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Christian views on mental illness.

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Do you think...
1) People with mental illness are demon possessed?
2) Are sometimes not responsible for their actions?
3) That God can forgive a mentally ill person for sinning if that person was 'not in control' at the time of sin?
4) That God loves people with mental illness?
5) That other Christians can accept the mentally ill into their church, group or whatever?
Sorry if these questions seem stupid.
 
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Do you think...
1) People with mental illness are demon possessed?
2) Are sometimes not responsible for their actions?
3) That God can forgive a mentally ill person for sinning if that person was 'not in control' at the time of sin?
4) That God loves people with mental illness?
5) That other Christians can accept the mentally ill into their church, group or whatever?
Sorry if these questions seem stupid.
Hi there!

YOUR QUESTIONS ARE NOT STUPID!

Okay, I'm not an expert on this complex subject, but can tell you a couple of things that I hope may help.

Firstly, I would see no reason to think that you're demon possessed at all. In my experience it takes some pretty serious stuff for someone to get into that state.

Secondly, God can forgive everyone! Your mental illness certainly does NOT preclude you from believing in Jesus and becoming a child of God. See the thread How exactly do you get into Heaven?

Thirdly, Christ's church, i.e., those people who truly belong to Him, should care about people with mental illness, or any kind of illness. Sadly in Western countries Christians often aren't very good at doing this. They should be, but mostly aren't. Sorry to have to say that to you.

But if you could find a church or group who really loved Jesus I'm sure you could be accepted. I have seen this happen.

As for your prayers, you CAN find God, and you CAN become a true Christian. More help on this is here simply for the asking, okay!

Happy happy 39th Birthday! And may there be many more!!

(you have a fair way to catch up to me tho! lol)

And God's blessings to you!

- Bondman (ministering the Good News of the Gospel)
 
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Welcome here, by the way!
I have to say that I've seen different reactions at different churches.

Realistically -- there seems to be the least mercy at the faintest levels of illness, where errors teeter between rational choice and inability to cope/properly process.

I've seen some wonderful moves on the part of churches to include people with severe autism and retardation... but then sometimes high expectations for people with depression and bipolar struggles. It's not official church policy... just varied human reaction. People can get ugly.... that's just who we are. I wouldn't avoid church out of fear that people won't understand, because you'll probably find some very supportive people who have been through the same things.

I'm just trying to be honest and realistic. Churches in theory will welcome you with open arms, and generally say that these errors are not sins. But you might have to hunt for a good match.

Demons --I have seen some people attribute illnesses to demonic influence, even among experienced professionals working in the field. But the emphasis is not on what the person has done to allow demons to take hold -- it's about being freed from unnecessary oppression. It's very simple and caring, not like the movies.

Generally, Christians live and work with many people taking medications for various things, and understand this. But there will always be someone who doesn't understand.
 
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Do you think...
1) People with mental illness are demon possessed?

Do you really think that Christians are that cruel?

I suffer from severe clinical depression and not once has any Christian ever suggested such a thing to me. I'm proud to say that all of the Christians around me have shown me nothing but love and support.

3) That God can forgive a mentally ill person for sinning if that person was 'not in control' at the time of sin?

Sin is an act of rebellion and, as such, must be volitional. If someone is not in control of their actions, then it isn't necessarily a sin.

4) That God loves people with mental illness?

"For God so loved the world..."

There is no caveat that says, "for God so loved the world, except people with mental illness".

This is like asking, "Does God love people with diabetes".

5) That other Christians can accept the mentally ill into their church, group or whatever?

Since I'm a deacon (soon to be elder) and am one of the founders of our church, I'd have to say yes. Many people in our church know about the struggles I've had over the last two years or so and not once have they ever questioned my competency to serve in leadership or teach and preach.

Sorry if these questions seem stupid.

They're not stupid, but some of the ideas you seem to have about Christians are unfortunate.
 
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Do you really think that Christians are that cruel?

That's not what I meant.
I forget the chapter and verse, but there's something in Mark (I think) about Jesus driving out demons into a heard of pigs or something. Maybe that was real possession, or maybe it was mental illness. Obviously you don't get phrases like 'bi-polar' etc in the Bible.
The point I was trying to get across was that it seems to me that in old times, mental illness was looked at in terms of demons etc. All I was asking was 'has that changed?'.
You make it clear that it has.

