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Calling things sinful?

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I have a concern that has been convicting me for some time now. I am fairly new to the SDA community but I have done much study over the past few years, as well as, graduating from a Bible school. I have a burden for outreach and do much evangelism for the cause of Christ. But I have a stumbling block in a few of the teachings of the SDA. As I talk to many of the lay people many of the them seem to agree with me yet the teachings go on. Here is my concern and conviction maybe you can help me with it.

One of the things I have notice when people try to prove something is sinful they will go right to the extreme to prove what they believe, for example. When they speak of wine being sinful they will either show you a picture or paint a mental picture in your mind of a drunkard laying in the gutter all beat up and dirty. They will use this picture to prove that God says drinking fermented wine is a sin. Anyone in their right mind would agree with the picture as being a sinful state to be in but this is not a true and accurate representation. This would be like showing all the fatherless children and single mothers on welfare and saying God says sex is sinful. Both sex and fermented wine are not sinful in themselves, but rather, how we partake of them is what makes them sinful just like anything else. God's word says sex is for marriage and do not drink to get drunk.

Now the next step.

In order to support their belief in wine being sinful they say that when the Bible speaks of wine it's really referring to grape juice. But I struggle with interpreting the Bible to fit our beliefs rather than allowing the Bible to teach us what to believe.

When we plant a seed into the minds of people teaching them that something is sinful, when in fact it is not, we cause them to look at those who partake of wine as a person sinning. This is not good ministry work. My wife likes to drink a glass of wine with her meal and sometimes at night when she comes home from work. She won't come to church because of this guilt that is brought on by saying drinking wine is sinful.

Here are some of the reasons why I believe the Bible allows God's people to drink fermented wine. Though there are many more biblical verses that allow use of fermented wine by God's people I will only use a couple.

Deuteronomy 14:20-26 But of all clean fowls ye may eat. Ye shall not eat of any thing that dieth of itself: thou shalt give it unto the stranger that is in thy gates, that he may eat it; or thou mayest sell it unto an alien: for thou art an holy people unto the Lord thy God. Thou shalt not seethe a kid in his mother's milk. Thou shalt truly tithe all the increase of thy seed, that the field bringeth forth year by year. And thou shalt eat before the Lord thy God, in the place which he shall choose to place his name there, the tithe of thy corn, of thy wine, and of thine oil, and the firstlings of thy herds and of thy flocks; that thou mayest learn to fear the Lord thy God always. And if the way be too long for thee, so that thou art not able to carry it; or if the place be too far from thee, which the Lord thy God shall choose to set his name there, when the Lord thy God hath blessed thee: Then shalt thou turn it into money, and bind up the money in thine hand, and shalt go unto the place which the Lord thy God shall choose: And thou shalt bestow that money for whatsoever thy soul lusteth after, for oxen, or for sheep, or for wine, or for strong drink, or for whatsoever thy soul desireth: and thou shalt eat there before the Lord thy God, and thou shalt rejoice, thou, and thine household.

These are a very clear and convincing verses here but there is more.

1 Corinthians 11:20-22 Therefore when you come together in one place, it is not to eat the Lord's Supper. For in eating, each one takes his own supper ahead of others; and one is hungry and another is drunk. What! Do you not have houses to eat and drink in? Or do you despise the church of God and shame those who have nothing?

Here we have a fellowship supper where the brothers are eating all the food and drinking all the wine and are getting drunk because of it. This is surely fermented wine at this fellowship supper.

1 Timothy 3:8-9 Likewise deacons must be reverent, not double-tongued, not given to much wine, not greedy for money, holding the mystery of the faith with a pure conscience.

Here we are told that a deacon must not be given to MUCH wine, in other words, a drunkard. It does not say, a deacon must not drink any wine.

We know that Jesus turned water into wine. Some will say that it was grape juice because of the amount. But we could also say that there could have been 500 or more people at this wedding feast. We could also say that this wedding was going to last a few days. This would make the amount of wine Jesus made seem very small.

The Bible is very clear in that it says drunkenness is sinful in the same way it says adultery is sinful. Now we know sex is not sinful when it's done according to the word of God in like manner fermented wine is not sinful if used according to the word of God.

I say all this even though I myself don't even drink but I want to be a true witness to the truth of God's word. I also don't want to put false seeds of condemnation into the minds of God's people who see people drinking fermented wine.

Some may say this is a minor issue but I say it's not. The reason why I say it's not is because it's these kinds of teachings that keep people out of the church.

What are your thoughts?

Many blessings,
John
 

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Hi John,

Some random thoughts.

