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This is not true, as is noted in the above post.
#39, Dec.12 @ 3:36PM.
It’s too long and hurtful to repost here.
Then post #42—where she has made the accusation that “I” reported her!!
And I apologized.
Now folks—by ANY stretch of the imagination—does it look like “I” spent ALL morning running HER down—or is it vise versa?
You be the judge - you have her posts
Who actually started the exchange between us? SHE DID!!!!!!!!!!!
I was not the only one who said it sounded like she was referring to Sophia.
Who falsely accused who of reporting who?? SHE DID!!!!
And as I said, I apologized as soon as I realized it.
Who wrote the most vicious attack against someone I have ever read in this forum?? SHE DID!!!
I don't know if it is the MOST vicious. You can be pretty harsh yourself.
Who sent me TWO (2) scathing pm’s in one day??
I explained why we need to place each other on ignore. If what I say upsets you so much we should put each other on ignore. The fact that you are unwilling to respond to my request baffles me. I asked you to stop talking about me, and put me on ignore.
SHE DID!!!! And who in those pm’s said that she was going to turn me into the mods’ for ‘harassing her”??? SHE DID!!!
I did no such thing. I did not threaten to turn you in to the mods for harassment. I said that I was copying the mods on the message so that if this continued they would know that I had tried to remedy the situation by suggesting we ignore each other. This is the very reason I copied some of the mods on this PM because I thought you would misrepresent my words. If you will misrepresent what I say in an open forum, I can only imagine how you might twist my words when no one can see them to know the truth.
Now---who is harassing whom here?? I think the answer is VERY obvious.
I do think the answer is quite obvious, as you have continued to discuss me in this forum, impuning my character and have not responded to my PM's. You have continued to keep this matter in the public eye when I tried to address it privately. I am asking you again to stop talking about me, and put me on ignore, or if you have something to say to me say it privately.
Honor, you seem to have such issues with me, but the way you go about addressing them is not the Biblical way at all. What is wrong with us discussing our problems with each other in a private manner like I wanted to. It appears that you would prefer to make me the villian in the public forum, or more importantly make yourself the victim here, and gain support and sympathy from others who think I have mistreated you.
She did apologize publicly for falsely accusing me of reporting her—but then she had no choice.
Nobody made me apologize. What do you mean I had no choice? I did what I thought was right. I was wrong and I apologized to you -- publicly. Here again you are impuning my character, and I am asking you to stop this.
But to say that it is I who have been harassing her—well—it’s obvious that is not the truth and she needs to apologize again for this unwarranted attack.
I'm sorry for what ever you think I did was wrong. I am sorry for upsetting you so much that you have spent two days of your life in full spin over me. I did not intend to upset you so much with my words. I know I can be harsh, but you know you can too. But two days of this is two days too many.
For the I don't know how manyeth time in the past two days, stop talking about me, and if I upset you so much, put me on ignore. I don't know how else to say it. If you continue this nonsense, it only indicates to me that you would rather continue in strife than take the more peaceful route of ignoring me.
If you want to discuss this with me, as I have said send me a message and I will be happy to talk this through with you - but stop this public display you have kept going.
Who wrote the most vicious attack against someone I have ever read in this forum?? SHE DID!!!
I don't know if it is the MOST vicious. You can be pretty harsh yourself.
Who sent me TWO (2) scathing pm’s in one day??
I explained why we need to place each other on ignore. If what I say upsets you so much we should put each other on ignore. The fact that you are unwilling to respond to my request baffles me. I asked you to stop talking about me, and put me on ignore.
SHE DID!!!! And who in those pm’s said that she was going to turn me into the mods’ for ‘harassing her”??? SHE DID!!!
I did no such thing. I did not threaten to turn you in to the mods for harassment. I said that I was copying the mods on the message so that if this continued they would know that I had tried to remedy the situation by suggesting we ignore each other. This is the very reason I copied some of the mods on this PM because I thought you would misrepresent my words. If you will misrepresent what I say in an open forum, I can only imagine how you might twist my words when no one can see them to know the truth.
Maybe we have the first case in human history of 'sinless perfection'?You might as well give up trying to reason with her ladies. This icon pretty much sums up how much responsibility she will take for anything. It's always everyone else's fault.
Was that a scathing PM? Direct, but I don't think it was scathing?
I've got about 20 or so of those!Psh. Not even remotely. She obviously has not been on the recieving end of a Woob PM. Then she would have something to complain about!
Honor, I'm curious why you are doing battle here? If progressive viewpoints baffle you, why not ask more questions to better understand why people are the way they are?
Psh. Not even remotely. She obviously has not been on the recieving end of a Woob PM. Then she would have something to complain about!
"And then NIGHT there are the ones like you..... I am thankful that you are not the only Adventist I have met. And if you were my sole Christian example, at your hateful, spiteful, bitter best - I believe you could turn one away from Christianity itself."
Don't flatter yourself. A heckler may disrupt the proceedings of a scholarly discussion but that does not elevate the contributions of the heckler to intelligent discourse. Knives are useless in a gunfight.Hi Avonia--I'm not baffled at all. To the contrary--my eyes are wide open in reference to the progs. So therefore my 'doing battle' should be obvious-right?
Whatever.Don't flatter yourself. A heckler may disrupt the proceedings of a scholarly discussion but that does not elevate the contributions of the heckler to intelligent discourse. Knives are useless in a gunfight.
Honor,
The other PM you received from me was actually a copy of a response to another person, and I won't post it ... yet. Unless I need to. I am asking you again to respond to my PM, so we can work this out among ourselves.
I knew you would understand, one way or the other.Whatever.