Concensus

[icedtea]

This isn't the marriage thread.

 

[tadoflamb]

You pretend to know, and then you take the analogy as if it were not an analogy but a literal call to physical abuse.

Clearly you do not have a clue as to what an analogy is.

Then, pray tell, what was your darling analogy referring to if not advocating beating your wife?

 

[simonthezealot]

I thought you had stated that your father had been abusive too you, much as my mother had neglected me.

Sorry to hear this, truly I am.
I hope you've forgiven her by now.

 

[mike1reynolds]

HOW in the world do you know what goes on in others bedrooms..THAT is VERY disturbing. NOT in mine let me assure you.

Because people trust me and they tell me things. You should consider earning people's trust too, for a change maybe?

 

[mike1reynolds]

Then, pray tell, what was your darling analogy referring to if not advocating beating your wife?

Showing who the boss is. Once again, do you know what an analogy is as opposed to a literal example? Apparently not.

 

[tulc]

Have you ever spoken to someone who's marriage was saved by it? Do married male friends even confide such personal details to you at all? .

Well actually, yes they do. My wife and I are very involved with other couples, sharing, helping and counciling and crying with them. And I'll tell you one thing that's never been suggested (even in jest)

Knowing how to spank the kitty is the only way to have a decent marriage. As long as you don't leave any marks they love it to death and beg for more everytime. (emph. added)

tulc( )

 

[icedtea]

Because people trust me and they tell me things. You should consider earning people's trust too, for a change maybe?

You may want to consider knowing for a fact this poster doesn't have people's trust before making unsupported accusations?

 

[TheDivaAngel]

Because people trust me and they tell me things. You should consider earning people's trust too, for a change maybe?

I have it..but I COULD CARE less if I had yours. You truly are disturbing...I wouldn't trust you as far as I could throw you. AND if your 'theory' of having a wife works..WHY are YOU not married??? Just curious!

 

[tadoflamb]

Say it one more time and I will report you. That is a lie. A bald faced lie. You are a dishonest person.

OOOOOoooo, scary.

You cry like a gir.............. .

God bless you,

Tad

 

[simonthezealot]

That is correct, denying the Bible at every turn is anti-Christian. You are on the opposite side of the great majority of Christians on many many topics, aren't you, Simon?

Not on the fundamentals. Just on all the religous piety.
Hope you aren't insinuating that I deny the bible! Or that numbers of members matter in correctness.

 

[TheDivaAngel]

You may want to consider knowing for a fact this poster doesn't have people's trust before making unsupported accusations?

I know I have alot of peoples trust. WHat this person says means NOTHING to me. NOTHING.

 

[tadoflamb]

Showing who the boss is. Once again, do you know what an analogy is as opposed to a literal example? Apparently not.

And how do we show the little lady who the boss is?

Why don't you try your "kitty" analogy on me again?

God bless,

Tad

 

[icedtea]

Here I thought the boss was to be God.

 

[mike1reynolds]

Sorry to hear this, truly I am.
I hope you've forgiven her by now.

After hardly seeing her until I was twenty, I took care of her and my extremely young half brothers until the end of her life (and they had grown and left the nest).

Since you have asked me a sincere and honest question (I expect male opponents to be the first to back away from savage personal attacks and be the first to ask honest and sincere questions) I will reveal a little more about myself in this context.

The main reason I have been celibate all of these years is because of my mother. I was so busy dealing with her insanity, she was extraordinarily abusive to me even as I was the sole support for her and my half-siblings, that I simply had no time for a relationship. It took everything I had to bring home the bread and perpetually get kicked in the head when I got home. I have no regrets at all, and I loved her to the day she died, crying miserably all day on the day that she died.

That night the song, “You’ll Always Be My Baby” by Mariah Carey was ringing on and on in my ears as if I were actually listening to it. She did some of the most horrible things of all to me right before she died, so from the clear light of the other side she felt an extra need to reiterate our bond. “You’ll always be a part of me. You’re part of me indefinitely.”

