just had a nice walk in the fields and the sun is still out here.hope my friends here are well,xx
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been a long time since I did a couples anything.... Don't think I even want to anymore. I got off of work two or three days ago and went to eat at Q'doba.. I was sitting there at a window booth watching all the people interact with each other when it occurred to me that what is NORMAL for them is abnormal for me. I have gotten to where the act of waiting for someone else so I can do what I want to do is a complete bother.oops.. How did I become so much of a loner? I eat alone, walk alone, I shop alone, most of the time I watch tv alone (unless someone comes over to visit) when I'm in the car I'm always alone. I don't enjoy going to the movies with my girlfriends because I can't watch the movie I want to watch. In fact, the passenger seat of my car is a resting place for paperwork, pens and pencils most of the time. I remember there being a time when what I do felt lonely to me. Now, I prefer it... Have two girlfriends who I only call when I'm done doing my eating, cleaning, or shopping because the minute I call them they want to come with me.. I was invited to go see a movie with one of them the other day and I actally got crabby because I wasn't going to get to do what I wanted. Instead, I was going to have to do "girlie" things. I'm absolutely awful.
ps.. I don't like casinos or bars.. everything is overpriced and there are too many scum bags who frequent those places. I have never seen what the big deal is with gambling and to be honest I cannot for the life of me imagine how it might be habit forming. seems so boring when you think about it. I do enjoy a glass of wine with dinner sometimes. or just in the evening when I'm watching tv.. but going out and drinking when you know you have to drive to get home seems fool hearty and selfish to me. too many people in my family have died from combining automobiles and alcohol and too many of them have hurt other people as well. did it when I was younger.. It was sort of a right of passage around my family... but now that I'm older and know better I'm ashamed.
I've been reading everyone's posts.
I'm chiming in.
I'm a big coffee drinker..Driink coffee and milk every morning. I drop by starbucks for latte once in a while as well.
I don't own a dog.
I need to get to the doctor.. You guys are always talking about it and I haven't been in three years. I haven't been to an eye doctor in at least 10 and maybe almost that long since I saw a dentist. I have a chipped tooth to but since it isn't causing me any pain I just ignore it. I have really been neglecting myself I think. after my mom died I went to the doctor and he tried to put me on depression meds and talked about my wieght gain. I never went back. I really do need to do that. don't remember when my last mamogram was and my female exam was right after mom died. I guess I should put these things on my to do list.
just had a nice walk in the fields and the sun is still out here.hope my friends here are well,xx
Hello Everyone,
I hope that everyone is having a great weekend. It sounds like everyone is in a good mood and having happy times. It doesn't appear to take much for us to be happy. As Christians, we should be the happiest people on earth. I realize that we all have trials and troubles from time to time, but God is with us every step of the way. And to know - the best is yet to come.
just had a nice walk in the fields and the sun is still out here.hope my friends here are well,xx
Ok, you have learned to live alone and be content...but it seems something about you is attractive, because people do want to be with you...hmmmmm.
..glad to see you happy serv. and that you enjoy yr walk,
how do you post that dog on ther,
you went to a wedding and never ask us,thats bad,lol
but so glad it went well and you had fun,what a good girl penny was,x
Thanksso glad everythink went will for you,so are you going walking with penny,
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