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You know, as I read some of the comments about how people should not accept gifts, I am reminded of something God said to me in a specific situation.
It was Christmas, and a man that I knew was having financial difficulty. At the time, I was the youth leader, and his son and daughter were in our youth group. Now I knew from conversations that I'd had with this man that money was tight for them, and he came up to me and handed me $100. Naturally, my response was, I can not accept this, you need it more than I do... But then I heard God say to me, if you don't accept this gift, you will be robbing this man of an opportunity that I have given him to be obedient to Me, and essentially robbing him of that blessing. I was taken aback. I thought, I should be giving this man money, he shouldn't be giving any to me. But God persisted, and I accepted the man's gift.
I have to be honest. I was conflicted. I initially felt guilty about accepting this man's gift, but I believed that God had told me to accept it. So I was very confused...
But then, just a week later, I talked with this guy, and God had done some seemingly miraculous things in this family's finances! The man got a raise, a bonus, and some of his creditors just up and out of the blue forgave a substantial portion of his debt!
I was amazed. And I thought, had I disobeyed God and refused this man's gift, sure, I might have looked good to those who witnessed the whole scenario, but I may well have robbed this man of his blessing.
I should stress that this is only one instance, and is not intended to set a standard for accepting large monetary gifts from people who don't have 2 nickels to rub together, but it is simply meant to show that the way we think things ought to go isn't necessarily the way God wants it to go.
It was Christmas, and a man that I knew was having financial difficulty. At the time, I was the youth leader, and his son and daughter were in our youth group. Now I knew from conversations that I'd had with this man that money was tight for them, and he came up to me and handed me $100. Naturally, my response was, I can not accept this, you need it more than I do... But then I heard God say to me, if you don't accept this gift, you will be robbing this man of an opportunity that I have given him to be obedient to Me, and essentially robbing him of that blessing. I was taken aback. I thought, I should be giving this man money, he shouldn't be giving any to me. But God persisted, and I accepted the man's gift.
I have to be honest. I was conflicted. I initially felt guilty about accepting this man's gift, but I believed that God had told me to accept it. So I was very confused...
But then, just a week later, I talked with this guy, and God had done some seemingly miraculous things in this family's finances! The man got a raise, a bonus, and some of his creditors just up and out of the blue forgave a substantial portion of his debt!
I was amazed. And I thought, had I disobeyed God and refused this man's gift, sure, I might have looked good to those who witnessed the whole scenario, but I may well have robbed this man of his blessing.
I should stress that this is only one instance, and is not intended to set a standard for accepting large monetary gifts from people who don't have 2 nickels to rub together, but it is simply meant to show that the way we think things ought to go isn't necessarily the way God wants it to go.
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