You say you do not drink alcohol. May I ask why? I am in no way inferring that you should, I'm just wondering.

Perhaps there are better or at least other ways to unwind after a tough day at work than a glass of wine. Maybe your wife would enjoy some calm music, or quiet reading for 15-20 minutes, or just a nice conversation with her husband ;) . That one always helps me. If you have children any of these can be hard to come by, I know.

There is an important issue here that I am afraid we have ignored in arguing over drinking or not drinking alcohol. Ultimately, I believe your concern is for your wife and her soul. If she is not attending worship service for whatever reason, her soul is not being taken care of.

It is wrong for us to give the impression that people must be 'perfect' before they are good enough to come and worship God. None of us are perfect. We all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. We all need Jesus. I believe your wife should not let the impression that people condemn her for having an occasional drink keep her from attending church services.

Like I said, just some random thoughts. Forgive me if I have overstepped.

Annie
 
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I have a concern that has been convicting me for some time now. I am fairly new to the SDA community but I have done much study over the past few years, as well as, graduating from a Bible school. I have a burden for outreach and do much evangelism for the cause of Christ. But I have a stumbling block in a few of the teachings of the SDA. As I talk to many of the lay people many of the them seem to agree with me yet the teachings go on. Here is my concern and conviction maybe you can help me with it.

One of the things I have notice when people try to prove something is sinful they will go right to the extreme to prove what they believe, for example. When they speak of wine being sinful they will either show you a picture or paint a mental picture in your mind of a drunkard laying in the gutter all beat up and dirty. They will use this picture to prove that God says drinking fermented wine is a sin. Anyone in their right mind would agree with the picture as being a sinful state to be in but this is not a true and accurate representation. This would be like showing all the fatherless children and single mothers on welfare and saying God says sex is sinful. Both sex and fermented wine are not sinful in themselves, but rather, how we partake of them is what makes them sinful just like anything else. God's word says sex is for marriage and do not drink to get drunk.

Now the next step.

In order to support their belief in wine being sinful they say that when the Bible speaks of wine it's really referring to grape juice. But I struggle with interpreting the Bible to fit our beliefs rather than allowing the Bible to teach us what to believe.

When we plant a seed into the minds of people teaching them that something is sinful, when in fact it is not, we cause them to look at those who partake of wine as a person sinning. This is not good ministry work. My wife likes to drink a glass of wine with her meal and sometimes at night when she comes home from work. She won't come to church because of this guilt that is brought on by saying drinking wine is sinful.

Here are some of the reasons why I believe the Bible allows God's people to drink fermented wine. Though there are many more biblical verses that allow use of fermented wine by God's people I will only use a couple.

Deuteronomy 14:20-26 But of all clean fowls ye may eat. Ye shall not eat of any thing that dieth of itself: thou shalt give it unto the stranger that is in thy gates, that he may eat it; or thou mayest sell it unto an alien: for thou art an holy people unto the Lord thy God. Thou shalt not seethe a kid in his mother's milk. Thou shalt truly tithe all the increase of thy seed, that the field bringeth forth year by year. And thou shalt eat before the Lord thy God, in the place which he shall choose to place his name there, the tithe of thy corn, of thy wine, and of thine oil, and the firstlings of thy herds and of thy flocks; that thou mayest learn to fear the Lord thy God always. And if the way be too long for thee, so that thou art not able to carry it; or if the place be too far from thee, which the Lord thy God shall choose to set his name there, when the Lord thy God hath blessed thee: Then shalt thou turn it into money, and bind up the money in thine hand, and shalt go unto the place which the Lord thy God shall choose: And thou shalt bestow that money for whatsoever thy soul lusteth after, for oxen, or for sheep, or for wine, or for strong drink, or for whatsoever thy soul desireth: and thou shalt eat there before the Lord thy God, and thou shalt rejoice, thou, and thine household.

These are a very clear and convincing verses here but there is more.

1 Corinthians 11:20-22 Therefore when you come together in one place, it is not to eat the Lord's Supper. For in eating, each one takes his own supper ahead of others; and one is hungry and another is drunk. What! Do you not have houses to eat and drink in? Or do you despise the church of God and shame those who have nothing?

Here we have a fellowship supper where the brothers are eating all the food and drinking all the wine and are getting drunk because of it. This is surely fermented wine at this fellowship supper.

1 Timothy 3:8-9 Likewise deacons must be reverent, not double-tongued, not given to much wine, not greedy for money, holding the mystery of the faith with a pure conscience.

