Hi all. I have been married for a little over 3 years. Both of us want the marriage to work out, but I fear that my husband is pointing his fingers in my direction as the one who needs changing to make this marriage work out. I do believe that my husband has some issues from his childhood that needs to be addressed because I see his acting out on them continuously. He has had a very controlling personallity for some time, although recently it is slowly getting better. However, after 3 years of suffering emotional and verbal abuse, it is hard for me to move past things.
There have been moments on both our parts where we have wanted out of this marriage but both feel that God has put us together for a reason. It's weird but that happy moments are actually happier but the bad moments are worse.
A couple weeks ago I had had just about enough and decided to sign us up for marriage counseling, after discussion with my husband. Lately, however, he has been making digs at the appointment that I made for us... sometimes I think that maybe he shouldn't go if his heart isn't in it to go.
At any rate, our appt is this evening and I was sorta wondering what to expect? How shall I conduct myself? How will the counselor roadmap our session?
Any input is greatly appreciated. Thanks. God Bless.
There have been moments on both our parts where we have wanted out of this marriage but both feel that God has put us together for a reason. It's weird but that happy moments are actually happier but the bad moments are worse.
A couple weeks ago I had had just about enough and decided to sign us up for marriage counseling, after discussion with my husband. Lately, however, he has been making digs at the appointment that I made for us... sometimes I think that maybe he shouldn't go if his heart isn't in it to go.
At any rate, our appt is this evening and I was sorta wondering what to expect? How shall I conduct myself? How will the counselor roadmap our session?
Any input is greatly appreciated. Thanks. God Bless.