I will try to not go into too much detail, as it hurts me to remember.
We have been together for almost three years, and he means alot to me. He is my bestfriend and we know each other so well.
But last november he started to text another women, he discussed cheating with her. I became very concerned, and never had the courage to tell him. Until one day i sent him a text explaining that i saw him text this women, and i read the messages when he was out the room. And i feel very ashamed to had go behind his back.
After the text i sent to him, he asked for a break of a week and i gave him that and then we were back together and he asked for another one which i asked for as well, a space where we could miss each other.
Now we are back together and it feels magical! We truely appreciate each other.
The one thing that does get me down, is that him and this women do not communicate any more. From what i could gather she had asked him to start a relationship with her, and he said no.
Recently she wanted to be his friend on Facebook. ( Im sorry to make this sound really modern and controlled by technology) And he accepted her. I made it clear to him that i felt a little upset with him, but he didnt acknowledge this i guess.
Many friends have told me to forgive and forget.
And i have. Does anybody else understand how i feel?
Every now and then i remember and i feel upset.
I just need some guidance.
Kindest Regards to you all!
And i hope you have a lovely day/night!
We have been together for almost three years, and he means alot to me. He is my bestfriend and we know each other so well.
But last november he started to text another women, he discussed cheating with her. I became very concerned, and never had the courage to tell him. Until one day i sent him a text explaining that i saw him text this women, and i read the messages when he was out the room. And i feel very ashamed to had go behind his back.
After the text i sent to him, he asked for a break of a week and i gave him that and then we were back together and he asked for another one which i asked for as well, a space where we could miss each other.
Now we are back together and it feels magical! We truely appreciate each other.
The one thing that does get me down, is that him and this women do not communicate any more. From what i could gather she had asked him to start a relationship with her, and he said no.
Recently she wanted to be his friend on Facebook. ( Im sorry to make this sound really modern and controlled by technology) And he accepted her. I made it clear to him that i felt a little upset with him, but he didnt acknowledge this i guess.
Many friends have told me to forgive and forget.
And i have. Does anybody else understand how i feel?
Every now and then i remember and i feel upset.
I just need some guidance.
Kindest Regards to you all!
And i hope you have a lovely day/night!