Here we are told that a deacon must not be given to MUCH wine, in other words, a drunkard. It does not say, a deacon must not drink any wine.

We know that Jesus turned water into wine. Some will say that it was grape juice because of the amount. But we could also say that there could have been 500 or more people at this wedding feast. We could also say that this wedding was going to last a few days. This would make the amount of wine Jesus made seem very small.

The Bible is very clear in that it says drunkenness is sinful in the same way it says adultery is sinful. Now we know sex is not sinful when it's done according to the word of God in like manner fermented wine is not sinful if used according to the word of God.

I say all this even though I myself don't even drink but I want to be a true witness to the truth of God's word. I also don't want to put false seeds of condemnation into the minds of God's people who see people drinking fermented wine.

Some may say this is a minor issue but I say it's not. The reason why I say it's not is because it's these kinds of teachings that keep people out of the church.

What are your thoughts?

Many blessings,
John

1. you are beating a dead horse. This has been discussed numerous times.

2. TSDA forum is not for debate. Please respect the forum rules.

3. It's been shown to you time and again the Bible condemns alcoholic wine because its corrupt nature, not just the drunkeness. If you do not accept it, it's fine. But can we move on please???
 
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You wrote:

1. you are beating a dead horse. This has been discussed numerous times.

2. TSDA forum is not for debate. Please respect the forum rules.

3. It's been shown to you time and again the Bible condemns alcoholic wine because its corrupt nature, not just the drunkeness. If you do not accept it, it's fine. But can we move on please???


Sorry about that. I answered a month old post. My bad.

This is not beating a dead horse. I believe this may have been one of John's first posts on this issue.

The point I was making was that we may have missed the MOST important part here. The part that has to do with someone's soul.

I apologize.

Annie
 
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On the DL,

You wrote:

1. you are beating a dead horse. This has been discussed numerous times.

2. TSDA forum is not for debate. Please respect the forum rules.

3. It's been shown to you time and again the Bible condemns alcoholic wine because its corrupt nature, not just the drunkeness. If you do not accept it, it's fine. But can we move on please???

Sorry about that. I answered a month old post. My bad.

This is not beating a dead horse. I believe this may have been one of John's first posts on this issue.

The point I was making was that we may have missed the MOST important part here. The part that has to do with someone's soul.

I apologize.

Annie

My bad. It wasn't directed at you. But he did go over the same arguments on several different threads.
 
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I have a concern that has been convicting me for some time now. I am fairly new to the SDA community but I have done much study over the past few years, as well as, graduating from a Bible school. I have a burden for outreach and do much evangelism for the cause of Christ. But I have a stumbling block in a few of the teachings of the SDA. As I talk to many of the lay people many of the them seem to agree with me yet the teachings go on. Here is my concern and conviction maybe you can help me with it.

One of the things I have notice when people try to prove something is sinful they will go right to the extreme to prove what they believe, for example. When they speak of wine being sinful they will either show you a picture or paint a mental picture in your mind of a drunkard laying in the gutter all beat up and dirty. They will use this picture to prove that God says drinking fermented wine is a sin. Anyone in their right mind would agree with the picture as being a sinful state to be in but this is not a true and accurate representation. This would be like showing all the fatherless children and single mothers on welfare and saying God says sex is sinful. Both sex and fermented wine are not sinful in themselves, but rather, how we partake of them is what makes them sinful just like anything else. God's word says sex is for marriage and do not drink to get drunk.

Now the next step.

In order to support their belief in wine being sinful they say that when the Bible speaks of wine it's really referring to grape juice. But I struggle with interpreting the Bible to fit our beliefs rather than allowing the Bible to teach us what to believe.

When we plant a seed into the minds of people teaching them that something is sinful, when in fact it is not, we cause them to look at those who partake of wine as a person sinning. This is not good ministry work. My wife likes to drink a glass of wine with her meal and sometimes at night when she comes home from work. She won't come to church because of this guilt that is brought on by saying drinking wine is sinful.

Here are some of the reasons why I believe the Bible allows God's people to drink fermented wine. Though there are many more biblical verses that allow use of fermented wine by God's people I will only use a couple.

