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Consider if your schedule is overcrowded. Ask God to reveal one responsibility that can be delegated or released. Then act upon His answer.

What does having margin in our schedules really mean?
Why would God want us to have more flexible time?
What relationships/commitments take the most time in your life? Are these at the top of your priority list?
What is one thing you know God is asking you to do, but you haven't done yet?
Why haven't you done this?
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something I have some experience with. After reading a book I was given by my church a few years ago called, "Ordering Your Private World" by Gordon MacDonald (an ex methodist minister who ended up having a nervous breakdown and coming back from it - he walks you through how he overcame basically) -- I knew though, I had to make some changes too.

I knew this wasn't the life God intended for me but it just seemed like what everybody else was doing so I plugged on for awhile. But little by little, between the book and God pruning some things and people out of my life that were pulling more resources from me than was beneficial - I am finally to a place of rest and ease that is more of a blessing than I could describe.

I finally learned - that it really is (not only) OK to schedule downtime, but it's absolutely CRUICIAL to quiet time with quote unquote nothing to do. Not only for myself and my own sanity. But so I can be still and hear God's direction. And I guard that quiet time with my life. I don't let ANYone try to take it from me. It's become that precious to me.

That is when I am reading God's word; journaling - which is how I pray and keep track of what is going on and most of the time how the answers/guidance come to me. I highly suggest it! I really do!
 
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My schedule is just right at the moment. There was a time when it was overloaded and my husband politely told me that I had to give something up. I did and my family and I are in a better place. When I'm stressed the house feels it. ;) I might be adding a bible study to my schedule soon but it will only be for 6-8 weeks and that is ok. I have a long list of ministry needs I would love to be involved in but I know that I can't do it all. I won't sacrafice the well being of my family in order to be involved in ministry. I think as women we tend to take on too much and get burnt out. By constantly overlooking our schedules and re-evaluating the current season of our lives we can make sure there is a sense of balance.

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Hello everyone,
I’m about to sign off probably for the night. Tomorrow my time, if any, will be very limited as we finish packing and complete final preparations for our vacation.

I will have CF withdrawal for a week!!! What will I do? How will I ever catch back up???? It’s bittersweet since a reprieve from everything is much needed and long overdue.

While I am away I will be thinking and praying for everyone—for safety, comfort, warmth and abundant love and peace. I will miss all of you! And I can’t wait to comeback and catch up.
 
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Hello everyone,
I’m about to sign off probably for the night. Tomorrow my time, if any, will be very limited as we finish packing and complete final preparations for our vacation.

I will have CF withdrawal for a week!!! What will I do? How will I ever catch back up???? It’s bittersweet since a reprieve from everything is much needed and long overdue.

While I am away I will be thinking and praying for everyone—for safety, comfort, warmth and abundant love and peace. I will miss all of you! And I can’t wait to comeback and catch up.
Have a great vacation! Take care and u will be in my prayers.
God Bless!
 
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Good Morning Everyone...


God Bless You !
Hello. I hope ur day has been great.
GOD BLESS!!!
 
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Back in 2001 I rededicated my life and got very involved in our church. Anytime there was something going on, I wanted to be there. I also volunteered for numerous things. I was very busy, always doing something. I also worked (and still do) 40 hours a week outside the home. Most evenings I was gone either at church or somewhere else doing something.
Many of the things I did were "good" (Bible studies, drama team at church, etc). But, just because they were good, didn't mean I had to do them!!
God finally got through to me and I realized I was way too busy and my family was being neglected. I knew I had to give some things up. It was soooo hard! I liked being involved in things, being around people, and doing things at church. But, I gave up almost everything because I knew that is what God wanted.
As I stated, it was hard. I was so used to be on the go all the time, doing things and being around people. It was hard to just stay home in the evenings! But God slowly changed me until I really enjoyed being home.
I have slowly gotten a little more involved lately. I try to be very selective in what I do though. Our worship and involvement minister wants everyone involved in a small group. I'm not against small groups and have been in them before and enjoyed them. But I haven't joined one yet. Mainly because there are 4 nights out of the week where at least one of us has something to do. So that is 4 nights where we aren't all together as a family. I think that is plenty!
Even though I'm not every busy, I still find it hard to find time to do things like exercise (which I really really need to do), work on my art and have quiet time. I need to sit down every weekend and schedule those things in for the week!
 
