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Awwwww Sis'
I am, in a position to empathise completely with your feelings
but, we must not carry their crosses for them
~ We, each of us... have been given CHOICE
~ as 'individuals' ... to-accept the teachings and administrations, of our elders
We, must-not... reproach ourselves, for 'failing' to ensure others should not fail
We, are only human... by no-means perfect
and... we did... that which we felt was 'right'
according to our knowledge and experience at that-time [what we felt was BEST ?]
Just 'how' they, responded to such 'goodwill' is of their 'own doing'
ask yourself... what MORE... could our parents have done, for US ?
and think on this... what MORE might we have learned
could we, THEN... have been able to foresee our own futures [?]
Our Lord, knew... each of our outcomes whilst we were still in the womb [?]
His will, and not-our's ....will be done!
If I had done this... and what-if....I had done that ....then perhaps....
are.. simply 'self-inflicted abuse' and is, just so-undeserved
Pray for them... but.... love them enough, to let-them-go
to find their own, chosen paths........ as is, their-right also [?]
I pray for you to be able to find His peace in your heart
'There.... but for the grace of God, go I'
your Bro'
dave
I have come to peace about this Dave...it has taken quite a while...but I have let this child go in a sense and I still pray for him often.
I was very much a mess as a young mother and most in my family were not any better...the sins of the fathers do get passed from one generation to another.
All my sins are forgiven "In Christ"...like David's sin with Bathsheba...yet there were definite consequences to face in his family. We do reap what we sow sometimes...I am trying to sow to the Spirit these days.


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