Deuteronomy 14:20-26 But of all clean fowls ye may eat. Ye shall not eat of any thing that dieth of itself: thou shalt give it unto the stranger that is in thy gates, that he may eat it; or thou mayest sell it unto an alien: for thou art an holy people unto the Lord thy God. Thou shalt not seethe a kid in his mother's milk. Thou shalt truly tithe all the increase of thy seed, that the field bringeth forth year by year. And thou shalt eat before the Lord thy God, in the place which he shall choose to place his name there, the tithe of thy corn, of thy wine, and of thine oil, and the firstlings of thy herds and of thy flocks; that thou mayest learn to fear the Lord thy God always. And if the way be too long for thee, so that thou art not able to carry it; or if the place be too far from thee, which the Lord thy God shall choose to set his name there, when the Lord thy God hath blessed thee: Then shalt thou turn it into money, and bind up the money in thine hand, and shalt go unto the place which the Lord thy God shall choose: And thou shalt bestow that money for whatsoever thy soul lusteth after, for oxen, or for sheep, or for wine, or for strong drink, or for whatsoever thy soul desireth: and thou shalt eat there before the Lord thy God, and thou shalt rejoice, thou, and thine household.

These are a very clear and convincing verses here but there is more.

1 Corinthians 11:20-22 Therefore when you come together in one place, it is not to eat the Lord's Supper. For in eating, each one takes his own supper ahead of others; and one is hungry and another is drunk. What! Do you not have houses to eat and drink in? Or do you despise the church of God and shame those who have nothing?

Here we have a fellowship supper where the brothers are eating all the food and drinking all the wine and are getting drunk because of it. This is surely fermented wine at this fellowship supper.

1 Timothy 3:8-9 Likewise deacons must be reverent, not double-tongued, not given to much wine, not greedy for money, holding the mystery of the faith with a pure conscience.

Here we are told that a deacon must not be given to MUCH wine, in other words, a drunkard. It does not say, a deacon must not drink any wine.

We know that Jesus turned water into wine. Some will say that it was grape juice because of the amount. But we could also say that there could have been 500 or more people at this wedding feast. We could also say that this wedding was going to last a few days. This would make the amount of wine Jesus made seem very small.

The Bible is very clear in that it says drunkenness is sinful in the same way it says adultery is sinful. Now we know sex is not sinful when it's done according to the word of God in like manner fermented wine is not sinful if used according to the word of God.

I say all this even though I myself don't even drink but I want to be a true witness to the truth of God's word. I also don't want to put false seeds of condemnation into the minds of God's people who see people drinking fermented wine.

Some may say this is a minor issue but I say it's not. The reason why I say it's not is because it's these kinds of teachings that keep people out of the church.

What are your thoughts?

Many blessings,
John

When I was a new Adventist/Christian I came from the point of view that a lot of things Adventists were against were not sinful, that they were being overexaggerated. Sure, they might not be the best thing in the world for you as a Christian..but sin seemed a heavy word.

Now I look at it differently. In my opinion, sin is heavily burdened on what a person 'believes' is sinful. If someone is ignorant to a sin, then God will judge them according to their ignorance at the time, if they were never given the opportunity to repent once shown.

This goes to understanding 'why' something is sinful, too. For example, I was told wearing jewelry was sinful as a new Christian. I was appauled. I couldn't understand why, and I actually got aggitated with it. Offended, because I loved my jewelry so much.

What was interesting, though, was that over time spent with God..I found myself slowly adapting out of wearing jewelry in a natural progression. It began to discust me. Not because I was reading what people or the Bible might say about it, but because God was impressing it in my heart that this could be a wrong thing. Yes, it's self expression..but it's also tied in with vanity, ego, lust, etc. By wearing it I would notice my pride would go up considerably, and quite often I would get noticed more for my jewelry/clothes than for myself.

Point being, God opened my eyes to seeing the evil sides of what I thought was a purely innocent practise. Does this mean I should judge another for wearing jewelry and call them sinners? No, of course not. But, if someone asked I would certainly not skip over the importance I see in not wearing it.

So, it is now a sin to me, personally. This works for anything. In our day, however, 'most' people know that tha major sins are wrong (murder, stealing, adultry)..so they are accountable as soon as they understand this fact.

To me, 'anything' that I consider to not be God's Will, can be labeled as a sin. A sin is simply something that is wrong in God's eyes, no? We've made it into this heavy term that people are edgy on attaching to things nowadays.

Simple way I consider if something is sinful for myself is to ask myself if I would do/say/wear/listen to this specific thing is Jesus was standing beside me. If there's any hesitation, there's sin within it. ;) If I were to then continue after assessing the sin within it, I am sinning against myself and God by willingly disobeying Him.

In my opinion, I'd rather 'not' drink alcohol and go to heaven to find out that it was okay..than to assume it might be okay, drink it, then find out it wasn't. Better to be safe than sorry. :)

Blessings and Love,
Sarah
 
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