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The devotional that I chose to share with you over the next weeks comes from Safe in the Shepherd's Arms by Max Lucado. It's the Hope and Encouragement from Psalm 23. We can all use hope and encouragement, and our beloved brother David gives us that as we look to our Lord as our Shepherd.


' The Lord Is My Shepherd '
The psalmist rejoiced to say, " The Lord is my shepherd,"
and in doing so he proudly implied, " I am his sheep."


Why did David write the Twenty-third Psalm? To build our trust in God... to remind us of who he is. God is Yahweh - an unchanging God, an uncaused God, an ungoverned God.
When Lloyd Douglas, author of The Robe and other novels, attended college,he lived in a boardinghouse. A retired, wheelchair - bound music professor resided on the first floor. Each morning Douglas would stick his head in the door of the teacher's apartment and ask the same question. " Well, what's the good news?" The old man would pick up his tuning fork, tap it on the side of the wheelchair and say, " That's middle C! It was middle C yesterday, it will be middle C tomarrow, it will be middle C a thousand years from now. The tenor upstairs sings flat. The piano across the hall is out of tune, but, my friend, that is middle C. "
You and I need a mildd C. Haven't you had enough change in your life? Relationships change. Health changes. The weather changes. But the Yahweh who ruled the earth last night is the same Yahweh who rules it today. Same convictions. Same plan. Same mood. Same love. He never changes. You can no more alter God than a pebble can alter the rhythm of the Pacific. Yahweh is our middle C. A still point in a turning world. Don't we need a still point? Don't we need an unchanging shepherd?
We equally need an uncaused shepherd. No on breathed life into Yahweh. No one sired him. No one gave birth to him. No one caused him. No act brought him forth.
Though he created, God was never created. Though he makes, he was never made. Though he causes, he was never caused. Hence the psalmist's proclamation: " Before the mountains were born or you brought forth the earth and the world, from everlasting to everlating you are God" (PS 90:2) ...
God - our Shepherd - doesn't check the weather, he makes it. He doesn't defy gravity; he created it. He isn't affected by health; he has no body. Jesus said, " God is spirit."( John 4:24). Since he has no body, he has no limitations - equally active in Cambodia as he is in Connecticut. " Where can I go to get away from your Spirit?" asked David. " Where can I run from you? If I go up to the heavens, you are there. If I lie down in the grave, you are there" ( PS 139:7-8)
Since no act brought him forth, no act can take him out. Does he fear an earthquake? Does he tremble at a tornado? Hardly, Yehweh sleeps through storms and calms the winds with a word. Chance does not trouble him and cemeteries do not disturb him. He was here before they came. He'll be here after they are gone...
Counselors can comfort you in the storm, but you need a God who can still the storm. Friends can hold your hand at your deathbed, by you need a Yahweh who has defeated the grave. Philosophers can debate the meaning of life, but you need a Lord who can declare the meaning of life.
You need a Yahweh.
You don't need what Dorothy found.
Remember her discovery in the Wonderful Wizard of Oz? She and her trio followed the yellow brick road only to discover that the wizard was a wimp! Nothing but smoke and mirros and tin-drum thunder. Is that the kind of god you need?
You don't need to carry the burden of a lesser god... a god on a shelf, a god in a box, or a god in a bottle. No, you need a God who can place 100 billion stars in our galaxy and 100 billion galaxies in the universe. You need a God who can shape two fists of flesh into 75 to 100 billion nerve cells, each with as many as 10,000 connections to other nerve cells, place it in a skull, and call it a brain.
And you need a God who, while so mind numbingly mighty, can come in the soft of night and touch you with the tenderness of an April snow.
You need a Yahweh.
And, according to David, you have one. He is your Shepherd.


"Come to me," God invites, " all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest" (Matt 11:28) If we let him, God will lighten our loads... but how do we let him? David encourages us to look to God, as sheep look towards their shepherd.
- Do you truely look at God as your Shepherd?
- What loads are you carrying that need to be given to God?
 
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"I tell you the truth, the man who does not enter the sheep pen by the gate, but climbs in by some other way, is a thief and a robber. The man who enters by the gate is the shepherd of his sheep. The watchman opens the gate for him, and the sheep listen to his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. When he has brought out all his own, he goes on ahead of them, and his sheep follow him because they know his voice. But they will never follow a stranger; in fact, they will run away from him because they do not recognize a stranger's voice." Jesus used this figure of speech, but they did not understand what he was telling them.

