Confessions

[selfinflikted]

Hey sweetie...it must have taken a lot of courage to post something like that. I know when I came out as bi to my mom I was terrified even though she saw it as a complete non-issue (I think her exact words were, "Okay, thanks for telling me. I have to start laundry now")
Best of luck to you, don't let anyone get you down!

Wow. You're very lucky to hve a mom like that. Mine wasn't quite as nonchalant about my coming out.

Well, since there are cases of homosexuals gaining victory over this area of their lives, marrying and having happy, loving marriages, I'd have to say that your statement is wrong. Homosexuals can turn, as there are books and radio segments of personal experiences.

Rachel

My thoughts on "recovered" homosexuals are that the homo in question was probably more bisexual than exclusively homosexual. This could explain how some are able to change, but others (exclusively queer) cannot.

 

[Robinsegg]

Wow. You're very lucky to hve a mom like that. Mine wasn't quite as nonchalant about my coming out.




My thoughts on "recovered" homosexuals are that the homo in question was probably more bisexual than exclusively homosexual. This could explain how some are able to change, but others (exclusively queer) cannot.

That's an interesting theory. I suppose that, over time, research will be done and we'll eventually find out how that works.

Rachel

 

[selfinflikted]

That's an interesting theory. I suppose that, over time, research will be done and we'll eventually find out how that works.

Rachel

I agree and often wonder why more research on that particular theory hasn't been done.

 

[bammertheblue]

Wow. You're very lucky to hve a mom like that. Mine wasn't quite as nonchalant about my coming out.




My thoughts on "recovered" homosexuals are that the homo in question was probably more bisexual than exclusively homosexual. This could explain how some are able to change, but others (exclusively queer) cannot.

I'm sorry you didn't have such a good experience coming out...to my mom and family it's really like saying "Hey mom, I have blue eyes" or something like that. Also I think she suspected I was gay or bi since I was pretty small.

 

[HeavenzAngel]

my family rather me be gay then straight, they don't want me to have kids or be with some man.

 

[*Starlight*]

Hi! I've just read your thread.... It's a great post. There's nothing wrong about being gay, it's just who you are... I hope that you will find the true love of your life, no matter what their gender is, and that you'll be happy. Loving another person is always good, no matter what some people say. I believe that when two people sincerely love each other, it's a sign that God brought them together. And I hope your tooth is ok now

 

[HeavenzAngel]

Alot of things made me hate men, I might of been straight if I didn't get sexual abuse when I was younger.

 

[tocis]

Well, since there are cases of homosexuals gaining victory over this area of their lives, marrying and having happy, loving marriages, I'd have to say that your statement is wrong.

"have kids" = "no more homosexual feelings/desires", or

"have kids" = "repress their desires"?

For all I know, it's always the second option. Which makes the claim "your statement is wrong" somewhat questionable.

If I force myself to never again have sex, does this make me an asexual if I still have these desires? Frankly, no.