I know posting such a request is not common, but i count it as a struggle that i've been having the past months. I've been getting more sensitive with myself and how i treat other people. Sometimes i say things which shouldn't have been said or not necessary at all. Sometimes i do things which shouldn't be done or don't treat my friends as they should be treated, especially girls. So pls pray for me or give me some advice. Thanks.
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I have a problem of saying things without thinking and even though the things i say might be the truth, i end up hurting someone with how abruptly or the way i say it. It helps me to stop and think about what exactly I'm thinking so that when i speak it it will not harm others. I am always praying and asking God to temper my spirit, to give me an attitude intent on not harming others. Sometimes I have to just make myself shut up and be silent. My old excuse used to be that "it's the truth and I can't help it if it's the truth" but my new excuse is that "God is working on me, I'm still under construction so forgive me if I offended you with something I said" It also helped me to go and apologize to some of the people that I might have really offended, once I got these people out of the way and "fixed" it was almost like starting off with a new, clean slate.
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just keep working on it and don t get discouraged . we all do the same thing. no one is nice and kind and thoughtful of others all the time.
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Well, for me, the one sure way I found to take care of me was to give me over to Jesus.
Within my own self I cannot change me. However, Jesus can.
Being in His presense changes me. The times I spend in praise and worship, and the quiet times of reflecting on Him and His goodness.
The Holy Spirit is quite faithful to show me where I fall short. Usually, for me anyway, it's a lack of spending time with Him that causes me to be less like Him. The more I spend time with Him, the more like Him I become.
He is so good.
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Let Jesus take control of your feelings...Pray to Him asking for it. Sure, I am sure He will listen to you and when somebody makes you angry... you will see awesome things happen and people will say: Hey seango... you have changed so much... Just... let Him take control...
Hugo.
Hugo.
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