Therefore Jesus said again, "I tell you the truth, I am the gate for the sheep. All who ever came before me were thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not listen to them. I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved. He will come in and go out, and find pasture. The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. The hired hand is not the shepherd who owns the sheep. So when he sees the wolf coming, he abandons the sheep and runs away. Then the wolf attacks the flock and scatters it. The man runs away because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep.

I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me— just as the Father knows me and I know the Father—and I lay down my life for the sheep. I have other sheep that are not of this sheep pen. I must bring them also. They too will listen to my voice, and there shall be one flock and one shepherd. The reason my Father loves me is that I lay down my life—only to take it up again. No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down and authority to take it up again. This command I received from my Father."
-John 10: 1-18

How many of us truely understand the dedication of the shepherd? I know I don't. I've seen sheep, I've even pet a lamb at the petting zoo, but I've never met a shepherd. I've never seen him lead his sheep, I've never seen him wrestle a wolf or a bear, I don't understand the why he would lay down his life for his flock. I worked at a bank for a little while after Corban was born. One day, one of the branches got robbed, and so, we had a meeting in which, the supervisors, and the head of the branch talked to us tellers. They made it clear, that if you get robbed, you do not try anything heroic. The money was replaceable, you were not. You just give them the money, and follow proceedure. My best friend Amy, works at a gas station, she too, has been told the same thing. If someone comes in, you give them the money, and follow proceedure. Sound Advice, one of which I totally agree with. That is what we are taught. Our jobs are not worth our lives. Yet, the shepherd is different. The shepherd will die for his sheep, he will fight for his sheep. Why? That's what I cannot understand. We know from the bible David fought off lions and bears as did the shepherds before him. What is it about sheep that makes a true shepherd lay down his life? Yes, it's his livelyhood, but is that what makes him lay down his life? Aren't sheep replaceable just as money is to the teller or the cashier? The only thing I can think of, and I could be wrong, it's just my opinion, is that they are 100% dependant. They are helpless. Sheep are defenseless, they stay where they are, even in danger. They wait on the shepherd, because they trust their shepherd completely, 100%, and if their shepherd happens to run, then they die. If someone, or something depends 100% upon you, could you run?
I look at dogs and cats, and whatever else we have as a pet. We love our pets, but also know, that if in danger, they will run. Our kids, they depend upon us, they need us, yet if in danger, they would run. But what about someone who is 100% dependant upon you, if push came to shove who wouldn't help? Who wouldn't lay down their life? If you knew a newborn baby was trapped in a fire? Wouldn't you run in to save him? Why because he is totally helpless, if you don't he dies. Could it be sheep are the same way to their shepherd?
We know that Jesus is our Shepherd, and we are His sheep.
Aren't we as defenseless as sheep? Can we help ourselves? Can we when faced with the lion or bear (satan, addictions, depression, fear, worry, ect) stand our ground, or are we helpless against the attack? We stand in the midst of danger because like sheep, we can't do anything about it. We like the sheep, HAVE to look towards Jesus, our Shepherd.
What really hits me, is "All who ever came before me were thieves and robbers," How many times have we looked to others when we should of looked to God. Our parents, our friends, our boyfriends, husbands. I've looked at others to fulfill my life. To take away all the troubles, and when they couldn't, I withdrew. I put my hope in them, to carry me through the storms of life, and when when they couldn't, I was angry, I was bitter, I was lost, because they are human. They couldn't be everything I need, do everything I need. And I was dissappointed in them, which was unfair. The only one that can give you and me what we need, what we desire, is God. When we stop putting our hopes and our dreams in them, and start putting them in Him, is when we like the sheep become totally dependant on our Shepherd. And isn't He Faithful?"I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. The hired hand is not the shepherd who owns the sheep. So when he sees the wolf coming, he abandons the sheep and runs away. Then the wolf attacks the flock and scatters it. The man runs away because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep."

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Sorry my post turned into a novel.


- Do you truely look at God as your Shepherd?
- What loads are you carrying that need to be given to God?

If I was truthful with myself, I would say only half the time. Sometimes, I try to do things my own way, and I look to others for help first. I need to break this pattern of thinking, aiming to be independant, and become totally dependant on Him, seeking Him first.
 
