dateless waif club

[Living4Him03]

At least I know why I'm alone lol ...oh well. What I can contribute to a relationship is nothing compared to what this guy can contribute. I have to ask myself do I really genuinely have anything to give at this point? I just dont know.

 

[Fatolia]

I'd say try not to think of him in the context of a relationship. That's the way that fantasy can easily sneak into your thoughts. Try the hardest you can not to think of him in that way at all. I've had to constantly remind myself that Jesus is my one true lover, over and over again. I'm going out with the guys tomorrow; I've spent too much time with girls lately...

 

[Lbiagm]

i am still dateless but i like a few girls.

 

[Living4Him03]

I'd say try not to think of him in the context of a relationship. That's the way that fantasy can easily sneak into your thoughts. Try the hardest you can not to think of him in that way at all. I've had to constantly remind myself that Jesus is my one true lover, over and over again. I'm going out with the guys tomorrow; I've spent too much time with girls lately...

I spend ALL my time with women...at my intership all women, in classes all women. I'm sick of it. I think you are assuming that your situation is similar to mine or that I think in the same way you do. Please don't assume this about me when you don't fully know the situation. Thank you.

 

[Out of the Flames]

Wow...Long time, no see, LB. Where have you been hiding this last few weeks?


Being alone this weekend isn't bothering me in the slightest right now. I may go hang out with the pseudo-boyfriend later. Or I may stay home and do laundry. We'll see. I'm not all up ons the whole hot and cold thing.

 

[Fatolia]

I spend ALL my time with women...at my intership all women, in classes all women. I'm sick of it. I think you are assuming that your situation is similar to mine or that I think in the same way you do. Please don't assume this about me when you don't fully know the situation. Thank you.

Woah woah...sorry I didn't mean it like that. I'll shut up now.

 

[Tenorvoice]

Hey there ya'll just an up date here.


A few weeks ago I wrote a young lady in the church that I attend and poured my heart and sole out to her. I told here how I had been battling with just coming out of a relationship that turned realy sour (which she already knew) and I told her that what she didn't know was that~ I had been praying for weeks on end to ask God to please take the feelings that I have for her away. The only thing that I was looking for in life was to serve Him and do His will for my life. I wanted to veiw my Christian Sisters as nothing more than that at this time in my life. Well I have been able to do this (with the Lords help of course) with all of them except this one young lady (by the way I am 27 and she will be 20 in Nov.) I told her that no matter how hard I try I can not get her off of my mind, thoughts and heart. I told her that I did not want to interfere with her schooling or our friendship if this was not God's timing for our lives. I told her that I also (no matter what) did not want to loose her friendship or her parents, since I cherished it very much.
Well she and I finally have been able to sit down and talk about a few things. As it stands right now, we both feel that we need to get to know eachother better, before we try and pursue a relationship. But she did say that she cares for me fairly well. So she asked a few questions and so did I. We talked for about 2 hrs that night and I stayed over at her house for her sisters b-day party last night untill 2am with she and I just talking.


I do not know yet where we are heading but things look good so far. (I just do not want to get my hopes up).

Peace to all, I am off to my Deacons' meeting in a little while.

TTFN

 

[Living4Him03]

Sounds awesome Tenor! Keep us updated! God bless you

 

[Lbiagm]

i been around out of the flames.

 

[Tenorvoice]

Hey there yall.......

We start our services in our new church building today. After three years of planning, praying and dreaming it is finally a reality.

PRAISE GOD!!!!!!

We have not had everyone in the same service in about 3 1/2 years now. It is going to be great to have everyone there for a change, all at the same time. But if all goes according to plan we will be back in two services by Oct. So be praying for us.

Peace and Joy in the Lord Always.

Tenor

 

[bubblegirl23]

I'm probably the most dateless being disabled with an immune deficiency. No, not AIDS. Severe allergies to common products like deodorants & fragranced products & cleaner.... there's a long list!

So I'm signing in.... do I get a free voucher or something?

 

[Thithy]

Dateless, and not so desperate signing in.

 

[stonetoflesh]

I'm probably the most dateless being disabled with an immune deficiency. No, not AIDS. Severe allergies to common products like deodorants & fragranced products & cleaner.... there's a long list!

So I'm signing in.... do I get a free voucher or something?

What are you, some kind of hippie? Sorry, just kidding; I don't mean to make light of yr allergies... My friend's former hippie roommate at uni thought that divorce rates were high because of bathing (we're not letting our pheromones waft about) and our immune systems are weaker because of washing (esp. with antibacterial soap). SERIOUSLY. Apparently the guy and his gf never used any soap or anything the whole time my friend lived with them; just lots of sage, patchouli oil, etc.

 

[Thithy]

What are you, some kind of hippie? Sorry, just kidding; I don't mean to make light of yr allergies... My friend's former hippie roommate at uni thought that divorce rates were high because of bathing (we're not letting our pheromones waft about) and our immune systems are weaker because of washing (esp. with antibacterial soap). SERIOUSLY. Apparently the guy and his gf never used any soap or anything the whole time my friend lived with them; just lots of sage, patchouli oil, etc.

I'd rather be dateless than smelly.

 

[Lbiagm]

still dateless.

 

[bubblegirl23]

I use the natural soaps I can complete with bacterial killers The soap base isn't what makes me so sick - it's the fragrances & moisturising chemicals etc.

I bathe often and clean my own bathroom.

Here's a challenge for you: find a soap in your supermarket that does not contain any laureats, EDTAs, tetrasodiums, titanium dioxides. It won't be easy, but they are out there!

We aren't hippies either Before I became sick from the chemical accident at 16 I was perfectly normal and so was my home life.

 

[ChrisB803]

Just signing up for the dateless club. It's a long story, so if you're interested let me know, otherwise I'll not bore you.

 

[rainbowprism]

You know what, I think this is really bad. I don't even want a boyfriend anymore...it's been so long I just don't see that point to trying to have one or deal with that kind of pressure.

 

[rainbowprism]

Thithy and Spacedout...I don't believe you meant to be but even I found what you said hurtful and it wasn't directed at me. Please be a little bit more considerate of our Christian sister.

 

[wildthing]

still dateless.

Me too. I could offer a gal a hundred dollars and still be turn down. I think if I every get my digital camera figured out on how to do self photos I will post a photo and let the gals of CF diss me.