This is more of a question for you older couples, but any input is welcome.
What do you think about children giving parents money? My parents have fallen on a financial rough patch lately, and I'd like to help them out, but I'm afraid they'd get upset having their child help them out like that.
So how would you feel if your children offered to help out?
I have a few problems:
1. I really don't know how much they need, and they wouldn't ever tell me. I think they're going to be a couple hundred bucks short this month, but I'm not really sure.
2. If they're not short and are just nervous about having a cushion, I'm afraid my mom will just spend the money on something frivolous, which is partly why they're in this position in the first place.
So here are some of the things I've thought of doing. Which do you think would be best?
1. Just give them a check for a couple hundred with a thanks for raising me so well card or something.
2. Buy some gift certificates for grocery shopping and claim that my DH's work passed them out, and since we don't shop there, we'll forget about them and they'll go to waste. They do this periodically anyway. I don't think I could swing more than $50 w/o it being obvious what I'm doing. They need way more than that for groceries.
3. Find their electric bill, pay it, and write paid with a little smiley in their ledger.
4. Just treat them to a nice dinner so they can get out, relax, and forget about their troubles for awhile.
What do ya'll think? Thanks!
What do you think about children giving parents money? My parents have fallen on a financial rough patch lately, and I'd like to help them out, but I'm afraid they'd get upset having their child help them out like that.
So how would you feel if your children offered to help out?
I have a few problems:
1. I really don't know how much they need, and they wouldn't ever tell me. I think they're going to be a couple hundred bucks short this month, but I'm not really sure.
2. If they're not short and are just nervous about having a cushion, I'm afraid my mom will just spend the money on something frivolous, which is partly why they're in this position in the first place.
So here are some of the things I've thought of doing. Which do you think would be best?
1. Just give them a check for a couple hundred with a thanks for raising me so well card or something.
2. Buy some gift certificates for grocery shopping and claim that my DH's work passed them out, and since we don't shop there, we'll forget about them and they'll go to waste. They do this periodically anyway. I don't think I could swing more than $50 w/o it being obvious what I'm doing. They need way more than that for groceries.
3. Find their electric bill, pay it, and write paid with a little smiley in their ledger.
4. Just treat them to a nice dinner so they can get out, relax, and forget about their troubles for awhile.
What do ya'll think? Thanks!