They're not stupid, but some of the ideas you seem to have about Christians are unfortunate.

I think you have misunderstood. Or maybe I just didn't explain myself well enough.
I don't really have any ideas about Christians. If I were asking Muslims I would ask the same questions in the same way.
I don't understand people very well. I don't socialise. It's no wonder you thought I had some weird ideas about Christians.
I'm truly sorry I came across that way. It was not my intention.
 
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Christians are as diverse as you can possibly imagine, even within one church, or one family. So we can't guarantee that you will never be hurt by what someone says. (Especially on a forum!)

You might be interested in reading some of the deliverance threads here, because this topic comes up a lot. There is not a consensus, but an interesting spread of experiences and theory.

Losing time and DID/MPD Side Thread (locked)
Alters/ Demonic, or a fractured part of the mind
spirit of infirmity???
Can demons make a person feel worthless and ineffectual?

The moderators in the Mental Health section are very careful to halt insensitive accusations about demon posession.




If you run into people who have had experiences with demons -- and I'm not just talking about Christians -- most of them will recognize the power that a demon can have over a person.

For instance, look at the practices of vodou
http://www.amnh.org/exhibitions/vodou/spirits.html

of North Pacific Shaman
http://www.amnh.org/exhibitions/exp...il/Treasures/Yakut_Shamans_Robe/yakut.html?50

Vietnamese Len Dong
http://www.amnh.org/exhibitions/vietnam/07_other/07c_spirits.php

... all over the world, people of many cultures were convinced of demonic intrusion in their lives.
 
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Happy Birthday!
And welcome.

Do you think...
1) People with mental illness are demon possessed?

Not at all. Medicine has come a long way and many forms of ailments are recognised. Sadly, much of the human race lags a long way behind medicine.

2) Are sometimes not responsible for their actions?

Yes. In times of extreme stress for example.
People with mental illness are clearly not in full control at times.

3) That God can forgive a mentally ill person for sinning if that person was 'not in control' at the time of sin?

God knows you and He knows your situation. If you are in a rage, for example, you may use His name to curse with. If, after the fact, you confess your sin I am sure He will understand.

4) That God loves people with mental illness?

God loves everyone equally.

5) That other Christians can accept the mentally ill into their church, group or whatever?

That is a very difficult question to answer. It is a true test of just how 'Christian' someone is, to see how they react when ill people are around them. I think it really depends on, for example, whether your illness would cause disruption to worship. That may be a problem for *some* groups.
I would be vary wary myself. People are rarely what they seem to be when presented with unusual circimstances. But of you can find a church just to attend for worship, and not get too involved with people, you should be fine.
It would be best to 'sound out' the priest/pastor or whatever, first.

Sorry if these questions seem stupid.

They are not stupid questions at all. You have shown great courage and honesty by asking them.
I hope you recieve many supportive replies.
I will pray for you and hope you find peace in Christ.
 
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Please allow me to add my perspectives, as well.

1) People with mental illness are demon possessed?
In most cases I would say no. I'm sure that demon-possession could be responsible in a very small number of people, but for the most part mental illness is an illness just like any other. If my pancreas stops working, I get diabetes, and if my brain malfunctions, I develop a mental illess.

2) Are sometimes not responsible for their actions?
I believe that mental illnesses, especially the more serious ones do render a person not responsible for their actions. To be responsible, one must know that what they are doing is wrong. It's impossible to know if your brain is working very poorly.

3) That God can forgive a mentally ill person for sinning if that person was 'not in control' at the time of sin?
God not only forgives the mentally ill, but He forgives anyone who truly asks Him. There are no exceptions to the rule. Jesus came to save ALL of us.

4) That God loves people with mental illness?
God ESPECIALLY loves those with mental illness. God loves everyone, but He pays special attention to those who suffer in any way.

5) That other Christians can accept the mentally ill into their church, group or whatever?
Realistically, you are going to run into Christians who have very narrow-minded views of mental illness. These types will attribute most kinds of mental illness to poor character or a lack of faith. If you run into that type, either on this board or elsewhere, just blow them off and find a new set of Christians.

By far the vast majority of Christians will accept any believer into the fold. A lot of churches even have special programs for people who suffer from mental illness. I suffer from severe depression and have always been accepted by other Christians.

Sorry if these questions seem stupid.
None of those questions are stupid at all. The only stupid question is the unasked question.

