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So tell me. What kind of behavior falls under the category of this "fractured masculinity"?
that's fine. there will be many males who will appreciate a woman flat out telling them "I don't find you attractive in the least and I would never go out with you".
for others playing the meta game, it's helpful to be able to read the ques. saves you a lot of frustration.
Nah I stopped caring about 15 minutes ago.
in the word's of the phone company Oneplus:I require this:
They prefer, by a huge percentage, a man who is emotionally reserved (never heard a woman tell me I should be more emotional) more aggressive, both interpersonally and physically, more dominant and in control.
I am incapable of responding to anything else. It isn't plentiful in this sandbox.
People aren’t as God-centered as they profess.
Agreed, I'm getting the point where I don't try to hide it. Though I do think a little bit of is still there. But I'm tired of people acting like they are perfect godly people.
I find male weakness equally annoying. There’s nothing worse than the neutered male who stands erect hoping you don't notice. I’ve seen them supplicated and wholly at home.
But on the other side men can be too domineering and make the discussion of Truth uncomfortable.
No one is fully male or fully female.
Not sure if it's a platitude, but I think it's something close.
One Christian single lady I was getting to know. I had noticed her height requirement in a man was min. of 5'10". I am 5'8" and I had asked her if a guy a bit shorter than that, would she be okay with that.
She answered, "If God has guided me to do so, then yes".
I thought this was an unusual way to answer a question. I mean, why not say, "Yeah, sure, if he's a sweet guy, great personality, I can be flexible" and leave it at that?
Why do you think ?
I think we’re dealing with the offspring of feminist rhetoric. They’ve raised their sons to behave in a manner women don ‘t respect.
When a man is lacking confidence he doesn’t inspire you to follow him. He operates from a place of weakness not strength.
Jesus would have to be the perfect male example for us I guess. So what is missing for Christian men if indeed the best Male example would be Jesus Christ? by default Christians think they must submit to him and therefore they are already feminized. God himself feminizes men. Of course other Godly men are thought by you to be good examples of males. So what the heck has happened to us?I don’t encounter domineering Christian men. Are you pulling my leg?
I an wholly female. I’m not bipartisan or some obscure mix that defies categorization. 100 percent genetically female. Holy made and blessed.
Jesus would have to be the perfect male example for us I guess.
God himself feminizes men.
Most Christians are not that open about things but the example of the yin-yang shows that there is a little of the opposite inside each side. Personally I like the idea, I think it's romantic
Psychologically the image of a male that you have is your masculinity.
I'm no expert on jung though, and evolutionary psychologist like gad saad thinks jung spoke a bunch of Jibber Jabber.
I said God feminizes men because men have to be humble and submit to him.
I've just seen it in my experience. Have you not? I'm no expert on humans, but I do know my own experience.
It depends how you interpret Buddhism. I can synthesize it to some degree. But just like interpreting the Christian religion, it depends on the human.
If I can't find truth in something then I don't believe it. I'm a kissless virgin, so I'm kind of like a child.
The church is considered to be feminine. One time I was a deer and I was weak and wounded. God was taking care of me. I would consider that to be feminine. But chiefly when I think of what femininity is I think of beauty.Humility and submission are a reflection of obedience not femininity.
No. My strength isn’t masculine nor is my ability to lead. I exhibit them in a feminine guise.
I see. I know Buddhism and Hinduism well. I wouldn’t consider them true and I’ve practiced both.
What does kissing have to do with virginity?
The church is considered to be feminine. One time I was a deer and I was weak and wounded. God was taking care of me. I would consider that to be feminine. But chiefly when I think of what femininity is I think of beauty.
"Kissless virgin" is some phrase I acquired from another website. I guess it's an insult that says "I'm worse than an incel, I haven't even been kissed".
What makes you trust Christianity more than the other religions? I believe Christianity won't endure forever, only the religion of the spirit will.
I like the Romantic idea of two being a whole human rather than each soul being complete in and of itself.
go get what you want.
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