Confused

[betty1958]

The man who is accusing me of using his credit card has me scared and confused. Because he says he is not going to turn me in one minute and the next he wants me in jail.
He is still claiming that I used his card and he wants me to pay back that money. He has me scared, upset, I am experiencing alot of anxiety, are having bad headaches, do not sleep very well. Is this man using emotional blackmail on me? I have talked to the sheriff's dept where he lives at and made them aware of what is going on. But this does not help me being scared of this man. What next? Him stalking me? Betty

 

[amie]

Betty,
I am going to help you through this...nobody has a right to make you feel like this, nobody has a right to take away your peace and security! nobody! I am praying for you, but really there is nothing he can do, like I said in my other post, I am going to help you get to the bottom of this cause noone messes with my fellow Christians!! I am praying for you though during this time, and if you need someone to talk to, I am right here for you! with love, blessings, and many, many prayers!
Amie

 

[solo66 man]

Posting this in here too.

Betty, You need to take action. First, I think amie may be able to help you, so PM her. She can at least run this past her brother.
Secondly, if the sheriffs office is not pursuing this harrassment, I do not know where you live, so I do not know the laws there, but I would also contact the district attorneys office.
If those things do not work, you may be able to obtain his ISP and contact them and let them know what he is doing, also once you know exactly who he is, if you do not already, you may very well be able to obtain a restraining order, so that if he continues to harass you, you can have him arrested for that.
Talk to amie though. This may, I am not sure, be an FCC matter also. You may also try contacting the Phone company too. That seems like a very long shot though

 

[Blessed-one]

i'll be praying Betty!

 

[Snor Snor]

I'll still be praying.

God bless you!

 

[betty1958]

Thank you for all your prayers. That man is now saying he is not sure I did it. Then he tells me that I did it. I know for a fact that I didn't use his card. If he goes into the sheriff's office tomorrow and tells them that, they are just going to ask him to leave their office. They will also tell him that if he signs a false statement he can get into a lot of trouble over that. I just ask that you pray for protection over my daughter and I and pray that this man not make any false statements about me to anyone. Betty

 

[JohnR7]

>>I just ask that you pray for protection over my daughter and I and pray that this man not make any false statements about me to anyone.

This is really a great opportunity to learn to trust in the Lord. Esp. when God has brought you as far as He has, you know He will go the rest of the way with you.

There is two things we use to overcome fear, the love of God and faith. Both love and faith are fruits of the Holy Spirit. God produces the Fruit of the Holy Spirit in us.

The Bible says, perfect love casts out all fear. I still have not figured out why, but I know it works. As far as faith, that is a bit easyer to understand. When we have faith in God, then we know that He is going to cause all things to work out for us. That He really is for us, and He really does want what is best for us.

Of course if God ever opened up your eyes, so you could see the angels He sends to protect us, then you would know tht you have nothing to worry about. Thanks, JohnR7

 

[Debbie]

Betty, Suggest to him that he inquire from the credit card company where the charged items were sent. He should be able to track down a house address or email address, unless someone took his card out of his wallet, used it, & returned it. Tell him you have nothing to fear from the law , because you didnt do it, & that if he doesnt leave you alone, you will file for a protective order, which is about $35. He may recognize your fear & think it means you fear being prosecuted. Tell him you are innocent, suggest he investigate further, tell him he is scaring you & your children & that you will protect yourself by getting a protective order, then do it if he will not leave you alone.

 

[betty1958]

I don't think this man will pursue this any longer. Because today I found out that he is not friends with the detective that lives on the same street he does. Also I was told that this man is being closely watched because he might be a potential child molester. I also found out today that man has not been to any law enforcement offices in his city to file a report. My theory is that this man is angry at me because I would not let him be alone with my daughter and didnt get his way. This man is very controlling and I think that is why his 2 ex wives left him.