You know, God's Word doesn't say to follow your heart, it says to follow His Word. If he doesn't like you, and you tell him you do, oh well... i guarantee you will get over it quicker this way than any other. I've done this so often, and the one thing that gets you over "liking" someone is to find out that they don't like you...
On the other hand... if he does like you, don't rush it, if you really like him, you'll like him in a few weeks. Don't stress over becoming bf/gf. God's in control, He'll guide you in what to do. Just listen and obey.
It sounds like, from what you said about feeling empty, you are placing him in God's place, or making him JUST AS important as God. This isn't good... God is a jealous God, and if place this degree of value on something other than Him, He could very easily take away that other thing completely (to protect you from stranding away from Him). You need to wait until you can make God your fullness, then when a guy comes by, he will not determine whether you are empty or not.
Feeling empty when something leaves is the one surefire way to know that your worship is going to that thing. Don't make the mistake of removing God's blessing from your friendship with this guy because you aren't keeping God in higher position.
You won't do anything but hurt yourself if you put your worship and trust in this guy instead of in God. Believe it or not, this guy has a 0.00001% chance of being the guy that you will live with until you die. He will (very) probably leave, and if your emptiness is determined on his presence, you will feel empty.
plz! ok there's this guy and he and i r really close friends. the thing is, im falling for him and i dont know if he likes me the way i like him. whenever im around him, i feel all warm and great... but when he leaves, i feel empty. i dont know what to do b/c if we do become a couple and break up i dont know if it will break us.... but if we dont, then it'll be torture for me whenever im with him. What can u guys say about this and plz reply!!! i need help bad cause ive never had a b/f so i really dont know what to do!