Please come over to the Mental Health and Recovery forums. We would love to have you over.
 
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Do you think...
1) People with mental illness are demon possessed?
No. They just have a problem... like 100% of the population.
2) Are sometimes not responsible for their actions?
Yep. If you are not fully mentally well, sometimes they do things out of their control.

3) That God can forgive a mentally ill person for sinning if that person was 'not in control' at the time of sin?
Yep. God is wonderful. He's loving and understands all situations.

4) That God loves people with mental illness?
Yes.

5) That other Christians can accept the mentally ill into their church, group or whatever?

Very much so.
 
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Do you think...
1) People with mental illness are demon possessed?
2) Are sometimes not responsible for their actions?
3) That God can forgive a mentally ill person for sinning if that person was 'not in control' at the time of sin?
4) That God loves people with mental illness?
5) That other Christians can accept the mentally ill into their church, group or whatever?
Sorry if these questions seem stupid.
1) No

2) sometimes

3) God forgives all sin, whether done 'in' or 'out' of control. Jesus died for all sins.

4) Well, I have mental illness, and I know He loves me. God told us in the bible that He IS Love.

5) I'm accepted in my church. The pastor even visits me when I've been on the psych floor.

Your questions are not stupid. I thank you for bringing them up. It's always good for folks to learn as much as possible about those of us who suffer from this.

May God Bless you and keep you!
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Do you think...
1) People with mental illness are demon possessed?
2) Are sometimes not responsible for their actions?
3) That God can forgive a mentally ill person for sinning if that person was 'not in control' at the time of sin?
4) That God loves people with mental illness?
5) That other Christians can accept the mentally ill into their church, group or whatever?
Sorry if these questions seem stupid.

1. No, I believe that it is an illness.
2. They are not always responsible for their actions.
3. God can forgive anyone whether they are in control or not at the time of sin.
4. God loves everyone
5. Christians can accept the mentally ill into their church. Special provisions may need to be made. For example if say a schizophrenic episode were to begin in the middle of service, then, one of the members should be trained on the best way to handle it.

Your questions are not stupid.

Lisa
 
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4) That God loves people with mental illness?
Just a reminder about how Jesus had compassion over people he healed... I don't know how well you know the gospels, but He treated people suffering very individually, with understanding and kindness.

His outbursts of critique came in the face of arrogant people who oppressed others.

Even in casting out demons, he didn't blame the person suffering.

Out of that whole story of the pigs, the only report of Jesus' words to the demons or the man were:

As told in Matthew --
32 And he said unto them, Go.

... and the same story in Mark:
8 For he said unto him, Come forth, thou unclean spirit, out of the man. 9 And he asked him, What is thy name?

Here's a statement that reflects his views on ilnesses--
Mt 10:8
Heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse the lepers, cast out demons: freely ye received, freely give.
 
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ihavementalhealthproblems -

Seems to me that you've had a wonderful concensus here of responses to your great questions!

I DO hope you are able to rest in them, accept them, and most of all believe that you can ACT upon them. No need for you to remain an agnostic. You CAN become a Christian and receive God's astonishing love into your life every day, and never be alone again because He will ALWAYS be with you.

In this thread you've also been shown the love and concern that characterises true Christianity. The dear folks here will rally round you and support you in any way they can, including in helping you to get born a second time and so get 'connected' to the true God and His Son Jesus.

To begin with you could have enough fellowship here that you could ever wish for! That's how good Christian Forums is!

My beloved wife and I both know sickness and hardship similar to what you experience. I've been a Christian now for 50 years, and would not swap His love for me and constant Presence with me for anything in this whole world. I've PROVED over and over and over that Jesus is all that the New Testament of the Bible says He is.

We'd all LOVE to help you become a Christian Believer.

Love in Jesus from us both!

- Bondman (ministering the Good News of the Gospel of Christ)
 
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Sometimes, God allows us to suffer so that we can relate to others.

For example, my beloved pastor, (also my uncle) became very, very depressed. In our family, we were taught that only "weak" people cannot get over tough life situations. Well, my uncle ended up having to go on medication because of his severe depression.

Unknown to him at the time, my husband was diagnosed a few years later as BiPolar. You can imagine how compassionate my uncle has been to my husband. I believe that God allowed our pastor to suffer so that he could better understand and minister to my husband and others.

