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Sorry that i haven't replied back sooner. Well i would re-post my original message but i delated it a few weeks ago. What i had in my original post was that i was confused with my life. Like why are we on earth? What is my purpose in life. I didn't know what i wanted to do in school, and with my social life, and self confidence.

I have been doing a lot of thinking, and reading. My friend lent me his book called Christ Amoung Us. I have started reading it, i like the book a lot so far. It has help answer some of my questions.

So overall i am feeling a little bit better now! I am still not sure what i should take in school but i have that narrowed down already. I know what i need to do to develop my relationships with the opposite sex, and how to get my self estem up, and to get back in shape. I know that it will be a long process. I feel with my current state that i can't get a gf. But if i start working on myself.
What i mean by that is pray more, read more, work out, get my rest/sleep. In the future i will be more of the person that i wont to be, and then it should be easier to find a gf in the future.

Thanks To the member on CF that replied to my post and wondered how i was doing. I am doing a lot better now!! I probably wont be online much untill after December 17th with this semster of school is over.

So take care,

God Bless
 
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