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Closed Doors

BeautyForAshes

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Closed Doors

We need to learn to praise the Lord as much for a closed door as we do an open door. The reason God closes doors is because He has not prepared anything over there for us. If he didn't close the wrong door, we would never find the right door.

God directs our path through the closing and opening of doors. Once a door closes, it forces you to change your course. Another door closes, it forces you to change your course again. Then, finally, you find the open door and you walk right into your blessing.

The Lord directs our paths through the opening and closing of doors, but instead of praising him for the closed door (which keeps us out of trouble); we get upset because we "judge by the appearances." You have an ever-present help in the time of trouble that is always standing guard. Because He walks ahead of you, He can spot trouble down the road and set up a roadblock or detour accordingly. But through our lack of wisdom, we try to tear down the roadblocks or push aside the detour sign. Then the minute we get into trouble, we start crying, "Lord, how could You have done this to me?"

We have got to realize that the closed door can be a blessing. Didn't He say that no good thing would He withhold from them that love Him?

If you get terminated from your job, praise God for the new opportunities that will manifest themselves: it might be another job, it might be school.

If that man or woman won't return your call, it might not be them, it might be the Lord setting up a roadblock (just let it go). One time, a person had a bank they had been in business with for many years tell them "No!" to a $10,000 loan. The Lord put in their spirit to call another bank. That bank gave them $40,000 at a lower interest rate than the first bank was offering.

We can sometimes trap ourselves in doubt and discouragement through judging by appearances. Be grateful for the many times our Father has closed doors to us just to open them in the most unexpected places. The Lord won't always say in spoken words: "Go to the left, now to the right" ...sometimes He will just close the doors that are wrong for you. God Bless You Always!

-- Author Unknown


 
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This might over-simplify things a little, but I like the message. It's too bad that we often aren't thankful for closed doors until years later, if at all. I know I have been there. I also think this problem can affect churches as well as individuals.
 
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I agree with you. I think its especially important for singles because lots of time, so many of us hang on too lost loves or feeslings of the past - and then wonder why we can't move on, meet someone new, etc.

I think this reminds us that, with God, there is hope in everything that happens to us. No matter the trial, disappointment, or setback, if we keep our focus on him, its all for our good - which is ALWAYS a blessing.
 
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BeautyForAshes said:
I agree with you. I think its especially important for singles because lots of time, so many of us hang on too lost loves or feeslings of the past - and then wonder why we can't move on, meet someone new, etc.

I think this reminds us that, with God, there is hope in everything that happens to us. No matter the trial, disappointment, or setback, if we keep our focus on him, its all for our good - which is ALWAYS a blessing.

There's always hope in God because he is the giver of hope and when we have disappointments and setbacks, focus on him and start anew and move on from there.
 
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Thanx for the post 'beauty'. I see the wisdom in the words, and can definitely recall too many occasions when I have even missed the blessings because I'm 'pining after what was lost' - not just relationship wise, but situationally as well. :doh: *Sheesh*

Little by little though, I'm accepting His sovereignty, and asking Him to show me the lessons in the things He allows in my life. In this, I'm learning to let go easier, and press toward what lies ahead.

To Him be the glory! :thumbsup:
 
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nhzname said:
Thanx for the post 'beauty'. I see the wisdom in the words, and can definitely recall too many occasions when I have even missed the blessings because I'm 'pining after what was lost' - not just relationship wise, but situationally as well. :doh: *Sheesh*

Little by little though, I'm accepting His sovereignty, and asking Him to show me the lessons in the things He allows in my life. In this, I'm learning to let go easier, and press toward what lies ahead.

To Him be the glory! :thumbsup:

First of all, beauty comes from within as well as wisdom not just comes from your mind but the bottom of your heart & soul. Accepting Christ's sovereignty will help you become more of the person that he wants you to become.
 
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Peter_in_Christ said:
Also with every closed doors we grow stronger in the Lord, we may often feel discouraged when we try to open certain doors and then find out that do not work out for us, but keep on going and try another, and another, and another... never give up!

Peter

God wants us to block everything out in order to concentrate on His love as well as mercy on us and to keep giving our all 110%!!
 
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SDSUMarcus01 said:
But I realize now that it's shut for a reason, and if that girl (as great as she is) isn't the one, then God has someone planned for me who is even better than great!

Amen, I agree there with that. When God closes the doors so very often i know He has someone better for me.
Yet it can be hard to have so many doors closed, but one day the door will be opended by Him, indeed those iron doors. I do thank Him for clsoe doors especially with past experience .
 
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songz777 said:
Amen, I agree there with that. When God closes the doors so very often i know He has someone better for me.
Yet it can be hard to have so many doors closed, but one day the door will be opended by Him, indeed those iron doors. I do thank Him for clsoe doors especially with past experience .

God will let the doors be open for us if He wants them to because He wants us to choose according to His plan.
 
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