For me, I'd suggest just do your best to become good friends with her, my current girlfriend and first girlfriend of now almost 11 months met online through a mutual friend, and unfortunately we live around 500 miles apart, so we couldn't spend any actual time together, but we just talked and talked online and both of us got to the point that we liked each other, though I didn't really realize how much I cared for her as more than just a friend, she finally told me how she felt, and it took me a few days, cause I didn't do the online dating thing, but I prayed about it and I felt right about dating her, so I said yes, but yeah, just spend as much time as you can with her and let her really get to know the real you, and don't worry about the "dating" aspect of it as yet, cause even if it doesn't turn into something more, just think, you gained a great friend, anywho, I'll shutup now and let others talk, just my two cents worth -Nathan