My Ex is holding our kids away from me, so that on paper she can claim alot of child support. in court she's fighting me every step of the way to have it written down that im only seeing them 20 or even 15 % of the time, but they are with me regularly. i've got orderes that are very vague. they said that its' joint physical joint legal and times will be arranged by parents. she fights me EVERY step of the way, but the kids are the only casualties in this. how can i fix this? take her back to court because she's playing the 'we cant agree' card so it's limiting my kids coming home. she wont let them come home over night or anything,..what too do? will the court listen? does anyone up there care about dads ? i love my kids to death and will not stop fighthing, but it's hard and i need to invest my fighthing strength into something that will work..and before anyone posts this - i cant afford a lawyer