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Body Piercing

the_man

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Ebb said:
I think it is mainly peer pressure that people get their bodies pierced. Each generation that comes on tries to "gross out" the other. What will it be like in 40 years, will every one try to look like Michael Jackson's plastic surgeries?
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It's an interesting topic, good points brought up from both sides of the issue.

This is what I think. I think it is good abstain from piercing of any kind (including ears). But if you really feel you need to have a creative outlet or an aesthetic need, it is good also. That is just like saying it is good to abstain from drinking. But if you really feel you must, it is good to drink as well. The disconnect is this; the latter (in both cases) exposes yourself to sin more than the former. For example, pretty much 90% of people will say ear piercings especially on girls is acceptable. 50% will say belly piercings are acceptable, 30% will say a nipple piercing is acceptable...I could go on and the percentage will drop continually. How come? It is because we are aproaching territory where we can clearly identify as "morally wrong". It is because piercing (like drinking) can be abused. A specific example, a lot of the world uses piercing for sexual prowess or medals of kinkyness. Piercing brings you closer to that than not piercing. Motives have a lot do with it and when it comes to motives we can only speak for ourselves.

I do not drink nor have any piercings.
 
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donny you also might wanna go back to lev and read that passage in its total context, and then do word studies, cultural studies, and tradition studies, if you did you would find out that the reason that was put into the Bible was because it was a cultural tradition (pagan) that during war if your friend was killed you would cut/tattoo your skin with their name so that you wouldnt forget it, that is the true meaning of the passage and why it was deemed a sin because it glorified people and not God :)
 
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At the risk of repeating myself from last July ....

Song of Solomon 1
[sup]10[/sup]Your cheeks are beautiful with earrings, your neck with strings of jewels. [sup]11[/sup]We will make you earrings of gold, studded with silver.

In Genesis 24, Abraham's sevant gives Rebekah bracelets and a nose ring as a token of his mission.

In Ezekiel 16, God gives Israel its jewelry as a token of his Love!
[sup]9[/sup]" 'I bathed you with water and washed the blood from you and put ointments on you. [sup]10[/sup]I clothed you with an embroidered dress and put leather sandals on you. I dressed you in fine linen and covered you with costly garments. [sup]11[/sup]I adorned you with jewelry: I put bracelets on your arms and a necklace around your neck, [sup]12[/sup]and I put a ring on your nose, earrings on your ears and a beautiful crown on your head. [sup]13[/sup]So you were adorned with gold and silver; your clothes were of fine linen and costly fabric and embroidered cloth.

HTH

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Is there any particular reason Jesus would not get a body piercing, if He lived today? Probably not something like a nipple piercing, of course, but other than personal likes/dislikes why wouldn't he get a nose ring?
 
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msjones21 said:
Is that where the Mormons get the magical underpants principle from?

^_^ :p
I head they get their own planet when they die (well, the men do at least) but dang, if they gets magical underwears too, I might have to give that a second look! :rolleyes: /end sarcasm]
 
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Tinker, awesome passages.

Donny_b

Using your reasoning then you should also make sure you don't shave and grow your sideburns out.

Each generation is different. Each generation does things the one previous thinks is weird, unacceptable and wrong.

Dont say use scripture to say something is wrong when it's really just persons that can't accept something different.

I'd put money down you parents dissaproved of some of the things you did because it wasn't something "their generation" would have done.

In terms of it comming close to the end of times, I definitely think not. We won't be able to imagine what the conditions will be prior to that happening.
 
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iklepac13 said:
This is so wonderfully stated. I could not agree more with this.

*upon reading Leviticus 19:19, iklepac13 rips off all his clothes and decides to spend the rest of his day wearing only his 100% cotton underwear. When asked why he did this he simply replied "Hey, Leviticus says don't wear clothes made of two kinds of material..."
Sorry bud, but you'll have to take off your underwear the tag is made from nylon. Doh! *Hands iklepac13 some leaves*
 
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Ebb said:
I think it is mainly peer pressure that people get their bodies pierced. Each generation that comes on tries to "gross out" the other. What will it be like in 40 years, will every one try to look like Michael Jackson's plastic surgeries?


Ebb, you obviously dont having any tattoos or body piercings!!


You may be a man with a mind of his own, but please dont assume that those of us who choose to be controversally fashionable are only doing so because we we are sheep who are led by, and wish to be like others.
 
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Hey, interesting thread. I have to wonder why msjones started it- she seems closed to any idea against her tounge ring. Just a thought. I just think we have to reason through our motives for things like piercings, and then judge if it violates our concience. Personally, I'm not a fan of multiple piercings or tatoos. I find them unnatural and distracting, and often they draw attention where it should not be drawn. Anyway, that's my point of view.
 
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rwl said:
I'd put money down you parents dissaproved of some of the things you did because it wasn't something "their generation" would have done.
I was born in 1960, so have seen a lot of changes over the past 40-some years. I remember the Leave It To Beaver-like days of the early 60's (Gee Wally) and remember when hair started getting longer and longer during the late 60s as the Vietnam War escalated and as men were landing on the moon. The 70's saw a lot of interesting hairstyles and fashions, and saw the rapid rise and fall (Thank goodness!) of disco. The 80's were a decade all to itself, and was probably my favorite. :)
 
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Donny_B said:
I was born in 1960, so have seen a lot of changes over the past 40-some years. I remember the Leave It To Beaver-like days of the early 60's (Gee Wally) and remember when hair started getting longer and longer during the late 60s as the Vietnam War escalated and as men were landing on the moon. The 70's saw a lot of interesting hairstyles and fashions, and saw the rapid rise and fall (Thank goodness!) of disco. The 80's were a decade all to itself, and was probably my favorite. :)
Then you should know exactly what I'm talking about.
 
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Snow, that does make sense but you also have to think to yourself, what is approachable. Each person is different.
-Normally-
A man in a business suit isn't approachable to a 16 year old hanging out on the streets wearing all black, long hair, tattoo's and piercings, smoking. And visa versa.
 
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Snowhite said:
well, alot has to do with a person's attitude and personality. But there is truth in what you say. But I don't think we should all run out and get tatooed so we can witness to the young crowd. =) There goes my sarcasm again...sorry about that.
If you were honestly sorry about the sarcasm wouldnt you've gone back and deleted it. Hmmmmm....:scratch:
 
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Sarcasm... not needed.

I'm crying now. ;)

Seriously though, I don't think the idea behind this thread was to give the message" Go out and get a tattoo, it's the new way to witness".

I think the message was more along the lines of “It’s ok to get a piercing or tattoo if you want to".

You are right and it is about attitude, but the first thing we are confronted with is appearance. Many can't get past that. Also with appearance comes a "common ground" or "like-mindedness" between two or more individuals. We don't automatically see someone’s attitude. That comes through getting to know someone.
 
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