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Christian Girl Talk

Raiyuu

I Will Welcome the Reaping
Apr 21, 2012
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What should I do about my crush, I won't let myself date him. My heart and mind are in conflict and I know the right thing to do (not act on this crush), it just seems so impossible. Anyone have advice or been in this situation before?

I'm in this situation. Some guidelines that help me are:

1) I don't want to start something that's not going to last with this boy
2) I don't want to do or start anything that his future wife would not approve of
3) Don't do anything to him that I wouldn't want done to my future husband (and yes that includes 'deep', long, private conversations... those are probably the worse)
 
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