As far as I can see, this is your construct and your paradox, not scripture's and not Wesley's.
Global Ministries - John Wesley, Sermon 57, On the Fall of Man
I apologize in advance if I understand your position.
Adam and Eve were created in the image and likelness of God, with many of his attributes, but they were NOT God. They did NOT possess knowledge. It is not clear to what degree they even had life, having not yet eaten from the Tree of Life.
from Wesley as quoted by Oden
"Man and woman, having spirit, reason, will and liberty, akin to God, nonetheless "choose evil". This is Scripture's "plain, simple account of the origing of evil".
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For Wesley, Adam, through his will chose to disobey God. His disobediences is often called the sin of pride.
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In any case, there is no mention of knowledge before Adam ate of the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil.
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For Wesley, Adam had free will and sinned and greatly damaged (but did not destroy) the image of God within him. We inherit the natural tendency to sin. We inherit the consequences of Adam's sin: the tendency to sin, hard work, childbirth, and natural death. We inherit the separation between man and God. Jesus in the Way to breech that gap, through our acceptance of Jesus and through our following him.
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IMHO, we are to be in a better state than Adam, having accepted God with the knowledge of the alternatives, as well as with faith and with obedience.