But you also know, having been raised in it, that Yeshua did not come along to start up a new religion or way of life. He continued to teach Torah. If He was going to change all that, I'm sure He would have indicated as much, but He didn't. He continued to stress the Torah's instructions for a set-apart life and faith system.
Jesus spoke to Jews.
The only thing He changed was that gentiles could join in and be accepted without officially becoming a party member to any of the practicing Judaic groups or sects (of the day), and that holds true today as well; Messianic Judaism was and still is just another sect of Judaism (even though today it is no longer recognized as such by greater Judaism).
I'm not sure what point you are making? Did Jesus ever mention this? Didn't joining the people speak of physically joining the people? Sharing similar beliefs is not joining the people. I've been watching an interesting lecture series from Yale on the Hebrew Bible. In the first class the professor mentions the idea that religion to the Isralites differs from the way we perceive it today in the west. Religion here is often very much about beliefs. For the Israelites, you become an Isralites by joining the people and living as one of them, according to traditions and culture. It was nice to hear this understanding even from a scholar and academic.
I still stand by my statements. Messianic Gentiles seem to feel that because we (Jews or other Messianics) believe they are not
required to observe the law that it somehow makes them inferior. That having more rules and restrictions makes a person superior or more special God. That is not the case. You simply don't have the obligation.
If my neighbor shops at the local co-op on Saturday buying locally grown organic produce and humanly raised dairy am I better than her because I can't do so? No. Not at all. I am different but I am not better. I shop on Sunday and miss out on the dairy. We're playing different parts in the grand scheme of life but her life has merit and my life has merit.
If someone catches you eating shrimp what are they going to think? Is it going to reflect negatively on the Jewish community?
Not likely. If you steal money what affect will that have on the reputation of the Jewish people?
None. It will have an effect on your reputation as an individual, perhaps as a person who believes in Jesus and maybe the reputation of your family. If you go on public television and start ranting like a lunatic what will people think of the Jewish community?
Nothing.
If someone catches me eating shrimp what are they going to think?
She's a hypocrite. She can't even be bothered to adhere to my own religious traditions. She doesn't take Judaism seriously. She doesn't take God seriously. Jews think they've got it right and they don't even follow the rules. If I steal money?
Oh, well, everybody knows Jews are greedy. You can't trust Jews with your money. If they can make a dime off you they will do it. If I go on public television ranting like a lunatic?
I'm an embarrassment to the Jewish people.
If you truly want to be in the second position then you need to ask yourself
why? And then, do you need to change your perspective or change your life?
I hate to see Messianic Gentiles essentially denigrating their position as non-Jews as if it's somehow wrong, unhealthy, inferior or undesirable. This is just not so. Nobody is inferring such when they make the statement that you are not obligated to all of Jewish Law.