I think, after having spent some more time in GA, I am beginning to see where a little bit of the problem lies. Many Christians are in there preaching about Fire and Brimstone and not conveying love. I have even seen people blatently tell them that God does not love them because they are not "saved"! It is no wonder that many of them are bitter toward Christians!
Last night while posting to them I tried posting nothing but love and my own experiences. I did not tell everyone to "repent or they are going to Hell" like many of the posters there seem to do. It seems that the more gentle I was, focusing on my own experiences with God, the more open they became to having a discussion with me. I PMed many of the Christians that I saw exhibiting this behavior and asked them to please take it easy and that they should try to go a little slower and what I recieved back were (ofcourse) anti-catholic remarks. Basically, I am not a real Christian anyway and so I should just leave it to the "real Christians".
Anyway I believe this might be another thing to look at. Why are they so bitter? What can we do to change the way many of our members address them. My own son (my youngest) became emotional and said some things he shouldn't have said to them, as a result I took him off CF and had a long talk with him. I will not allow him back on until he learns a little more love and tolerance. (I am not talking about Disciple3 ) With this said, I do still have a problem with the people who are there for the specific reason to deconvert Christians and the ones who openly bash Christianity and Jesus but I think the other problem might even be worse.
My suggestion would be really cracking down on Christians who do not use finesse with their posts. Ghandi once said "I really love your Christ it's your Christians I don't like" (something like that) This could be a reason for much of the bitterness there toward us. What are your thoughts?
Last night while posting to them I tried posting nothing but love and my own experiences. I did not tell everyone to "repent or they are going to Hell" like many of the posters there seem to do. It seems that the more gentle I was, focusing on my own experiences with God, the more open they became to having a discussion with me. I PMed many of the Christians that I saw exhibiting this behavior and asked them to please take it easy and that they should try to go a little slower and what I recieved back were (ofcourse) anti-catholic remarks. Basically, I am not a real Christian anyway and so I should just leave it to the "real Christians".
Anyway I believe this might be another thing to look at. Why are they so bitter? What can we do to change the way many of our members address them. My own son (my youngest) became emotional and said some things he shouldn't have said to them, as a result I took him off CF and had a long talk with him. I will not allow him back on until he learns a little more love and tolerance. (I am not talking about Disciple3 ) With this said, I do still have a problem with the people who are there for the specific reason to deconvert Christians and the ones who openly bash Christianity and Jesus but I think the other problem might even be worse.
My suggestion would be really cracking down on Christians who do not use finesse with their posts. Ghandi once said "I really love your Christ it's your Christians I don't like" (something like that) This could be a reason for much of the bitterness there toward us. What are your thoughts?
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