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CF Relationships?

TheDerek

Dum Diddy Dum Dum, Oh Boy!
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I know they exist! Who out there has met their boyfriend/girlfirend/husband/wife/whatever on CF?

Lisa (.Elle., formerly I_Survived) and I are dating! Woooo!

Also, if you are dating someone from CF, did you meet before it happened?

Lisa and I decidedn that we had to meet to make sure there really was something between us before we started to date.
 

desert_island_1

Be Transformed - Romans 12:2
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Nope. Met my SO the old fashioned way, through other friends. Most of my family and friends don't even know about CF. I use it as a place where I can vent about some of them when I need it and it is just a place for me as a whole.

Kristy
 
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desert_island_1

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How far apart are you guys?

I met my boyfriend on another forum. He's a member here, but not really active.
I know this question was not directed at me, but I choose to answer anyways. From my current location, Caleb and I are 8 hours by plane if there was such thing as a direct flight. Otherwise, it takes about 12 hours to get there, once you go through customs and have a short stop over. Once I get home though, it is about 4 1/2 hours on a plane, or 3 days driving.
Luckily we do go to school together though.

Kristy
 
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barefeetonholyground

CF member for 15 years!
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We did. We were friends first for about a year, and our relationship started out as one big accident. One of the three best things that ever happened in my life though.
 
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The Julikenz

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Not on CF. We both mutually posted on an Australian dance music forum, where most of us are friends IRL anyway. We go to gigs together, have bbqs, do the things normal friends do, it's more local than this kind of forum. I'd seen his SN but never really looked twice. He spoke to me on the forums, I didn't notice. I was at a night my friends were running, and he saw me, I didn't see him. We both ended up at a mutual friends place the next day, and it went from 'You're "The Julikenz" (have another SN there) from Y forum, aren't you?' :p

So we kind of met through a forum, but not *on* the forum. :p
 
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