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"Come to me," God invites, " all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest" (Matt 11:28) If we let him, God will lighten our loads... but how do we let him? David encourages us to look to God, as sheep look towards their shepherd.
- Do you truely look at God as your Shepherd?
- What loads are you carrying that need to be given to God?
Sometimes I have to take a second to sit myself down and say, "hey, I can't do this on my own." It usually happens in my car, on my way home from work. I have a long drive and it gives me lots of time to think about whatever is going on in my life. It's like the song "Jesus, Take the Wheel." Sometimes, I just have to say, I can't do this - here, Lord, please drive for me. We don't need to worry about everything - as I've heard it said: Give your problems to the Lord, he'll be up all night anyway. I always thought that was a cute saying. And it is said really well in the song "What a Friend we Have in Jesus" - "oh, what peace we often forfeit, oh what needless pain we bear, all because we do not carry, everything to God in prayer." It's so true! God offers to take all of our stress, all of our worries off our shoulders - we just have to let him, it's as simple as that! So, yes, I do look to God as my shepherd - I could never have gotten through certain periods in my life if he wouldn't have picked me back up, brushed me off, and put my burdens on his shoulders. Right now, the one constant that I am always thinking about is our journey to try to have children. I have had two miscarriages - the last was almost a year ago. I think about it too much - and it's really hard on me to remember what I went through the last time. This is definitely one load that I need to give to God. I need to put it all into God's hands.
 
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- Do you truely look at God as your Shepherd?
- What loads are you carrying that need to be given to God?


Yes, I truly do look to God as my Shepherd. I try not to do ANYthing without His input and guidance. However, I'd be lying if I tried to sound like I wasn't human and no longer messed up on this one. Because I do!

There are times I forget to stop and pray when something happens. I'm getting better about it. Then there are times when I forget to WAIT for the answer, being the impatient human being that I am and have a tendency at times to do things without God's leading.

Right now, I'm pretty good on the load carrying. I don't have too much going on in that department. Just one or two situations that rear their ugly heads sometimes - but nothing out of control.

Great topic again!
 
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Sometimes I have to take a second to sit myself down and say, "hey, I can't do this on my own." It usually happens in my car, on my way home from work. I have a long drive and it gives me lots of time to think about whatever is going on in my life. It's like the song "Jesus, Take the Wheel." Sometimes, I just have to say, I can't do this - here, Lord, please drive for me. We don't need to worry about everything - as I've heard it said: Give your problems to the Lord, he'll be up all night anyway. I always thought that was a cute saying. And it is said really well in the song "What a Friend we Have in Jesus" - "oh, what peace we often forfeit, oh what needless pain we bear, all because we do not carry, everything to God in prayer." It's so true! God offers to take all of our stress, all of our worries off our shoulders - we just have to let him, it's as simple as that! So, yes, I do look to God as my shepherd - I could never have gotten through certain periods in my life if he wouldn't have picked me back up, brushed me off, and put my burdens on his shoulders. Right now, the one constant that I am always thinking about is our journey to try to have children. I have had two miscarriages - the last was almost a year ago. I think about it too much - and it's really hard on me to remember what I went through the last time. This is definitely one load that I need to give to God. I need to put it all into God's hands.
I too like the song "Jesus take the wheel." I often sat in my car (when I had one) just listening to the entire song after I arrived at a destination. Last summer I gave Him more control (which I sadly have not let Him keep). However, the song also showed that she made poor life decisions (like driving way too fast) to the point where she had no choice but to let Christ take over. And yes, I've done that too. (I've gone in the ditch because I drove way too fast on ice, among other poor decisions).
 
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- Do you truely look at God as your Shepherd?
- What loads are you carrying that need to be given to God?

I do look to God as my Shepherd. I know full well that I can't do it on my own. Last summer I started to commit my life and day to God each morning. I give Him everything I am and have each morning in prayer and ask Him to take control of my day. I ask Him to guide my steps and to mold me into the person He wants me to be.

I still fail though. There are still many times when I look to others for an easy fix. I start to think selfishly and push the still quiet voice of the only One who can truly help me into the back of my mind and do what others say or what my selfish desire says. This is something I have to continually work on. I have countless journal entries that say, "Lord, I try to fill the voids in my soul with people or things...how long will it take me to realize that You fill them all?"

When I'm being sinful I run from God. I try to hide just like Adam and Eve did when they sinned and ate from the forbidden tree. It doesn't take long for my life to unravel and for me to realize that I can't hide. I need to go back to God, repent, confess and re-connect with Him. I feel like a little child who needs to be disciplined again and again. I wish I would just get it already. :sigh:

Awesome Post Burn!!!!

