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For about the past four months it seems each time I close my eyes I'm back in the midst of the attack. Its strange because its been over four years since it happened. I just can't figure out why its all coming to surface now. I can't sleep. I can't sleep at night unless I take something and I can't rest during the day. I keep drifting off everytime I become still during the day but I'm right back in the midst of the attack and I wake up startled. Its so crazy that this would come at me so strongly after so long. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?

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For about the past four months it seems each time I close my eyes I'm back in the midst of the attack. Its strange because its been over four years since it happened. I just can't figure out why its all coming to surface now. I can't sleep. I can't sleep at night unless I take something and I can't rest during the day. I keep drifting off everytime I become still during the day but I'm right back in the midst of the attack and I wake up startled. Its so crazy that this would come at me so strongly after so long. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?

Tired buzymom
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The past is coming back and that will allow you to process what happened at another level. Don't ignore or try to suppress what is happening, but try and understand what you can learn and how to bring that to Jesus for transformation. Healing from abuse can go through several cycles over time, each with increasing insights and freedoms when processed properly. So, don't despair or fear.

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The past is coming back and that will allow you to process what happened at another level. Don't ignore or try to suppress what is happening, but try and understand what you can learn and how to bring that to Jesus for transformation. Healing from abuse can go through several cycles over time, each with increasing insights and freedoms when processed properly. So, don't despair or fear.

John
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I took your advice without knowing you'd given it..The past came back on me and that was my time to give it to Jesus...I did and have slept fine 2 nights in a row now :clap:
 
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I took your advice without knowing you'd given it..The past came back on me and that was my time to give it to Jesus...I did and have slept fine 2 nights in a row now :clap:

That is amazing I am so happy for you! It takes time to get over such hardache. I posted a topic in here called Just wanted to share with you...and its my story. I posted it now a year ago but its really inspiring and can bless you!

I wish you all the best in your recovery and know that you are not alone! :thumbsup:
 
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Thank you buzymom for having the faith and courage to step forward and post what is on your (and my) mind.
Knowing that I'm not alone has helped me and I've been blessed by reading this thread. Thank you Johnnz for the inspiring advice, and to all who have posted here.

God Bless You All :)
 
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