- Jun 7, 2022
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Basically I'm confused about the concept of modest dressing. I like long maxi dresses and skirts long flowing lots of ethnic jewellery. So far, so good. But...I don't cover my arms in hot weather as i don't tolerate overheat too well. This man said to me one evening "your arms are very beautiful! " (I think because I have olive skin that tans easily, otherwise don't know why he said that). Now am wondering "did I sin by causing him to lust after me?"
another thing is I have quite a shaky sense of self worth , which is something I'm working on so for me it's a novel thing to feel pleased with myself . But lately I been finding that as my moods are more stable and I'm beginning to heal from my breakdown, I feel pleased with myself if accomplish something ? Is this pride? For example in-store a magazine article for a mental health charity about my experiences and now I am wondering if I shouldn't because indeed a sense of satisfaction with !myself for writing it. Is this pride? I mean i don't think "I'm so great" but I feel l pleased that I survived an awful time and now i can use it to help others? I
I sometimes worry I must have too much pride to be pleasing to God . If i were truly humble i wouldn't feel a glow over my small achievements ? But if in
Basically I'm confused about the concept of modest dressing. I like long maxi dresses and skirts long flowing lots of ethnic jewellery. So far, so good. But...I don't cover my arms in hot weather as i don't tolerate overheat too well. This man said to me one evening "your arms are very beautiful! " (I think because I have olive skin that tans easily, otherwise don't know why he said that). Now am wondering "did I sin by causing him to lust after me?"
another thing is I have quite a shaky sense of self worth , which is something I'm working on so for me it's a novel thing to feel pleased with myself . But lately I been finding that as my moods are more stable and I'm beginning to heal from my breakdown, I feel pleased with myself if accomplish something ? Is this pride? For example in-store a magazine article for a mental health charity about my experiences and now I am wondering if I shouldn't because indeed a sense of satisfaction with !myself for writing it. Is this pride? I mean i don't think "I'm so great" but I feel l pleased that I survived an awful time and now i can use it to help others? I
I sometimes worry I must have too much pride to be pleasing to God . If i were truly humble i wouldn't feel a glow over my small achievements ? But if in