Hey guys
Well this question is more just out of interest than anything else, but i really struggle to understand how people find the strength to forgive their bf/gf (or wife / husband) if they find out that their bf/gf was cheating on them... sure, even if their bf/gf shows a lot of regret and is genuinly sorry about cheating it may be easier to forgive, but how do you forget what has happened in the past? Is forgetting the past tied up with forgiveness, or is that a seperate part of the healing process? And by "forget" all i mean is that it doesn't keep coming up in your mind to haunt you... I'm not suggesting you erase it from your mind, but rather you be at peace with it.
I truly respect all of you out there who have been cheated on and who have been able to forgive, forget and move on with your relationship Big respect for that
Well this question is more just out of interest than anything else, but i really struggle to understand how people find the strength to forgive their bf/gf (or wife / husband) if they find out that their bf/gf was cheating on them... sure, even if their bf/gf shows a lot of regret and is genuinly sorry about cheating it may be easier to forgive, but how do you forget what has happened in the past? Is forgetting the past tied up with forgiveness, or is that a seperate part of the healing process? And by "forget" all i mean is that it doesn't keep coming up in your mind to haunt you... I'm not suggesting you erase it from your mind, but rather you be at peace with it.
I truly respect all of you out there who have been cheated on and who have been able to forgive, forget and move on with your relationship Big respect for that