God does not condemn those with mental illnesses. God will help you. God may or may not "cure" those with mental illness, but if He doesn't, it is for a reason.

We all love you and will do anything to help you. I pray that you turn to God and allow Him to help you. You will find love, mercy, and peace beyond understanding. You will instantly become a member of a family that will cherish you. Please PM me or anyone else here and allow us to guide you to salvation. It is so simple, so easy, so wonderful. I wish I had the words to tell you how great our God is and how He will be with you through anything.

God loves you and so do I.

Lisa
 
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Hello and Welcome to the Forums !

and Happy Birth Day !

Do you think...
1) People with mental illness are demon possessed?
2) Are sometimes not responsible for their actions?
3) That God can forgive a mentally ill person for sinning if that person was 'not in control' at the time of sin?
4) That God loves people with mental illness?
5) That other Christians can accept the mentally ill into their church, group or whatever?
Sorry if these questions seem stupid.

Jesus... as he was nailed to the Cross... spoke in his actions.. louder then any words.. he said...

"Child.. Just as you are today.. before me.. I find you worth Dieing for"

Knowing that......

How could I.. do anything but... love you and accept you...

God Bless

Key.
 
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That's not what I meant.
I forget the chapter and verse, but there's something in Mark (I think) about Jesus driving out demons into a heard of pigs or something. Maybe that was real possession, or maybe it was mental illness. Obviously you don't get phrases like 'bi-polar' etc in the Bible.
The point I was trying to get across was that it seems to me that in old times, mental illness was looked at in terms of demons etc. All I was asking was 'has that changed?'.
You make it clear that it has.



I think you have misunderstood. Or maybe I just didn't explain myself well enough.
I don't really have any ideas about Christians. If I were asking Muslims I would ask the same questions in the same way.
I don't understand people very well. I don't socialise. It's no wonder you thought I had some weird ideas about Christians.
I'm truly sorry I came across that way. It was not my intention.

OK.

Here is the problem.

Most people today get their ideas of Christianity from Hollywood. Elmer Gantry, Piper Laurie's character from the film, "Carrie", for example.

There truly are people out there who believe that we are what they see in the pictures. That we're Luddite, "burn the witch", no nothings, just looking for someone to oppress.

That isn't true. It isn't even remotely true.

What is true is that Christians deal with the same issues as anyone else. We have depression. We get cancer. We get laid off. The rain falls on the just and the unjust.

Are there Christians who an insensitive to people with mental illness? Sure there are.

But I'm proud to say that they're in the minority and I'm happy to report that, if they do have these negative attitudes toward people who have mental illness, it's certainly not because it's what Christianity teaches but because they, like so many people, are ignorant of what mental illness is.

I can't tell you how many non-Christians have told me to "just get over it", when I explain to them how depression affects me. But on the other hand, it's always been the Christians who've put their arms around me and said, "please tell me what I can do to support you through this". Or have then put a boot to my backside when I needed it.

Christianity doesn't teach that sickness is caused by demons or Satan, but that all men are subject to death and disease because that's the world we live in, fallen as a result of mankind's sin.

There is a story in God's word about Jesus and two of His disciples walking through a market place when they came across and crippled man.

One of His disciples said, "Rabbi, I have a question". He probably looked over at the other disciple as if to say, "what this! I'm going to show Jesus how pious I am".

"Rabbi", he continued, "that man, the crippled beggar. Obviously, this is a punishment from God. Who sinned, his mother or his father, that he should be crippled?"

Jesus turns to him and, as if addressing a small, not very bright child, says, "No one sinned. It isn't a punishment from God. God allowed him to go through this trial so that he could be a part of God's plan."

That's somewhat loosely paraphrased, but you get the point. Men are flawed. Physically, certainly spiritually, mentally, emotionally. But God takes what others in their ignorance would cast off as being abnormal or inferior or different and creates a Kingdom for His glory with those things.

I can't in good conscience reccoment Steve Brown's ministry at all, but he does have a saying that I like:

"Christians and non-Christians get cancer for the same reason: so that the world can see the difference".

You see, for a non-Christian with struggles similar to mine, depression is an obstacle to be overcome.

For me, when I am like Paul and learn to be weak so that God may become strong in me, then it becomes not an obstacle to overcome, but an opportunity to grow in Christlikeness.
 
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