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CHRISTIAN DAYCARE WORKERS FIRED FOR REFUSING TO CALL A LITTLE GIRL A BOY

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This is not a transgender child. She's gender fluid from what I've read and My daughter who is Gender Fluid switched from playing with dolls to Tonya trucks and I remember her coming to me and asking me why she was a girl around the time she was in 1st grade.

I would research things further than what you have heard before condemning these people for doing anything other than not being you.

I sure hope this isn't how you diagnose your daughter (hey, that's an insensitive and sexist label!!!) with being "gender fluid". Kids play with different kinds of toys. That's what they do as they're growing up. Boys sometimes want to dress up as a woman, and some "Tomboy" girls like to climb trees. It's not a gender identity. It's children playing.
 
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It's too bad you haven't responded to my question that I put to you and opted to go on auto pilot with this.

It's also too bad when people cry when they don't get all the responses they want/like, and will continue asking and arguing until they get what they want. Don't be one of those people.
 
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It's also too bad when people cry when they don't get all the responses they want/like, and will continue asking and arguing until they get what they want. Don't be one of those people.
Dude, I don't really care how much integrity people have as an individual as long as they don't promote the idea that they share my faith. That means something to me and should be to you too, but if it doesn't then I guess you'll have to justify that with God.
 
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Dude, I don't really care how much integrity people have as an individual as long as they don't promote the idea that they share my faith. That means something to me and should be to you too, but since it doesn't then I guess you'll have to justify that with God.

You don't have a clue as to what means something to me and what doesn't. You are making the same assumptions about me that you say I'm making about you.
 
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I sure hope this isn't how you diagnose your daughter (hey, that's an insensitive and sexist label!!!) with being "gender fluid". Kids play with different kinds of toys. That's what they do as they're growing up. Boys sometimes want to dress up as a woman, and some "Tomboy" girls like to climb trees. It's not a gender identity. It's children playing.

This was just the beginning of a long process which we went through, including therapy to reach to conclusions that we did later in her life, where the label of Gender Fluid was given to hat she is. I only went back to what was concidered the onset of this condition for the benefit of the person who didn't know that such things could be at that age.

Thank you very much for you brand of objectivity in this matter.
 
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This was just the beginning of a long process which we went through, including therapy to reach to conclusions that we did later in her life, where the label of Gender Fluid was given to hat she is. I only went back to what was concidered the onset of this condition for the benefit of the person who didn't know that such things could be at that age.

Thank you very much for you brand of objectivity in this matter.

Maybe next time you'll ask instead of accuse, but then that seems to be your nature.

What accusation did I make??? As for your story, which you only filled in the last details of in your last post, you left out the fact that this event was something long in the past.
 
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You don't have a clue as to what means something to me and what doesn't. You are making the same assumptions about me that you say I'm making about you.
That's where you are wrong or you simply don't understand the work integrity.

You made an aligation and in doing so obligated yourself to responding to inquiry on how you went about assessing that. It's called honest discussion and being honest is one of the hallmarks of Christianity, since not being is to be dishonest.
 
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That's where you are wrong or you simply don't understand the work integrity.

You made an aligation and in doing so obligated yourself to responding to inquiry on how you went about assessing that. It's called honest discussion and being honest is one of the hallmarks of Christianity, since not being is to be dishonest.

What allegation is that? I don't think homosexuality or forcing gender identity on a young child is appropriate. Read the link in the OP. Homosexuality isn't something Christians are told to support, but 2 gay guys are gay enough that they want to be together. Fine, that's their business. But it wasn't enough. They wanted to be "married". Well, that means people in society have to recognize their homosexuality as legit enough to refer to it as a marriage. So much for it not being forced on others. But it still wasn't enough. They wanted to adopt a child, which now means a child is exposed to their lifestyle--and not by choice. But that wasn't enough either. So they cut the girl's hair short to make her look like a boy (they seem to like boys for some reason) and force other people to call her a boy. So now we have them forcing other people in society to recognize a young child as something she isn't. When that doesn't happen, they get those people fired from their jobs.

So this garbage you and so many others like to put out there that this stuff isn't being promoted or forced on others is simply untrue. But I guess I'm just not a good guy for pointing it out, right? That may be your opinion, and you're welcome to have it. I choose not to subscribe to your opinion.
 
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What accusation did I make??? As for your story, which you only filled in the last details of in your last post, you left out the fact that this event was something long in the past.


You seem to be referring to the OP's link: http://www.breitbart.com/texas/2015...e-worker-fired-refusing-call-little-girl-boy/

It's too bad that even the homosexuals are resorting to forcing things like this on children as young as 6, and also on the daycare workers. And we're always told that what someone does with their own body doesn't affect anyone else....

Actually, it's the promotion of sinful sexual behavior that is being praised and celebrated as being "normal" is what we speak out about.

Both these you made allegations about the characters of people you don't know.

And how would the detail of my experiences being in the past be relevant?

Also the bolded seems to claim that the firing of these two workers were not the fault of their own actions.
 
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Both these you made allegations about the characters of people you don't know.

The characters? 2 gay guys making a young child look like a boy and then forcing other people to call her a boy, and then getting people fired for not doing so? Yeah, that says nothing about their character, does it?

And how would the detail of my experiences being in the past be relevant?

A full story is always more accurate than half of one. The MSM understands that.

Also the bolded seems to claim that the firing of these two workers were not the fault of their own actions.

You mean the actions of calling a girl a girl, and calling her by her real name rather than participating in the indoctrination of a little girl the idea that she's not really a girl? Yeah, I can see how that would be a cause to make someone lose their job. :sigh:
 
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What allegation is that? I don't think homosexuality or forcing gender identity on a young child is appropriate.
Where does it state that these two adults are activly homosexual. It states that they are her parents, but my daughter and her ex are my granddaughters parent's but they haven't lived in the same house or slept together since the divorce. Also you have no proff what-so-ever that this is being pushed on the child.

