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Occams Barber

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I don’t have time to reply to each of the 50-60 posts which came in on this thread overnight so this post will be a bit generic.

Firstly, I have no problem with the broad concept of freedom to practice your religion. However, like any freedom/right this is conditional on the ‘do no harm’ principle. The examples chosen in the OP were instances where, in my view, Christian practice was actually harmful to the broader society by breaching common standards like discrimination. I note that many of you have concerns about my ‘attack’ on religion. I’ve seen little consideration of the negative effect of Christian behaviour on society. That says it all.

Secondly. Secular and atheistic are not the same thing. Societal values are determined by a kind of amorphous consensus which includes Christians along with anyone else with an opinion. As a tiny, unorganised minority (dwarfed by the Christian majority) atheists are not in a position to command the influence that Christian conspiracy theorists like to claim they have. I have no patience for the idea that this is a Christian vs Atheist argument. Let my argument (and your response) stand on its own merits.

Thirdly. I have yet to see anyone justify any of the dozen or so negative behaviours I’ve listed. I’m excluding ‘because Christian’ or ‘because we always have’ as valid reasons since this ‘reasoning’ can be used to justify anything. If you want secular society to give you special exemptions then you need to argue in secular terms. Arguments about Sharia or Islam are equally irrelevant.

Finally – I see a significant gap opening up between what is acceptable to secular society and what is acceptable to Christianity. This gap takes two forms:
  1. A general difference of view on what acts are (im)moral and what are not. Examples include sex outside of marriage, contraception, homosexuality, euthanasia etc.
  2. A different view of what is acceptable behaviour coming from Christian organisations – the subject of this thread.
Some replies are confusing the two concepts.

Whether you like it or not, head-butting between Christianity and society-in-general will continue. Treat this thread as a dress rehearsal for the battles to come.
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You're completely dodging the issue. I'm talking about the extremists who think abortion should be permitted in any and all circumstances, and even extend that to killing babies after birth. Do you support that?

As an aside, do you honestly think abortion would be legal if men had to carry the fetus, instead of women?

Irrelevant.

It's not an abortion after a baby is born.

(Your attempt to poison the well is noted.)

Whatever you want to call it, there are extremist atheists who support it. Do you agree with them?

Of course not, don't be absurd. I'm judging a privileged Christian society that provides a platform to spew bigotry and hate.

And your ideological allies never do that?
 
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You're completely dodging the issue.
I'm sorry. I thought I was being direct.
I'm talking about the extremists who think abortion should be permitted in any and all circumstances, and even extend that to killing babies after birth.
No, I do not support the extremists who think abortion should be permitted in any and all circumstances, and even extend that to killing babies after birth. I would consider that manslaughter/murder, and the perpetrator should be held accountable in a court of law.
Do you support that?
No, I do not support that.
Irrelevant.
Hence my label as "an aside." But you know I'm right.
Whatever you want to call it, there are extremist atheists who support it. Do you agree with them?
No, I do not support them. No, I do not agree with them.
BTW, can you source who these "atheists" are?
And your ideological allies never do that?
Lol... what's an "ideological ally?"

Atheism is a belief regarding one thing only. From there, opinions and "ideologies" are all over the place.

As for dodging, you didn't answer my question to you: are you ok with a government mandating abortions for women over forty? If not, then you've got a serious problem in your thinking.
 
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Freedom of religion is a fundamental human right. People should have the freedom to practice their religion as their conscience dictates. You may not like it, but you should respect other peoples rights to see things differently.
I accept your right to practice your religion as you see fit - up to a point.

When your practice harms society then I'm afraid that society will always trump religion.

I've given you around a dozen examples of Christianity acting in ways which are completely unacceptable for secular organisations and are harmful, since they perpetuate and institutionalise things like discrimination.
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2) nor are they able to ignore the rules (laws) everyone must follow.
I gave you a dozen examples where Christians are not following the standards expected of secular organisations.

The examples I provided were all practices adopted by a significant proportion of Christian organisations. Not all organisations follow all practices but each one represents a significant sub group of Christians.

etc. This isn't a special exception, that Christian organizations would want to hire Christians according to their view of what they think is Christian.
If the actual job requires a particular religious orientation as an essential skill or knowledge - great - but this is rarely the case. Does a geography teacher need to be a Baptist to teach geography?
Not reporting on crimes discovered in the confessional is a basic Catholic tenet supported by Catholic hierarchy all the way up to the Pope as well as lay Catholics. This is hardly 'an exception to the general situation'.
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"There was a time when Christianity was indistinguishable from the secular state."

When was this and what was it that made it indistinguishable?


You definitely need to read a little Christian history. Church and state have been tangled up almost since the beginning of Christianity. Separation of Church and State is a relatively modern concept.
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You are referring to private organizations, however. Is your ideal a society in which nothing is private and there are no individual rights? That kind of society "behaves badly," too, you know. In spades, they do!

I refuse to play your legalistic game.

