- Nov 29, 2003
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I have a new friend whom I have met a couple of times IRL and with whom I can share my interest for language and books. She works a lot and the train is expensive, or else we would have met more times already. She prefers to read paper books. However, we live in Sweden and to order printed matter costs a lot, both because of shipping and because good recent books are rarely cheaper as printed matter.
I have bought her electronic books (I haven't told her about that yet, it would be a birthday surprise). I could return the books for a refund.
She currently doesn't have a computer that is suitable for connecting to the internet. She doesn't know a lot about computer technology.
Should I buy a computer, install the books on it, and give her?
Should I try to get a Windows 8 or Windows 7 computer? Windows 8 would last longer, and possibly be safer and easier to use. She hasn't used computers a lot for a while, she's probably not even overly familiar with Windows 7. Hew own computer is from 2006 and at first she didn't know which operating system it had, and I haven't asked her since she started it again. She has very valuable proprietary files on her own computer, so it's not suitable to connect to the internet. I've advised her not to connect the old computer to the internet and she was hesitant to connect it to the internet herself too.
I don't make more money than her.
I don't know of any other way to give her a bunch of books that big. It feels like if I would choose a few select printed matter books for her that she would think that each book is extremely carefully selected and she would expect them to blow her away. Most of the electronic books I bought came in a bundle, so I could tell her the excuse that not all of them are the best because of the bundling. I would feel better if she would be able to choose what to read among many books.
For the sum of a refund of the electronic books and instead of buying the hardware and Windows, it would be impossible to get as many printed matter books, especially not as recent ones.
The books in the bundle are not extremely recent, they are about 10 years old and older, but few of them are very old. They cover a couple of interesting books of the Bible, and there's also three Mennonite commentary volumes in the bundle - that feels good as it's hard to get her read such commentaries in some other way. Additionally I would get her a really good Bible dictionary electronically, which is prohibitively expensive to get as printed matter. I think the Bible dictionary would be the best part. But to buy a computer, return the bundle, and give her just a couple of Bibles, a Bible dictionary and a few free mass-market books would not feel as good.
The weakness of the bundle is that it doesn't contain enough on the Old Testament. She's very interested in the Old Testament.
An incentive for me to buy a computer for her, is that she is almost hinting that someone should install a computer for her, and that she has been considering an iPad instead of a computer. Another friend of mine bought an iPad (even though she has a desktop too) and is not that pleased with it compared to the cost but uses it and also reads electronic books on it (but not ones purchased by me).
I'm not sure how I would install a computer for her in any other way than how I've described above.
I have one desktop computer myself which I don't use all that much, but I think she would experience it as slow - starting the program to read the electronic books is pretty slow.
Oh, and the program to read the electronic books demands a lot from the disk.
I have bought her electronic books (I haven't told her about that yet, it would be a birthday surprise). I could return the books for a refund.
She currently doesn't have a computer that is suitable for connecting to the internet. She doesn't know a lot about computer technology.
Should I buy a computer, install the books on it, and give her?
Should I try to get a Windows 8 or Windows 7 computer? Windows 8 would last longer, and possibly be safer and easier to use. She hasn't used computers a lot for a while, she's probably not even overly familiar with Windows 7. Hew own computer is from 2006 and at first she didn't know which operating system it had, and I haven't asked her since she started it again. She has very valuable proprietary files on her own computer, so it's not suitable to connect to the internet. I've advised her not to connect the old computer to the internet and she was hesitant to connect it to the internet herself too.
I don't make more money than her.
I don't know of any other way to give her a bunch of books that big. It feels like if I would choose a few select printed matter books for her that she would think that each book is extremely carefully selected and she would expect them to blow her away. Most of the electronic books I bought came in a bundle, so I could tell her the excuse that not all of them are the best because of the bundling. I would feel better if she would be able to choose what to read among many books.
For the sum of a refund of the electronic books and instead of buying the hardware and Windows, it would be impossible to get as many printed matter books, especially not as recent ones.
The books in the bundle are not extremely recent, they are about 10 years old and older, but few of them are very old. They cover a couple of interesting books of the Bible, and there's also three Mennonite commentary volumes in the bundle - that feels good as it's hard to get her read such commentaries in some other way. Additionally I would get her a really good Bible dictionary electronically, which is prohibitively expensive to get as printed matter. I think the Bible dictionary would be the best part. But to buy a computer, return the bundle, and give her just a couple of Bibles, a Bible dictionary and a few free mass-market books would not feel as good.
The weakness of the bundle is that it doesn't contain enough on the Old Testament. She's very interested in the Old Testament.
An incentive for me to buy a computer for her, is that she is almost hinting that someone should install a computer for her, and that she has been considering an iPad instead of a computer. Another friend of mine bought an iPad (even though she has a desktop too) and is not that pleased with it compared to the cost but uses it and also reads electronic books on it (but not ones purchased by me).
I'm not sure how I would install a computer for her in any other way than how I've described above.
I have one desktop computer myself which I don't use all that much, but I think she would experience it as slow - starting the program to read the electronic books is pretty slow.
Oh, and the program to read the electronic books demands a lot from the disk.