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Christ Centered Relationship

emilina22

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well what were you having problems with?

one thing that i find improtant in my relationship is that i dont casue my boyfriend to sin or to hurt him spiritually...this can be me testing his patience..doing things physically that may be pushing it (we are still virgins by the way so we have NOT have had sex we want to wait until marriage..but we do make out) i think that ROmans 14:14-15 and ROmans 15:2-4

"but if a person believes osmething is wrong that thing is wrong for him. if you hurt your brothers or sisters faith becasue of something you eat you are not really following the ways of love."

"let each of us please our neighbors for their good to helo them be stronger in faith even Christ did not live to please himself it was as the scriptures said when perople insult you it hurts me."

another couple of verses may help..it is intended for marriage but i use them now...
1Corinthians 7:1-16, Ephisians 5:21-22 Galatians 3:1-15 helps with faith...
and this is good too 1John:4:6-21

i hope this helps a bit
 
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My boyfriend and I have a Christ centered relationship by praying together. Asking for strength. Making sure that we make eachother stronger in Christ and not tempting eachother. We also discuss our thoughts on God and our prayers. Just put your relationship in God's hands and if it is meant to be, then you will know it.
 
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actually we have gone our limitations before and know restoring our selves its hard for me to stop beeing so sweet to hima nd all.... i dont know it hurts e when he reminds me we are a christ centered relationship... i dont know how to act as a girl to be a christ centered woman and have a christ centered relationship help me pls
 
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Do you know how to focus on God when you are single? It's the same thing, only there's another person in the mix, and you ALWAYS have to make God more important in you life than that other person, no matter how in love with them you are.
I agree on that one.

I was in a relationship with a guy who said I was "using God as an excuse" to not get closer to him. I got rid of that guy really fast.
 
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