She was abused by her mother, who was enormously more abusive than my mother. So I forgive her for everything that she did, and wonder how she made it through the abuse that she went through. I was fortunate not to be raised by my mother, so the cycle of abuse was largely broken, and I think that it was only with a superhuman will that my mother was only fractionally as abusive as her mother. It was like she was possessed, but did everything in her power to fight the possession.

 

[tadoflamb]

I know I have alot of peoples trust. WHat this person says means NOTHING to me. NOTHING.

I know. The false accustations are flying. Don't let this man get to you.

God's peace,

Tad

 

[Fireinfolding]

I have it..but I COULD CARE less if I had yours. You truly are disturbing...I wouldn't trust you as far as I could throw you. AND if your 'theory' of having a wife works..WHY are YOU not married??? Just curious!

Hes just an expert on marraige TDA not a real husband.

He apparently knows how wives work though

 

[mike1reynolds]

You may want to consider knowing for a fact this poster doesn't have people's trust before making unsupported accusations?

I can't parse that...? Translation please?

 

[Hentenza]

Showing who the boss is. Once again, do you know what an analogy is as opposed to a literal example? Apparently not.

Dude, your attitute is deplorable. I have been married for over 28 years and have never had to show my wife "who's boss". Lasting relationships are based on trust and mutual ecouragement. I believe my wife has as much insight or more than I do and respect her tremendously for it. She blessed me with two wonderful children that we raised together.
I don't see how any relationahip could last with the type of attitute you dish out.

 

[tulc]

Also submitting in small details [for men] is not the only time men should heed their wives. They should love their opinions and value them, and work with that.

Women are emotional creatures driven by fear and territorial instincts. Women freak out at any risk, which is why they are not allowed on battle fields. Women are driven by selfish animalist aims like territorial instincts and if given their way in all things nothing gets done because no one is allowed to take any risks, and everyone is fighting for their little piece of the pie while no real cooperation takes place.

If women were allowed to take a meaningful part in warfare any country so foolish as to give them 50/50 input in such matters would be wiped off the face of the planet in short order. Sociological studies have proven that in group behavior men and women act completely differently. Women form an egalitarian committee structure to tackle a problem and get right to work. Men put off the main task for a time and spend the initial period battling for pecking order and hierarchy. Never the less, in virtually all cases, men would accomplish the designated task much more quickly and effectively than the pathetic committee structure that the women formed.

If you allow women to have 50/50 input in all things, nothing gets done effectively at all.

I guess, without seeming bias, that Catholic men are more apt to treat their wives equally in all matters, and this is why the divorce rate is lower in our Church.

The happiest couples I know are both Catholic.

The happiest couples I’ve known were ones where the man was dominant. I’ve seen couples destroyed by too much male subservience. I once saved a marriage, and probably the woman’s life, after she uncontrollably came onto me without even realizing it. I saved them by showing her husband how to spank the kitty.

She was an MD, assistant medical director for the largest free clinic in America, and she was such a good girl, never giving her man any reason to get very upset at her, so he worshiped the ground that she walked on. Deep down inside she turned her nose up at this, was dying in a vacuum of passion, and just had no capacity to control herself around me at all. Sooner or later she would have cheated on him with some other dominant male like me, and likely her husband would have murdered her if he found out about it. So I showed him exactly what worshiping her like that was going to lead to and in a very forceful way showed him how to spank the kitty by writing poetry for her that made her alternately freak out and fawn all over me in front of everyone. It drove him bananas and finally he got angry enough at her to be extremely forceful with her. Suddenly she was fawning all over him and not giving me any trouble anymore! All it took was a firm hand on her behind, so the rumor has it.


Knowing how to spank the kitty is the only way to have a decent marriage. As long as you don't leave any marks they love it to death and beg for more everytime.

I just thought I'd post the whole thing so you could see the context.
tulc(text without context is pretext)

 

[icedtea]

See? he expects ment o be honest and sincere. Its a personal prejudice against women in general. I know he can't asnwer my other question(a majority means he is right)