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LYNNE!!!!!...it's so good to hear from you again!! Man, it's been quiet around here...where did everybody go? Wow...your job does sound stressful! I would be scared to work with mentally handicapped men! They are so strong, how do you control them :eek: !? I'm sorry you are missing your friends. Are you still in you bible study group? Do you see any of those people now? I'm feeling a bit lonely myself now. My kids are back in school and my hubby is back fishing the regular oyster season....so I'm home all by myself all day :cry: . I do like the peace and freedom but I'm getting a bit lonely already! It's gonna be a long fall for me, I think. I have been feeling so good, I just don't want to start feeling low and depressed again! Please pray for me.

Drop back in when you can. I don't come on very much either, because hardly anyone was posting, but I check in every once in awhile. Have you heard or seen anything of April? I hope she's doing o.k!?

Bye

Mask!! I'm so glad to connect with you again :). Work has been good the last few weeks. It's really not that scary, the guys are mostly very sweet and in my home they're pretty disabled, so the biggest fear is dropping them during a lift or something. We do a lot of lifts. The two new girls who started are doing a really good job and they're both so sweet, they're both young marrieds and they work hard and care about the residents. I went to my cousin's wedding, it was nice. Then last weekend I went hiking at this awesome park 2 1/2 hours away from our town. It has huge cliffs and caves and natural bridges and stuff. During the right season, it has a lot of waterfalls too, but not during the fall. My friend and I had a great time. She might not go back to Taiwan after all. If she can find a job soon, she'll be able to get a visa to stay longer. I really hope she finds a job! Can you pray for her? I'm taking her to a job fair on Friday, hopefully that will help. Next weekend I switched shifts so I can go with my friend to a Christian music festival at a Christian college nearby. Jars of Clay is performing!!!! I'm so excited I love them!!!

Unfortunately, I can't go to my Bible study anymore because I now work second shift and I work every single Wednesday night. I'm trying to find a morning Bible study to go to but I haven't found a good one yet. It's too bad, my Bible study was so supportive of my search for a job, and now that I have one, I can't go to Bible study anymore. At least I can always go to church on Sunday.

I can empathize with feeling lonely during the day, I often do. My family's all gone during the day and I don't work until 2:30 so I get lonely. I could try to get a first-shift job at work but if you work first-shift at my workplace you mostly do cleaning, because the residents are at work most of your shift. I think I would rather interact with the residents on second shift, like I do. That's what makes my job fun. Tonight at work should be fun, it's one of the resident's birthdays, and I went out and bought him a card and a present. He has the mentality of a 9-month-old, but he's so sweet. He likes musical toys so I bought him a toy cell phone that says the numbers in English and Spanish when you press on the buttons, and plays music.

I haven't talked to April in a while but she has an account on facebook, that college-student networking site that I'm on too. So I left her a message on there, hopefully she'll respond soon. :)

Tracey said she's doing well, I talk to her on facebook too. (tlb)

Hope you have a good weekend!

Lynne
 
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I am back! at least for the time being. I'm sorry I've been away for so long... I've missed you all. :-( How is life treating y'all? How are you, Mask, Lynne, Tracey, newage, everyone? :hug::hug::hug:
Well, I guess it could be worse, emotionally...
I'm fine right now, except next time I decide to get on the PC, I'll make sure I login to my Yahoo account so the Yahoo toolbar will let me know who's on and who's not on, cuz it's annoying to open Messenger up and have noone on (the real problem is that certain folks who don't say anything [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] me off more, unless they have something to do, when I IM them).
 
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Hey Frenzy, and welcome. :) I'm not a newbie, but it's been awhile since I've been here... but still, welcome! :hug: How are you doing?

Today is going okay for me. I've only got one class, intro to nutrition, and that's done for the day, so I can relax now. I have a nutritionist appointment this afternoon, so I'm nervous about that....... ick. Other than that, not really anything going on. I'm looking forward to this evening, when I get home. I'll get to see my fiance (he's living with my parents and me right now, til he finds an apartment and is settled in his job [he just moved here from 1200 miles away]) and we'll talk about "stuff" and later will have tea together, our own little special routine. :) Very pleasant. Anyway... other things in my life are alright. Not been tres depressed lately, and SI/ED stuff is manageable. Never thought I'd be able to say that!! ^_^

/me gets the coffee brewing, turns the teakettle on, and takes out some buns that she just baked.
 
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Hi frenzy, sorry to hear you're going through a difficult patch.

Hi everyone< I've missed you all.

Sorry I haven't been here in months!

I'm doing really well, I'm still in my web development job and I've been learning so much. It can get very frustrating when I can't get something to work but its rewarding when it does eventually work.

My exams start next week, I've been studying pretty hard so I hope I do okay.

My church is getting a lovely, young pastoral couple at the beginning of next year so I'm really looking forward to that. My church needs to have a young pastor.

I hope everybody is doing okay, its so nice to see so many new people here.
 
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*hugs to y'all*

Things are pretty tough for me, getting too drained to function, didn't make college at all this week.

eugh, I know how that feels. I just graduated from uni (only just!) and trying to keep on top of school work as well as this crazy stuff is almost impossible sometimes

Really hope you feel better soon! This stuff is never fun!:hug:

April not spoken to you for ages! How are you doing?

Hope your exams go well for you TLB. I'm glad you're enjoying your course! :) xx
 
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:hug: Frenzy. I'm so sorry to hear that. :-( :hug: I'm engaged, so I can really empathize with that... I'm sorry that something that horrid had to happen to you. It's not your fault that he did things that he promised not to do - so don't blame yourself. I wish I could help more. :(

Laura :hug: It's been ages since I've seen you. I'm sorry to hear that stuff is icky... anything in particular going on?

Jude, Tracey :hug: I know, it has been ages! I'm glad to hear that you graduated, Jude, and best of luck with your exams, TLB! I'm sure you'll do just fine. :) Try not to stress about it - easier said than done, and said very frequently, but it's still good advice, in my mind. Not like it ever worked for me, though... *rolls eyes* Teehee.

Things with me are alright. Uni is keeping me busy, I've loads of work to do this weekend, but depression hasn't been too bad. I've gone off lithium (I'm bipolar) and although I'm still having nighttime crashes/lows, they aren't as bad as they were before I started lithium. Which is weird, but I'm not complaining. SI has been icky a bit, but I'm surviving, and ED is going okay. Nothing spectacular, really. Tonight my fiance (Jarrod) and I will be stargazing... that will be fun, lying out together in the yard just watching the sky and cuddling. :) It was a suggestion from a close friend, and I think it's a good one!

Anyway... I missed you all while I was gone. :)
 
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I just feel really awful. I'm hurting so much....

Same here...I'm awake right now because it's beginning to haunt my dreams, and I don't want that. :hug: I hope you feel better by the time you read this (and I hope I can get some sleep).

~Hallie
 
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