christalee4
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And the deafening silence continues...
I have been thinking the past few days about the more philosophical aspects of the anti-contraception position and thought it might be worth an exploration of the scriptures regarding them.
Today, I'll tackle proposition 1 - The purpose of marriage is procreation.
This seems silly even at a glance because marriage is not a pre-requisite to procreation. If all God wanted for us was to pop out babies, he would have let us fornicate like bunnies and we could have accomplished the task just fine. So, it seems clear God has something grander, or even completely different, in mind when it comes to marriage.
At it's core, the reason for marriage is "oneness". Men and women are not complete alone - they need the marriage union and the "one flesh" realtionship that results to fully follow and commune with God, to interact and manage the world we live in, and to experience the companionship we so desparately need. Without marriage, the world would be much more of a chaotic place.
Having children relates to marriage in a strange and somewhat contradictory way. Indeed, we do not need children to enjoy the benefits of marriage that are outlined in this verse. But, children are a blessing from the Lord and can enhance the marriage experience. Children also can introduce tension into marriage that tears away at the oneness that marriage was designed to foster. Yet children benefit greatly by having parents in a committed, loving, unified, "one flesh" relationship. So, at best, we can only say that procreation has both positive and negative effects in relation to marriage. Hardly a strong case for children being the "purpose" for marriage.
A mere chapter later from the Genesis verse quoted above, humans messed up everthing. Immorality entered the world and created yet another purpose for marriage. Together, we are better equiped to fight the immorality around us. Marriage is an often necessary component to living a Godly life. Again, marriage itself isn't the cause of children. Children can be produced by immoral behavior as easily as moral behavior. So the idea that procreation is presumed as part of the marriage admonitions in 1 Cor 7 is rediculous. It is more accurate to say that children are presumed in life regardless of marital state. But to avoid some of the immoral failings we are all prone toward, it is best if we get married. Let the children fall where they may.
Lest we not forget, marriage is also a picture of Christ and the church. As such, it is a means by which a couple can enhance their communion with God. Through marriage, God is praised and glorified. Children, again, are not part of this formula. Barren couples can join in this worship and communion as well as exceedingly fruitful couples. The number or even presence of children is irrelevant in this very important purpose for marriage.
In conclusion, I find it hard to find any evidence in the scriptures that the purpose for marriage is having children. Quite the contrary, it seems the purpose for marriage has everything to do with the couple, their needs, their impact on the world, their relationship to each other, and their relationship to God. It seems to me that children are not even on the radar when we look at the purposes for marriage.
Good, thoughtful post. It's good to see Christians come out in favor of realism and modernity, when it comes to sexual health and contraception. We've had discussions and posts on this subject a couple of times, and I firmly believe that most of the influential conservative religious organizations today are leaning towards either discouraging, or banning contraception altogether. Much of propaganda is directed at promoting contraception methods as being unhealthy or ineffective, as well as taking on the traditional Catholic POV that contraception is immoral, and against God's purpose of sex. The growing "quiverfull" and homeschooling movement is a sign of that; contraception is seen as a barrier (no pun intended) to the prevention of building God's kingdom of believers.
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