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Conflicting messages between God and Jesus?

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Hey guys, I can use some clarity on this please. Far as I am understanding God said "an eye for an eye" while Jesus said "turn the other cheek". God said to avoid strife or not associate yourself with anyone who brings strife into your life while Jesus said to always love and forgive. What gives??
 
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Hey guys, I can use some clarity on this please. Far as I am understanding God said "an eye for an eye" while Jesus said "turn the other cheek". God said to avoid strife or not associate yourself with anyone who brings strife into your life while Jesus said to always love and forgive. What gives??
Jesus and God are the same. Sometimes Jesus brings justice, like how he works through police officers to protect people. But Jesus also has us forgive those who hurt us.
 
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Hey guys, I can use some clarity on this please. Far as I am understanding God said "an eye for an eye" while Jesus said "turn the other cheek". God said to avoid strife or not associate yourself with anyone who brings strife into your life while Jesus said to always love and forgive. What gives??
Where did God say "An eye for an eye? Can you find it? It'snot in the Old Covenant or the New...Its written in Matthew...
Matthew 5:38
Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth:

So I have to ask...Where did they hear it said? Not from God
 
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Hey guys, I can use some clarity on this please. Far as I am understanding God said "an eye for an eye" while Jesus said "turn the other cheek". God said to avoid strife or not associate yourself with anyone who brings strife into your life while Jesus said to always love and forgive. What gives??
It is the difference between the Law and grace.
John 1:17 For the law was given by Moses, but grace and truth came by Jesus Christ.
 
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It is the difference between the Law and grace.
John 1:17 For the law was given by Moses, but grace and truth came by Jesus Christ.
Good post but......an eye for an eye is not from the law..Or the bible.
 
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Where did God say "An eye for an eye? Can you find it? It'snot in the Old Covenant or the New...Its written in Matthew...
Matthew 5:38
Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth:

So I have to ask...Where did they hear it said? Not from God
See Exodus 21.24; Leviticus 24:30 and Deuteronomy 19:21.
 
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See Exodus 21.24; Leviticus 24:30 and Deuteronomy 19:21.
Ah! Thank you....So its talking about fair justice. If you cause someone hurt your 'penalty' is equal to the hurt.

Seems that justice is served and a heathy caution instilled.
 
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Good post but......an eye for an eye is not from the law..Or the bible.
Deut. 19:21 And thine eye shall not pity; but life shall go for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot.
 
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Ah! Thank you....So its talking about fair justice. If you cause someone hurt your 'penalty' is equal to the hurt.

Seems that justice is served and a heathy caution instilled.
I think that Jesus is talking about revenge rather than justice.
 
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There is no conflict, it's the same God. Same word, it does not change with time. There are different levels of punishment, some should be forgiven. Would you "turn the cheek" against murders??? Would you consider "eye for an eye" for someone being late to work??? Read the entire verse in context.
 
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Hey guys, I can use some clarity on this please. Far as I am understanding God said "an eye for an eye" while Jesus said "turn the other cheek". God said to avoid strife or not associate yourself with anyone who brings strife into your life while Jesus said to always love and forgive. What gives??
I don't remember Jesus saying to ALWAYS forgive. As for the turning the other cheek, the Book of Ecclesiastes tells us there is a time for war and a time for peace.
 
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Good post but......an eye for an eye is not from the law..Or the bible.
Really? The first five books of The Bible are Torah. Exodus 21:23 And if any mischief follow, then thou shalt give life for life, 24 Eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot,...
 
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Really? The first five books of The Bible are Torah. Exodus 21:23 And if any mischief follow, then thou shalt give life for life, 24 Eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot,...
If you'll read above, I already learned that...Thank you
 
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I don't remember Jesus saying to ALWAYS forgive. As for the turning the other cheek, the Book of Ecclesiastes tells us there is a time for war and a time for peace.
For if you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive yours. (Matthew 6:14-15)

For if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father who is in the heavens forgive your trespasses. (Mark 11:26)

Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. (Luke 6:37)

Ecclesiastes 3:1 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven:

Isaiah 55:8 "For My thoughts are not your thoughts, Nor are your ways My ways," declares the LORD. 9 "For as the heavens are higher than the earth, So are My ways higher than your ways And My thoughts than your thoughts.