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Consider if your schedule is overcrowded. Ask God to reveal one responsibility that can be delegated or released. Then act upon His answer.


What does having margin in our schedules really mean?
Why would God want us to have more flexible time?
What relationships/commitments take the most time in your life? Are these at the top of your priority list?
What is one thing you know God is asking you to do, but you haven't done yet?
Why haven't you done this?


Verses:
John 10:10 "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly." (NAS)
Isaiah 26:3 "You, Lord, give perfect peace to those who keep their purpose firm and put their trust in you." (TEV)
Ephesians 5:17 "Don't live carelessly, unthinkingly. Make sure you understand what the Master wants." (MSG)


I think this is one of the greatest topics we can ever talk about because it deals with having to put and keep God first above everything else.

I have trouble with giving my time to God first most of the time. I either find myself watching too much t.v., real long hours on the computer, I havent been reading my bible much or praying like I should.

Earlier this week, God was dealing with me on all of this. I seem to make time or spend too much time on everything else instead of giving God what He desires and wants. I usually wait until the end of the day to pray and talk to God...then when I do that, Im too tired or sleepy to give my whole self to Him. I end up playing God cheap. Right now I feel sooo heart-broken. I feel that if God can give me all of Him, then why cant I do the same?

I know God is looking for true committment, dedication and time out of me.
I need to do my part so God can do what He wants to in my life.
 
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"Come to me," God invites, " all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest" (Matt 11:28) If we let him, God will lighten our loads... but how do we let him? David encourages us to look to God, as sheep look towards their shepherd.
- Do you truely look at God as your Shepherd?
- What loads are you carrying that need to be given to God?

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This is an excellent topic. Only Jesus Christ can truly and completely be here for us and love us the way He does. When one of us goes astray, He runs after us and wont stop until we recieve Him with open arms.
What a mighty God we serve...He is our Shephard, Master, Best Friend, Father, Maker, and groom. He is our protector, provider, healer, deliverer and gives us freedom. (Thank u Jesus).
 
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I too like the song "Jesus take the wheel." I often sat in my car (when I had one) just listening to the entire song after I arrived at a destination. Last summer I gave Him more control (which I sadly have not let Him keep). However, the song also showed that she made poor life decisions (like driving way too fast) to the point where she had no choice but to let Christ take over. And yes, I've done that too. (I've gone in the ditch because I drove way too fast on ice, among other poor decisions).

I've definitely made my share of poor choices... I've been in the ditch too - driving too fast on ice! :) Among many others - It does bring you to the moment where, yes, you have no choice but to let Christ take over - and I'm so thankful that he does!!!
 
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I think this is one of the greatest topics we can ever talk about because it deals with having to put and keep God first above everything else.

I have trouble with giving my time to God first most of the time. I either find myself watching too much t.v., real long hours on the computer, I havent been reading my bible much or praying like I should.

Earlier this week, God was dealing with me on all of this. I seem to make time or spend too much time on everything else instead of giving God what He desires and wants. I usually wait until the end of the day to pray and talk to God...then when I do that, Im too tired or sleepy to give my whole self to Him. I end up playing God cheap. Right now I feel sooo heart-broken. I feel that if God can give me all of Him, then why cant I do the same?

I know God is looking for true committment, dedication and time out of me.

I need to do my part so God can do what He wants to in my life.

I also struggle with this. I used to get up early in the morning (like between 5 & 5:30) to have my Bible study and prayer time. I then got out of the habit and haven't gotten back into it. It is so hard to drag myself out of bed that early most mornings!!
But then, if I wait, I find that I'm either too tired or forget to do it before going to bed.
I am slowly trying to get back to doing it regularly.
One thing I did before, (when I used to get up early), is I prayed about it. I had been trying to do it before bed, but as I stated above, was too tired most the time. So, when I prayed about finding a time to do it, I just told God that if He wanted me to get up early to do it, then He'd have to wake me up! So that night when I went to bed, I left my alarm clock set for the regular time I always got up (6:00). The next morning, I woke up and it was 5:30!! But, I rolled over and went back to sleep! :eek: That happened like 2-3 mornings in a row, and I finally decided I better get up because God was apparently waking me up!!
But as I said, I got out of that habit (I think because of being sick or something for awhile). And now I need to get back at it.
 
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