You wrote, "God holds us to the laws that we CAN obey. The ones we can't are freebies. If I'm a slave at Auschwitz, and forced to labor on Shabbat, it's a freebie; I get credit for keeping the sabbath. If there is no temple, and I cannot offer ie. a peace offering, it's a freebie. I hope you understand now how it works. We are not required to keep that which is beyond our abilitiy. God is not some kind of sadist."
What is there in your post that indicates that you believe that God has given His laws and ordinances for you to obey them and not that God has given you the ability to determine which laws and ordinances that you are capable of obeying or willing to obey?
What you decide you CAN obey may, actually, differ considerably from what God has given the Jewish people to obey.