Perception is everything...where we are 'seeing' from...
 
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For if you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive yours. (Matthew 6:14-15)

For if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father who is in the heavens forgive your trespasses. (Mark 11:26)

Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. (Luke 6:37)

Ecclesiastes 3:1 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven:

Isaiah 55:8 "For My thoughts are not your thoughts, Nor are your ways My ways," declares the LORD. 9 "For as the heavens are higher than the earth, So are My ways higher than your ways And My thoughts than your thoughts.

Perception is everything...where we are 'seeing' from...
Be realistic about forgiveness. If someone comes to my door every day and kicks me in the shin, I will forgive him, but only after he stops coming to my door and kicking me in the shin.
 
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Be realistic about forgiveness. If someone comes to my door every day and kicks me in the shin, I will forgive him, but only after he stops coming to my door and kicking me in the shin.
Jesus asked his father to forgive those who crucified him because they didn't know what they were doing. Stephen in The Book of Acts forgave in this same way (which is to love as God loves us) -

..you who have received the Law ordained by angels, yet have not kept it. On hearing this, the members of the Sanhedrin were enraged, and they gnashed their teeth at him. But Stephen, full of the Holy Spirit, looked intently into heaven and saw the glory of God and Jesus standing at the right hand of God.

As these dragged him out of the city and began stoning him, "Falling on his knees, he cried out in a loud voice, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.”

Perception is everything...
 
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Jesus asked his father to forgive those who crucified him because they didn't know what they were doing. Stephen in The Book of Acts forgave in this same way (which is to love as God loves us) -

..you who have received the Law ordained by angels, yet have not kept it. On hearing this, the members of the Sanhedrin were enraged, and they gnashed their teeth at him. But Stephen, full of the Holy Spirit, looked intently into heaven and saw the glory of God and Jesus standing at the right hand of God.

As these dragged him out of the city and began stoning him, "Falling on his knees, he cried out in a loud voice, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.”

Perception is everything...
If someone kicks you in the shin every day, all you'll be thinking about is how to get him to stop kicking you in the shin.
 
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If someone kicks you in the shin every day, all you'll be thinking about is how to get him to stop kicking you in the shin.
No, I don't. For HE has caused me to know all things work together for good...that everything is exactly as it is supposed to be for all things come from HIM...HE fills all in all...His glory fills the whole earth (whether one can 'see' it or not...)

Those who nailed Jesus to the cross (and whom HE asked his father to forgive) were fulfilling God's will just the same...

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,

A seed must first fall to the earth and die, or it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.

With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible.
 
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No, I don't. For HE has caused me to know all things work together for good...that everything is exactly as it is supposed to be for all things come from HIM...HE fills all in all...His glory fills the whole earth (whether one can 'see' it or not...)

Those who nailed Jesus to the cross (and whom HE asked his father to forgive) were fulfilling God's will just the same...

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,

A seed must first fall to the earth and die, or it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.

With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible.
No, when you are hurting really badly, you'll be trying to find a way to make the pain go away.
 
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No, when you are hurting really badly, you'll be trying to find a way to make the pain go away.

I did find The Way...by the grace of God...as promised.

As Paul said, "Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ...

...Christ in you, the hope of glory.

..Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away. Behold, the new has come!"

Suffering has a purpose and is not out of order...as part of the process taking place within...

Peter says of it, "so that the tested genuineness of your faith—more precious than gold that perishes though it is tested by fire—may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ."

And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying: “Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man, and He will live with them. They will be His people, and God Himself will be with them as their God. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and there will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the former things have passed away."

Perception is key...
 
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