Crushless Thread 2012

[MacFall]

Heh. If I waited for someone to crush on me before I got out of my funks, I'd be depressed pretty much forever.

I just need to stop going to a particular store where a particular woman works as a cashier, really. I did have a crush on her, once upon a time. Thankfully, a short one. But it still reminds me of just how hopelessly single I am when I see her, and then it takes me a couple of days to get over it.

 

[Rob_Skellington]

Heh. If I waited for someone to crush on me before I got out of my funks, I'd be depressed pretty much forever.

I just need to stop going to a particular store where a particular woman works as a cashier, really. I did have a crush on her, once upon a time. Thankfully, a short one. But it still reminds me of just how hopelessly single I am when I see her, and then it takes me a couple of days to get over it.

If I stopped going to places where I was reminded of that, I'd become a legitimate hermit.

 

[SOLDIER ❤]

I think the worst part for me is that now that I'm twenty-seven, people have stopped saying "It's okay, you've got time." Now my parents are starting to wonder if there's something wrong with me that's preventing me from finding a woman. I've been trying to convince them for the past six years that it's because I'm disabled.

I cant stand when people say, "No boyfriend yet? Why?". If I knew I'm sure I wouldnt be single.

 

[PeculiarTreasure]

I think the worst part for me is that now that I'm twenty-seven, people have stopped saying "It's okay, you've got time." Now my parents are starting to wonder if there's something wrong with me that's preventing me from finding a woman. I've been trying to convince them for the past six years that it's because I'm disabled.

You're not alone Rob. I'll be 29 this year and well I haven't even had my first bf.

I know people in there 30's that aren't with anybody and some in their mid 30's that just have gotten married.

The right girl will not mind your disability. In fact, a handful of some guys I've liked in the past has had a disability.

I understand where you're coming from though. I feel the same way about my weight....

 

[SOLDIER ❤]

You're not alone Rob. I'll be 29 this year and well I haven't even had my first bf.

I know people in there 30's that aren't with anybody and some in their mid 30's that just have gotten married.

The right girl will not mind your disability. In fact, a handful of some guys I've liked in the past has had a disability.

I understand where you're coming from though. I feel the same way about my weight....

^ Same exact feeling.

 

[Owlette]

As a single person, can most of you say that you are happy?

 

[.Mikha'el.]

You're not alone Rob. I'll be 29 this year and well I haven't even had my first bf.

I know people in there 30's that aren't with anybody and some in their mid 30's that just have gotten married.

The right girl will not mind your disability. In fact, a handful of some guys I've liked in the past has had a disability.

I understand where you're coming from though. I feel the same way about my weight....

Yeah, but you have been making progress with that, Crystal. Just keep at it!

 

[Somber]

As a single person, can most of you say that you are happy?

I'm happy

 

[SOLDIER ❤]

In truth I can say I have my ups and downs, but I can't say that my happiness counts on the the fact that I have someone in my life. It's what I do with my life that makes me happy.

 

[.Mikha'el.]

As a single person, can most of you say that you are happy?

I'm miserable. But I also know that there are more important priorities right now than getting into a relationship.

 

[PeculiarTreasure]

I have my up's and downs too. With the help of my family and of course Jesus I always get through it.

Would I like someone in my life? Yes, of course but it's by no means a necessity.

 

[.Nevermore.]

Eh, I'm a relatively happy single person. I try to focus my mind on other things.

 

[Owlette]

I'm happy

That's good

In truth I can say I have my ups and downs, but I can't say that my happiness counts on the the fact that I have someone in my life. It's what I do with my life that makes me happy.

This is how I feel, sometimes I have ups and downs, but for the most part I am happy with where I'm at.

I'm miserable. But I also know that there are more important priorities right now than getting into a relationship.

Aw. Hope you're not miserable for long!

 

[MacFall]

As a single person, can most of you say that you are happy?

Usually - and generally - yes. Right now I'm depressed, but that's not always so. But being happy doesn't mean I'm happy about being single. I just treat it as one of the many things that I would like to change but know I can't, and in spite of which I have learned to have a fulfilling life.

 

[.Nevermore.]

Good thing about not having a crush/boyfriend/whatever else could be considered in this category, is that I have more time for my paintings.

 

[MacFall]

This is how I feel, sometimes I have ups and downs, but for the most part I am happy with where I'm at.

sometimes I have ups and downs, but for the most part I am happy with where I'm at.

for the most part I am happy with where I'm at.

where I'm at.

ಠ_ಠ

Don't dangle your prepositions!

 

[LittleDaughter]

I'm not worried about being crushless. I mean for a while I went through a time when I was really lonely and all I could think about was that there must be another half of me fluttering in the wind somewhere(lame poetic metaphor for I really wanted a boyfriend XD ) but not so much now. I actually prayed about it not long ago and got that weird feeling that god had something planned and I just needed to shut up and be patient XD

 

[manillabar]

ಠ_ಠ

Don't dangle your prepositions!

hahaha i actually laughed out loud

 

[Socktastic]

As a single person, can most of you say that you are happy?

I'm happier single, most of the time; the instances where i'm not happy rarely relate to being unattached.

Fortunately I rarely have to worry about being the focus of a long-lasting crush, i'm pretty skilled at squashing the emotions of others until they realise i'd suck their very soul dry .

 

[Rob_Skellington]

Six days out of seven, I'm content to be single, usually. In other words, I'm happy where I'm at.