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atheliah

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thank you all so much for your comfort, prayers and love. It means so much to me :hug:

I haven't had the D & C yet, basically because right now I just can't. I can not bear the thought of having my baby taken from me. Even though she is only tiny... to me, she was my baby... sounds silly to some, but I truly believed that this would be the one, and that it would be a girl... so I really bonded with this child and right now I feel as if I am giving up on her or something like that, if I have her taken from my body...

I know this is the grief process, and that the D & C has to be done... I will be having tests and such done to see why I am having these miscarriages.

Thank you all again :hug:
 
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