Cheating spouse

[tturt]

sawyerbrownlive, since you can't be positive that it's her contacting you, there's nothing to tell her husband. Now to stop those contacts, how about getting a different phone number.

btw, welcome to the forums. Glad that you turned to Yahweh.

 

[cory533]

My mother was a wise and Godly woman. She told me one should not tell another there spouce is cheating, they already know. Later in life I was repeatedly cheated on. I did know. It did not help to be told. Don't tell him he knows. DO tell your wife let her know exactly what is going on. Eventually the other woman will "accidentally" call your wife. If you are honest with her untill then you can get past it. If you hide the unwanted contact you will appear guilty.

 

[lisah]

Recently, she has started to call me from a new number to hide any evidence from her husband. I've told her to stop calling me, but she occasionally calls or texts. I know it's her, but I can't prove it. I have zero doubt that she continues to cheat on her husband, all while he thinks that they have moved past it. She told me that he drug her to a Christian counselor on base and she pretended to get something out of it. Her husband is completely blind to it. Having been a willing participant in the only affair he's aware of, there is no way to can call him or inform him. Yet I have this longing to right my wrong as best I can, and somehow let him know. I know I would want to be told. Knowing what she is doing to him and doing nothing makes me feel like a player all over again. Any advice would be much appreciated!

You might want to change your phone number and explain to your wife why you are doing it. If she contacts you in person, then you might want to contact her husband; but tell her you will be doing that first.