money and time on some woman that i don't really care about in the sense of relationships.

God will either change this or this will be this way for a very long time.
 
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MzSnowleopard

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Sometimes it bothers me- sometimes it doesn't.

If I go out with a group and everyone pairs off- I'm usually the odd one out. That is uncomfortable...

If I'm staying home- I'm fine with not having a date- it's when my friend Tracy calls me to brag about her social life. That bothers me.
 
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Beauty4Ashes

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It used to bug me a bit. But not anymore. I'd much rather hang out with friends. Guys in the romantic sense=heartbreak from my experience. I'd much rather be happy and spend time with people in ways that aren't going to end up breaking my heart. I've had more than enough of that kind of pain in my life time. So, no, I don't think I'm missing anything. I am doing my very best to avoid falling into that trap of wanting to date people again, because it tends to be a downhill slipperly slope for me.
 
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