I've decided to start this thread so that I may hear from others experiences and how they have managed to deal with this issue.
Firstly, I live a good Christian life, and know that all of us can make judgements at times. Yet there are others who have strong behavior patterns regarding controlling / judgemental behavior and for various reasons, I encounter a lot of people who are like this. I don't think they themselves may even realize the extent to which they behave in this manner. However, I also find that some feel this sort of behavior is justified. When I think of the people I meet who behave in this manner, the ones that most concern me are my friends / people from church. There are many outside of church who behave in this manner but the ones within church seem to bother me the most. I guess in part because I wish a better, healthier, happier church could be achieved in general for all Christians. I wish we could treat each other in healthier emotional way. I err in judgement when I find myself judging this behavior in others and generalizing church goers regarding this issue. I know I see this behavior plenty outside of church but it hurts the most when I encounter it from Christians. I find myself needing to limit my time with many people and from church because of this. However, even though this helps me stay emotionally well in certain areas, it has lead to feeling isolated from church in general. I have a very strong relationship with God; I just wish I had a stronger relationship with the church.
Firstly, I live a good Christian life, and know that all of us can make judgements at times. Yet there are others who have strong behavior patterns regarding controlling / judgemental behavior and for various reasons, I encounter a lot of people who are like this. I don't think they themselves may even realize the extent to which they behave in this manner. However, I also find that some feel this sort of behavior is justified. When I think of the people I meet who behave in this manner, the ones that most concern me are my friends / people from church. There are many outside of church who behave in this manner but the ones within church seem to bother me the most. I guess in part because I wish a better, healthier, happier church could be achieved in general for all Christians. I wish we could treat each other in healthier emotional way. I err in judgement when I find myself judging this behavior in others and generalizing church goers regarding this issue. I know I see this behavior plenty outside of church but it hurts the most when I encounter it from Christians. I find myself needing to limit my time with many people and from church because of this. However, even though this helps me stay emotionally well in certain areas, it has lead to feeling isolated from church in general. I have a very strong relationship with God; I just wish I had a stronger relationship with the church.