Read the link in the OP. Homosexuality isn't something Christians are told to support, but 2 gay guys are gay enough that they want to be together. Fine, that's their business. But it wasn't enough. They wanted to be "married". Well, that means people in society have to recognize their homosexuality as legit enough to refer to it as a marriage. So much for it not being forced on others.
I must have missed the tid bit of information that said they were married. Could you point that out please. Again, we hate the sin, but love the sinner.

But it still wasn't enough. They wanted to adopt a child, which now means a child is exposed to their lifestyle--and not by choice. But that wasn't enough either. So they cut the girl's hair short to make her look like a boy (they seem to like boys for some reason) and force other people to call her a boy. So now we have them forcing other people in society to recognize a young child as something she isn't. When that doesn't happen, they get those people fired from their jobs.
All of this is prejudical assumptions on what in your mind is how this came about.

So this garbage you and so many others like to put out there that this stuff isn't being promoted or forced on others is simply untrue. But I guess I'm just not a good guy for pointing it out, right? That may be your opinion, and you're welcome to have it. I choose not to subscribe to your opinion.

What you've made clear is that you've created a mental image of those who live a lifestyle different from your own and you are painting this situation with that image without even a shred of evidence.
 
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Where does it state that these two adults are activly homosexual. It states that they are her parents, but my daughter and her ex are my granddaughters parent's but they haven't lived in the same house or slept together since the divorce. Also you have no proff what-so-ever that this is being pushed on the child.

Do people get "married" and not engage in sex with the person they're with? Is it your view that gay people wanted the right to get "married" in order to remain celibate?

Again, we hate the sin, but love the sinner.

By condoning the sin the sinner does?

What you've made clear is that you've created a mental image of those who live a lifestyle different from your own and you are painting this situation with that image without even a shred of evidence.

"lifestyle different from your own" is liberal code for "equally legitimate". If you think homosexuality is as legit as heterosexuality in the eyes of the Lord, then you might want to pick up the Bible and read what is written about it.
 
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The characters? 2 gay guys making a young child look like a boy and then forcing other people to call her a boy, and then getting people fired for not doing so? Yeah, that says nothing about their character, does it?

You mean the gentlemen who requested that the staff of a daycare center who may have cut the little girls hair to what she requested it to be. These very same individuals who requested that the staff uphold it's polacy as to caring for children in this condition by referring to her as a male. It also stipulated that the child intermittently rejected being called male, which started the discussion on gender fluid children.

Might I remind you that it was the workers, refusing to uphold the stated polacy of the daycare that got them fired.



A full story is always more accurate than half of one. The MSM understands that.
Do you!



You mean the actions of calling a girl a girl, and calling her by her real name rather than participating in the indoctrination of a little girl the idea that she's not really a girl? Yeah, I can see how that would be a cause to make someone lose their job. :sigh:
Why don't you calm down and read the article and point out where you are getting your information from? You seem to be in a full blown rant, here.
 
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Do people get "married" and not engage in sex with the person they're with? Is it your view that gay people wanted the right to get "married" in order to remain celibate?
Are they married? Are they living together and having sex with each other? You are projecting your image of gay marriage into a situation that you are unaware of and coating this situation with another that may not apply.



By condoning the sin the sinner does?
Who is condoning anything? Please show me where either these people are or, since you are discussing this with me, I am?



"lifestyle different from your own" is liberal code for "equally legitimate". If you think homosexuality is as legit as heterosexuality in the eyes of the Lord, then you might want to pick up the Bible and read what is written about it.

Your projecting again and assuming that your understanding of anything relates to any reality, anywhere.
 
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Do people get "married" and not engage in sex with the person they're with? Is it your view that gay people wanted the right to get "married" in order to remain celibate?



By condoning the sin the sinner does?



"lifestyle different from your own" is liberal code for "equally legitimate". If you think homosexuality is as legit as heterosexuality in the eyes of the Lord, then you might want to pick up the Bible and read what is written about it.

Who is asking you to condone the sin of others, depending on your personal perception of sin?
 
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if a child is transgender i have never heard of a child under 12 deciding they are trans this is coming from the parents and they are wanting this she is only 6 years old .

I was showing symptoms of gender dysphoria* when I was around 5 years old, and telling everyone to call me a boy. My family did not go along with it, yet I continued. Surely it was coming from my parents, who continually insisted on referring to me as female, which is the gender I was assigned at birth.

*Officially diagnosed a few years ago, finally.

There are other cases of children showing symptoms of gender dysphoria, and being diagnosed at very young ages. It happens. As to whether this is the case or not with this particular story, I don't know. I am just saying it does indeed happen.
 
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I was showing symptoms of gender dysphoria* when I was around 5 years old, and telling everyone to call me a boy. My family did not go along with it, yet I continued. Surely it was coming from my parents, who continually insisted on referring to me as female, which is the gender I was assigned at birth.

*Officially diagnosed a few years ago, finally.

There are other cases of children showing symptoms of gender dysphoria, and being diagnosed at very young ages. It happens. As to whether this is the case or not with this particular story, I don't know. I am just saying it does indeed happen.
I'm happy for you. Go out and be the best that you can be. Don't let the misery of others clip your wings.

Don't grant them the satisfaction of controlling you with their fears. It's not your burden and it's not your responsibility to placate those who are uncomfortable with true freedom.
 
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I'm happy for you. Go out and be the best that you can be. Don't let the misery of others clip your wings.

Don't grant them the satisfaction of controlling you with their fears. It's not your burden and it's not your responsibility to placte those who are uncomfortable with real freedom.

Thank you very much for the kind words :)
 
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