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It is like giving two messages, I bought a stretchy comfortable dress yesterday with some frill on it and it looked fine on me. Within my modest parametres. The lady said I should preferably use bra that adds cleavage and underwear that are black. At home I tried that but well, then It looked like Dolly Parton from waist to boob but with a bigger booty so I decided that the dress is ok in some places without any extra 4 inch cleavage. Would not bring it to church but maybe to beach, We need not send seductive messages. It could create jeallousy, anger and sadness too. It is way too common today for women to seduce by pushups and squeesers and what is gained, glances. If clothes has to come off then it will become a disappointment for the man because the boob was half plastic or material. Then the woman sets herself up for disappointment when she advertise that she has something which she hasn't got. No wonder He runs to a fatter woman with bigger boobs if that is what is all He is out to get. You be You and sooner or later someone will come along that like or love You for who You are. But if You dress up for Your own selfish You, it is understandable but it is also a bit cheat treat.
 
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