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Hi! Welcome to CF! May your time here be a blessing. Peace to you in Jesus' name. God forgives all sin if you confess your sin to Him and repent of it. He will throw it as far as the East is from the West.
 
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It will help you a lot if you know what your triggers are; where you feel most vulnerable. Ask God to show you. There is a free 60 day course you can take here: settingcaptivesfree
I am taking it now and it's helped me, along with other people praying for me.

We have to start somewheres...
Praying for you!
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Bob there is a book "every youngmans battles" it written for guys in your very spot, I could write you a book about your question of sin and request about maintaining purity, but I don't have too. One was already written and it's not, a do it and burn in hell type of book it addresses real life with real life answers.. with stories and examples of things every young man battles with! brother your not alone so don't Isolate your self there is hope and help out there, you can pick up this book at one of those on line book stores or a local christian book store, and if funds are tight let me know and I'll see that you get a copy.. Chilibowl@bellsouth.net

goddluck and godbless
 
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cnbob said:
Hi folks, nice to meet you all.

Hi Bob... :wave: Welcome to CF...

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Until recently I was in the deep pits because I had sex before marraige, am I in troubble with the LORD God ?

The Lord had designed sex for the purpose of bonding two persons together in the marriage realm. To practice sex outside of marriage such as premarital sex in this matter is definately not giving glory to the Lord and will also build a huge wall that affects your relationship with the Lord. To realise that you've done something wrong, what a person could do is to ask for forgiveness for when we ask for forgiveness, the Lord forgives and remembers it no more. Repent from what you are doing that is not right and ask the Lord to give you the strength to stand up and ask Him to guide you as you go along in your life.

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and I hate to say this my mind is too full of sexuality can someone guide me to prayers to help me cleanse my mind of sexual sins?

Read the Bible and start to build a relationship with the Lord. Let Him to help you clean your mind from all sexual thoughts. Flee yourself from temptation...do not go to places where you know you are weak...fill your time with something so that you will not have time to think about it.
 
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