Discrimination is not accepted whether an organisation is private or public. In many Western countries employment discrimination is illegal whether your organisation is private or public. Requiring or expecting reasonable behaviour is not an infringement of individual rights.
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Then why do you act like all Christians agree with the worst extremists who want to kill people?
I'm not. Feel free to point out where I have, and I'll be happy to make that correction.

My comment was directly related to the observation that a Christian privileged society allows for hate speech of executing homosexuals and unruly children... by Christians.

Killing babies no different from abortion, experts say
The article doesn't mention anything about atheism, and the article was written in England.

Now who's dodging? Third time asking the question: are you ok with a government mandating abortions for women over forty?

If not, then you've got a serious problem in your thinking.
 
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Society sets behavioural standards. In some cases these are translated into laws. In other cases breaching these standards meets with societal disapproval in various forms.

I'm not claiming anything is 'objectively valid'. I have repeatedly said that my concern is about Christianity breaching secular standards of behaviour, like discrimination, and questioning whether it should be afforded this harmful privilege.

This thread is about Christian privilege in Christian dominated societies. If you want to talk about Muslim or Hindu or Buddhist or Sikh or Jewish privilege please start your own thread.
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Secularism has no basis to challenge societal norms; religion does. The West has accorded religion a certain autonomy for a long time, and there are good reasons to do so.

The place of religion as moral arbiter is coming to an end. Society is now more inclined to define its norms without the need for Christian approval. This is usually based on a growing appreciation of what is harmful and what is not as a replacement for Divine Command Theory (i.e. "God said").
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And it allows atheists to say things that are just as bad.
 
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Christianity should NEVER be required to comply with the law of secular governments that accept everything.

Did you read the opening post? He detailed a whole list of behaviours that secular governments or organizations do not accept but are acceptable to most Christians. That actually is gradually changing slowly.
 
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Thank you Maria - I appreciate the effort you put into your post.

My concern is not so much with Christian rules. It's more to do with Christian behaviour. As an observer it seems to me that Christians can (and do) bend the Bible to mean whatever they want it to mean. (I'm not accusing you of doing this).

For many centuries Christianity set the rules on what was good and bad behaviour. With time and knowledge we've grown up enough to make our own decisions as a collective society. Christianity is slow in catching up and is still under the impression that it's in charge of the moral rulebook.

We're now at a point where it is not unreasonable to point to certain Christian behaviours and declare them immoral based on our collective societal values. Christianity disagrees and demands exemption from many of these standards under the guise of Religious Freedom.

What Christianity needs to accept is that the world has turned and it no longer holds the standard for moral behaviour.
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I don't think religion as a source of morality is coming to an end at all, and the idea that Divine Command Theory was ever a prominent theological opinion is nothing more than a strawman composed of ignorance. Apart from that, though, Western pluralistic society will always give religion a certain degree of autonomy. That really has nothing to do with how society defines its norms. Your alternative is just another form of imposed totalitarianism.
 
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And it allows atheists to say things that are just as bad.
All right Dodger, whatever you say.

I used to consider you an honest poster. This last exchange with you has caused me to change my opinion of you.

Take care.
 
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I don't think religion as a source of morality is coming to an end at all, and the idea that Divine Command Theory was ever a prominent theological opinion is nothing more than a strawman composed of ignorance.
Perhaps not an 'end' but certainly as a significant force.

Apart from that, though, Western pluralistic society will always give religion a certain degree of autonomy.
I agree. I'm just raising the question of how much autonomy is enough.
That really has nothing to do with how society defines its norms
I'm not sure what the "That" is your referring to. Society defines its norms and standards through endless internal conversations, protests, disagreements and investigations. It's a moveable feast with many moving parts. Christianity is in their somewhere although its impact is diminishing.
Your alternative is just another form of imposed totalitarianism.
Raising the question of whether we should reconsider giving free reign to organisations which openly practice discrimination is hardly totalitarian. This is what's known an argument based on the principle of 'reductio ad absurdum' or taking the argument to a ridiculous extreme.
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I agree. I'm just raising the question of how much autonomy is enough.

Okay.

I'm not sure what the "That" is your referring to.

My previous sentence: religious autonomy in a pluralistic society.


Discrimination is just a word. Its non-pejorative meaning is to sift, weigh, or distinguish. Your pejorative usage is just a classic example of imposed ideology. "Oh, you can disagree and have autonomy, but you can't discriminate!" When a society starts drawing arbitrary lines in the sand based on a few decades of social science you're pert near soft forms of totalitarianism.
 
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I accept your right to practice your religion as you see fit - up to a point.

When your practice harms society then I'm afraid that society will always trump religion.

I don't see how having certain religious rites or customs harms society. Adults are free to choose any religion they wish in my country (USA).
 
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I agree. BTW, my church does ordain women as pastors but I do not agree with characterizing churches that do not as a "harm to society" that justifies prohibiting the free exercise of their religion. That's infantilizing grown adults.

In a free marketplace of ideas, the best ideas tend to win out anyways. Many Protestants in my country belong to churches that ordain women or have women in positions of leadership.
 
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