So a lot of times we have threads on here talking about why we think we are single, or what is going on in our own lives that may be holding us back. And it's great to self-evaluate. But it also helps to get outside perspectives some times. So let's talk about why other people are single, so we can get some perspective outside ourselves.
Now I know this is a dangerous thread to make, so please follow these guidelines:
Don't give constructive criticism to anybody who does not ask for it.
Don't criticize just to criticize. Constructive criticism is focused on improving, bettering, building up, not tearing down or making someone feel lesser about themselves.
Feel free to ask questions of the person. Also remember that this is the internet, we are not going to be completely aware of the person or situation, so when we give advice and feedback, we are doing so with whatever knowledge we have of the person. So don't take offense if somebody assumes something incorrectly or misreads something because of a lack of personal knowledge of you.
And just remember, the point of this thread is to get some fresh perspective on why you are single or what you could do to improve yourself and build on the kind of person you already are. Don't abuse this thread to be rude to somebody, always keep the goal as helping people to grow and improve.
That being said, you guys are more than welcome to take a shot at me.
Now I know this is a dangerous thread to make, so please follow these guidelines:
Don't give constructive criticism to anybody who does not ask for it.
Don't criticize just to criticize. Constructive criticism is focused on improving, bettering, building up, not tearing down or making someone feel lesser about themselves.
Feel free to ask questions of the person. Also remember that this is the internet, we are not going to be completely aware of the person or situation, so when we give advice and feedback, we are doing so with whatever knowledge we have of the person. So don't take offense if somebody assumes something incorrectly or misreads something because of a lack of personal knowledge of you.
And just remember, the point of this thread is to get some fresh perspective on why you are single or what you could do to improve yourself and build on the kind of person you already are. Don't abuse this thread to be rude to somebody, always keep the goal as helping people to grow and improve.
That being said, you guys are more than welcome to take a shot at me.
